When you say "what makes a girl stand out from other girls", I'm going to assume you mean "for interest in a relationship" - which for guys is distinctively DIFFERENT than "for wanting to have sex with." Don't confuse the two.
Obviously her looks play a part, but there are lots of physically attractive girls, and that's not enough to make me want a relationship with her. I mostly look at her personality traits and attitude. I look for:
- positive attitude (not negative or depressed)
- not easily offended or looking to be offended
- FUN; someone who smiles and laughs a decent percentage of the time
- not overly needy or clingy (understands that work time is for work, etc.)
- not emotionally unstable
If those things seem to check out, then I will want to start dating her, and talking a LOT about COMPATIBILITY - because I need to know that we have high levels of compatibility, because if we don't, a long-term relationship wont' be possible. But that part comes after you've decided to try dating; the personality part, and the looks/physical attraction part come before.
Girls who know what they want are hot. I'm sick of indecisiveness and games. If a girl takes the lead somewhat and makes it clear that she's interested she will have my attention. A lot of girls don't like the idea of that. They seem to think that making a move on someone is hypermasculine. If one girl is really pretty and the other is okay looking but somewhat aggressive I'm not gonna even look at the really pretty one. So if they're content to be alone then all the power to them, I'll continue to leave them alone.
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Looks can play a big part, until they're in the same 'ballpark' looks wise as the competition.
At that point? Loyalty, sexual compatibility, low drama, fits in well socially with friends, etc.
Guys with options are going to be the least flexible about the -type- of relationship they want. They don't meet the girl then negotiate, they know already. If they want casual sex, that's all they will have. If they want a girlfriend, they'll find a girl who often doesn't sleep around but is great for them only. If they want to settle down, they're picking the low drama/good with money/sex is good/social fits in/would be a good mother girl.
When I was 18 used to think of my 15 year old teenage cousin as just another girl plain, boyish, short and a bit chubby because she always wore clothes that made her look fat and didn't show off her figure. That was until one day while on holiday at the lake with our families and family friends she was wearing a bikkini that not only showed of her gorgeous figure but also revealed that she had rather large breasts. I guess what im trying to say is that I never noticed her as a woman until that moment and what made her stand out from the other girls was that her breasts were so much bigger.
Hmmm I guess dont be as crazy as the others? if you're fighting over a guy dont try and grab him and run off also dont attack the other girls you're fighting with. just approach calm and cool and just talk really dont even bring up relationship stuff just be friendly.
Her personality does. There's so many attractive ladies out there. But if I know you as a person and you're just such an awesome person to be with, you're already levels above the others for me
All other girls are hoes but you are a sweet and cute girl who is relationship material... Thats what makes you stand out..
They can be the initiator
They can genuinely make me laugh
Share interests
Not materialistic
have a kind of tough side to them
If she has just as many friends as she wants, but not too many (like 2 or 3) who she walks around with and she looks hot and doesn't feel awkward around guys.
can she play guitar? can she do math? can she cook? does she nag me to do shit i don't want to do? if he's got girlfriends, leave him be, and work on yourself.
It's really an X factor. Sometimes I see a girl and something just clicks in my brain and I must get to know her.
when she has this weird sense of humor that is also funny.
She's up for fun and not stuckup also if she's smart I like witty girls 😛
Lots of girls are after me?
LOL!
Not even in my dreams!
Good looking, wears nice clothes, hang out with the right crowd. x
I generally try form an emotionally connection with a girl. So if i am doing something and a girl comes to help then it helps build a connection
Purple hair and a face tattoo.
Bigger boobs, longer legs, skinnier
not being a bitch ! having a nice pussy.
What she tells me
Obviously her looks play a part
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