Confident and initiative girls that know how to keep a conversation going. Hands down the biggest quality that will make a girl stand out from the rest. Almost every single girl I come across, regardless if I'm simply trying to converse or flirt, is shy, or a boring one-word responder, or never sends the first text, never asks me questions, and simply doesn't try to converse with me. It usually feels like an interview, and trust me, that's annoying AF and will keep you single for a long time. Give fuller detailed answers that we can build a conversation off of. What's a guy supposed to say when you reply with Yes, No, Good, I don't know, hbu, haha, etc? The girls that do actually say hi to me, give me detailed answers, ask me thoughtful questions, and actually want to talk to me, they stand out. I don't think people realize how much power simply saying Hi, Hello, Hey, or Good Morning has. Seriously, you will immediately start getting noticed just from saying one of those 4 things to everybody. Or if you're a real daredevil, you could even say How are you doing or How's it going. Not saying these girls don't exist, but I certainly don't come across a lot of them, and when I do, they're usually already in a relationship.
Are they hard to forget? Well if they have those qualities that make them stand out more, then the answer should be an obvious no. And furthermore if she's single, you bet she's gonna be on my mind!
What qualities in a girl makes her different from the rest?
There are many qualities that make a girl different from the rest, but some of the most important ones are her intelligence, her wit, and her ability to have fun.
Intelligence: A girl who is intelligent is able to understand things quickly and easily. She is able to see the world in a different way and to think about things in a different way. She is also able to use her intelligence to solve problems and to make decisions.
Wit: A girl who is witty is able to say things that are funny and that make people laugh. She is also able to come up with clever comments and to make people think.
Ability to have fun: A girl who is able to have fun is someone who is always up for a good time. She is able to enjoy herself and to make others enjoy themselves. She is also able to make people feel comfortable and to make them want to be around her.
I would say intelligence and confidence to initiate. as well as emotional maturity. having an interesting theoreticle convo is stimulating. having the woman or girl initiate things or set plans to try something new. finally emotional maturity by this I really mean not blowing things out of proportion. so if your self conscious about your body don't take ur guy not wanting to have sex that night or wanting to hangout as a personal attack. just talk and say what and why. give them time to change if they don't then break up if they do great continue on.
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"You're not like other girls," is something guys say all the freaking time, and it's so misleading. To translate, it means, "I find you cute and cool to be around." That's it. Unless you're a brave disable child beating cancer that has a 1% survival rate, you're as common as they come, which is good because no one is meant to be above the rest, but instead to be special toward the people that actually know and love them.
Realistically, we all share universal traits and behavior that slightly differ depending on our upbringing, environment, personality, etc. Even the, "I'm not like other girls," is a universal thought a majority of women go through at some point in their life. For example, a male friend that liked me said I wasn't like other girls because I wasn't materialistic, etc and I started thinking I was the exception! Ah, those days were so cringey. I eventually woke up and got over myself.
To make you like no other girl, you'll hear boldness, wit, intelligence, confidence, etc. Just shit any normal person can achieve through self-awareness, maturity, humility, and possibly therapy/medication if there's a mental illness. There are millions of women on your continent alone, and most men only interact with the hundreds in their area, there's no way that out of billions of people, you or anyone is the 1% who just not like other girls.
Qell basically in today's toxic intitled dating world, it boils down to
1 find an average looking girl that realizes she is average without being depressed by the hard truth that she isn't a 10, cause so many girls either see themselves as perfect or as trash, they never find a middle ground. Any girl that's a 6 or up thinks they deserve some 10/10 guy "I just want a guy over 6 foot, with 6 pack abs, makes 6 figure income and treats me like a princess"
2 isn't crazy or a bitch, which is surprisingly hard, girls now literally out themselves as difficult in apps by saying things like "I'm a handfull" or will just admit "I'm stubborn", like it's something to be proud of.
So basiclly a halfway decent looking girl with her head in reality stands out from the crowd, not hard, be decent looking (average), don't act crazy ( mixed signals, random tests, jealous/insecure about other women) and don't be a bitch (entitled to special treatment cause you think you are hot, treat men like options.
Just 3 things, we only look for 3 things.
No I believe that we are all special and unique in our own way . And now you have me curious and what they're talking about
I would have to look into your eyes feel your energy
Because that's truly Who You Are
Good our body is our Temple with houses something really special our soul, our spirit energy energy is our teacher and our guide. Your eyes allow me to see within on how beautiful your heart is and who you are. We all can do this it just depends how deep you look and how honest you want to be so if I can please post a picture and I can tell you
Pleasant most girls are not pleasant be optimistic
Submissive let the man lead dont make it difficult many girls do let the man lead but they are so difficult like every 5 seconds challenging a man. I dont got time for that much nonsense.
Low or no bodycount. Men dont like sluts. So wherever you're at be very selective about adding to it.
Self improve. Go to the gym. Eat healthy. Be spiritual ie read the bible daily or if you're atheist meditate or something like that. Have some goals. Can even just be little things but work towards something. Not a goal like be a fighter pilot or senator thats a turn off.
Homemaker skills. Cook clean write thank you cards calendar all your engagements. Stuff like that.
Nobody had to be perfect but if you're mindful of each thing on this list you will definitely be better than most.
Yes. They are hard to forget.
I guess the women we respect the most are the ones we end up seeing in a different light. Maturity helps a lot. Being supportive. Not wanting the goddman Batman, just a good guy. Judging less. Able to carry a conversation on nearly any topic. Sympathetic and empathic with others.
Well some traits are rare by themselves, like being really attractive or really beautiful. I also consider modesty to be kinda rare nowadays. Its hard to find a girl who hasn't sent nudes to tons of guys and hasn't had fuckbuddies or one night stand.
That said, I think a girl becomes really rare when she posses several rare traits simultaneously. So a girl who is intelligennt, sweet, and modest would be irreplaceable in my opinion.
Good communication, honesty, loyalty.
Most women like to think they're good communicators but they're really not. Their idea of communication is dropping hints and then getting mad because you didn't decode what she wanted you to. And I'm not saying Most women downright lie. Most of there lies are lies of omission. They just don't always tell you the full truth and justify it somehow in their mind.
Now to a lesser extent loyalty. Given women's secretive nature it's just hard to trust their loyalty sometimes. And if you get one that cheats on you with half your friends. Again given women's secretive nature it's hard NOT to think the next woman you meet is the same.
So if you find an honest, loyal, woman who's a good communicator. DON'T LET GO OF HER!
Girls that stand out for me will have a glow about them their eyes grab ahold of you and when you’re hanging out together they make you feel like it’s just you and her no matter where we are or how many people that are there and most of all she is a kind and caring person that’s confident in who she is and doesn’t need to be the center of everybody’s attention
Being less flaky than the usual insecure lot - being more relaxed about interpersonal relationships/able to show her interest rather than lock it up expecting a prince to climb the tower. Sufficient maturity - which is a preamble to confidence.
Basically initiate texts.
Invite him out solo.
No mind games.
And also don't do this. Check my question out: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2100930-why-do-women-bluetick-read-a-message-not-reply-to-good-people-see
Intelligence stands out to me the most. When a girl can arouse me intellectuals as well as sexually? I mean damn that's a woman I don't want to ever let go of.
When she doesn't expect me to pay for her, then she truly stands out to me. Then i dont feel like i am a bag of money to her.
Or when she tells me "imagine all your money is gone. Can you impress me?"
There are a certain number of "girls" who want to be paid just for showing up and being pretty. Those Freeloaders/gold diggers.
Hahha basic male brains do not trust them they are literally lying. They think you are a little fish and try to eat you cuz they are wilder bigger fishes ;)
For me... what would make a girl different, and a turn-on, would be... NO tattoo's, piercings, I-phone gadgets, or using a lot of the words and terms that young people typically use. IE: the way girls USED to be
Genuine femininity, as opposed to the fake demon shit we see on the reg these days. Like empathy and nurturing nature, influential but not domineering or pushy, graceful. It is a lost art
Her personality, many girls can look pretty. Finding a girl who's mature, empathetic, honest and down to earth. She think for herself and doesn't chase societal norms.
Virginity.
Piety.
Honesty.
Trustworthiness.
Whatever the opposite of "neurotic" or "insecure" is lol.
Loyalty.
Getting harder to find this trait by the day.
Character. Wisdom. Level-headedness. Good decision-making ability. Morality.
And also compassion and kindness.
And a sweet and fun-loving nature.
Personal to each person depending what life gave you. What is unqiue to your guys and not to us
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