What makes a girl stand out from the rest?

[Anonymous]

[all_hayl]

Someone who isn’t a drama queen and don’t yap nonstop. “Physically attractive” is so relative that it doesn’t really mean anything. Sometimes my friends have thought a gal was attractive and I thought she was “average”. Also, I’m a conservative dude so similar values would attract me. In other words, if she’s dressed like a slut or sleeps around, I’m not interested.
different guys like different things though……so……I know this is cliche, but be yourself and don’t try to impress people. That way, people are seeing the real you instead of a fake you, and it takes most/all the pressure off of you since you’re not trying to be something that you’re not. Keep it simple and be yourself.

[FictionalCharacter]

You sound picky

[all_hayl]

@FictionalCharacter Maybe. And that’s fine if people think that. I don’t settle. I’ve seen many people settle. Didn’t work out so well.

[all_hayl]

I’m 39dm. I settled 17 years ago. So did she. I was divorced four years later. Like I said, I’ve seen it happen to others.

[all_hayl]

@FictionalCharacter if having relatively high standards makes me picky then yes I am picky. 🙂👍

[Asker]

What made you feel that you settled?

[all_hayl]

Answering that would require an essay. Suffice it to say we were both young, impatient, and stupid.

[all_hayl]

I will expound a tad. I married her because I was afraid to listen my my gut (which was telling me to break up with her) because breaking up meant starting over. I chose to marry her and hope that things
would fix themselves. They didn’t.

[Asker]

Well I'm 29 and I've honestly never got involved or looked for a relationship... I just spent it on travelling throughout my 20s I was in love with my passport lol I honestly don't care what people think either

[FilmGuy93]

Not many women believe me when I say this, but I promise it's true; be a pleasant person to interact with and put in effort for him, and you will stand out from other women.

It really is that simple. Just make the guy feel like you want him around.

When I say to be pleasant, what I really mean is that you should strive to not be actively antagonistic. You don't have to agree with everything the guy says and be quiet; just don't constantly fight with him over shit that doesn't matter. Are so many women who will constantly argue, berate, belittle, and generally shit on the men in their lives. As long as you are not one of those women (and the guy you're with isn't a piece of crap), you will stand out.

[soccerchick4eva]

I think it's the way she carries herself, how she interacts with others and just the personality that shines through 🤷‍♀️

[Sirenboobzilla]

Confidence. You can look however you are; walk and carry yourself with confidence and you'll stand out.

[exitseven]

This is a good question. It depends on the two participants and the respective place they are in their lives.
I once told a girl that there was her, and then there was everyone else. She thought that was pretty cool.

[drdank518]

If she likes to wear shorts and show off her legs. A lot of men love a smooth, shiny sexy pair of legs

[mark000h]

Confidence, kind hearted, vulnerable, willing to love and be loved, caring and considerate, physically attractive

[mark000h]

Oh and the biggie, intelligence. Intelligence is sexy.

[rocksongwriter]

When she goes on a crime spree.

Just kidding. Actually, I'll say her appearance and personality makes her stand out from the rest.

[normalice]

If she is reasonably attractive and has a reputation for one of my kinks.

[JohnK123]

Not showing her tis on Instagram in her stories like come on. I don’t want a girl who makes her body appear better than it is. Only honest girls for me please

[LegendaryIcon]

not being a cultist sheep, like trump supporters are

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Well from the obvious physical beauty, it will be her sweet nature, kindness and submmisivenes.

[Anonymous]

Very beautiful obviously, dresses classy, smiley and gives eye contact. Confident but not overly confident.
The best way to stand out is be really beautiful haha

[ArrowheadSW]

If she is real tall... LOL

[tasleen]

Confidence about her looks

[Seangreen]

How she uses her brain

[scott04sa22]

Someone who loves kids and loves cooking

[HooliganMcCooligan]

Jewelry and a kickass attitude.

[bamesjond0069]

If she's a virgin or perfect looks.

[noohair]

The inner glow from the heart.

[Hellraiser1984]

Kindness and being down to earth.

[OddBeMe]

Confidence. Good sense of humor.

[Hulk30]

the quality of her personality

[JohntheUnk]

Character and Loyalty