A girl's beauty is what will grab my attention right off the bat, so I suppose that's what fits your description of "stand out."
But I've trained myself not to rely on beauty, as much as it catches my eye, and to instead rely on her character when deciding who to date.
So what makes a girl stand out to me is when she does the right thing even though she's surrounded by people doing the wrong thing. If she's the only one to clean up a mess that 20 people walked past, that catches my eye; if she's the only person not to cheat on a test out of a class of 25, she stands out to me; if she steps up and volunteers to introduce the speaker even though she hates public speaking, I come away impressed.
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When she's comfortable in her own skin. Don't get me wrong I have a type, but there's more than that, cuz if I don't something about a girl in theory, like if she got a boob job and wears low cut tops to show them -which I hate in general- I can forget about it and find myself head over heels for her if she feels comfortable in her own skin about her decisions and doesn't let others opinions of her alter how she behaves and dresses. I think that alone can override a lot of "turn offs" if she's comfortable and confident without being painfully self involved and arrogant.
Although I'm straight and like men this holds true for both sexes. Intelligence, the way they treat others, their attitude, and THE WAY YOU DRESS. If a guy or girl is dressed basic, follows trends I as u me their snoby trash and I avoid talking to them. But shy people or intoverts 😍 They do their own thing and don't care what other people think about them and they aren't brainwashed by society. I like thoes quiet people who usually don't talk in class. And yet when they're called on by a teacher, they always know the answer. Usually those are the people who go on to do great things and end up highly successful.
I'm really attracted to the way a person carries themselves. I find it really attractive when someone knows what they want and they go for it. So basically when someone is mentally, emotionally, and physically strong.
I get most attention when I smile, always smile whilst talking. It can be very flirty. I've always been really good at manipulating people with my eyes which drives boys crazy
One who is not trying to stand out but just being herself, perhaps?
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Of the girls who have legitimately stood out to me it was usually girls who approached me. Making eye contact and reaching out to shake my hand for an introduction. You'd be surprised how uncommon that is today. I remember a girl back in highschool who made that clear an introduction and have never forgotten it. Just because so many people don't do it.
That immediate openness and show of being outgoing, even if you're not that outgoing can leave an impression. Not too many girls stand out to me unless I really like their style, or she's very unique in some visible way or is very very attractive. But generally most notable for standing out is girls who are more direct or girls with a nice sense of style, with a bit of sex appeal.Well it's not something you can teach, but it's elegance, for me. Some women just have a certain something that makes them exude subtle sexiness, confidence, class, taste, gentility, most importantly: simplicity. Simple but elegant women have an aura that fills every space they are in with calm and joy. And if she doesn't have it, she simply doesn't have it and elegance cannot be forced without becoming trashy.
I would almost consider it a genetic thing, because I've met many women who have the elegance gene, but their sisters simply do not compare. It's truly fascinating.The world is a sea of try hard and insecure women covered in makeup and completely fake, a lot of who have a pretty bad outlook on men. It's so completely mundane and boring at this point.
Women that stand out for me are women who offer up as much respect to men as they think they deserve back. Who care about traditional values and have a good heart. Who are interested in their responsibilities and being a force for good in the world, rather than moaning about their rights all the time and what they're entitled to.
In my personal experience more traditional women tend to dress more conservatively, not need to overdo the makeup, and have a more natural feminine look with long natural hair.
Extremely rare in the UK today at least in my neck of the woods, too many die hard liberals who are trying to be as much like men as possible.- Physically attractive (duh)
- Positive attitude (critical!)
- Honest and straightforward
- Good morals and values
- Good work ethic
- A desire to be a true partner/team member in a relationship
- A drive to learn and to improve herself in various ways
- sex-positive (enjoys sex and not hung up about it)
Most of the other things can be worked out, but these things she more or less NEEDS to arrive with from the start in order for me to consider her "girlfriend material".A beautifully structured face, uncommon features such as red hair or unique eyes, a kind, nurturing and intellectual personality, creative talents such as music or drawing, and I'm a guy, so let's face it: a beautiful form is eye-catching as well. I generally prefer angular faces over round ones. Hair is also very important to me. Unnatural dyed colors are generally a turnoff, but I find all natural colors beautiful. One of the most important things though is a brilliant mind and a unique outlook on life.
She should be introvert like me. Talk less. We have mutual trust, sharing, don't smoke, drink (I don't either). Also talk less to guys, I don't talk to girls at all. Also respect me and I will treat her like a queen of my world. I am not that kinda person who is hungry for (looks, boobs and ass). Ofcourse I would like it but that not something i am looking for. And I would beore than happy to help her in every way possible. I like the idea of being supportive to her on her (period days ) she would find me adorabe. I don't let her miss anyone else. I would appreciate her every move. I would make her fall in love with me. I would show my efforts for her to be comfortable and happy around me. I don't expect much. But infact I would happily make it costomised according to her requirements.
Straight up! If she's not a bitch! Girl can be fat, she can be homely, she could have buck teeth that make her look like a horse, and Ill take a retarded girl out first too, cause none of them gonna be a princess. Im sorry daddy fed you lies, but you are not royalty, might have mono, but you ain't in no monarchy. Go ahead and wear your tiara in public princess, all your subjects gonna show you why this country fought england cause we wanted a queen, same is true today.
1. Beauty and poise. That gets my attention.
2. Intelligence. That maintains my attention.
3. Traditional conservative political, family and social values. That means that she might be a keeper.First off, a cute face that you just want to wrap your tongue around lol. I like women who go natural and don't wear make up, it shows she is comfortable in her own skin and doesn't care about the opinionated glares or comments. Never understood what you women were trying to make-up for? What are you hiding beneath the globs of make-up you put on? Why would you care so much what others thought? I don't care if she's emotionally troubled, or even a little crazy, if she has intelligence, a cute face and a nice butt, I can look past all her other flaws. As long as she doesn't wear globs of make-up, major turn off for me. The closer I get to your face, I want to see pores, not layers of make-up, it looks gross.
Maybe not what most of the comments say but I genuinely care a hell of a lot about the right personality.
I want to know i can trust her and she's empathetic women want trust but there are a lot risks men face as well also abuse in relationships manipulation by their partner with horrific consequences etc so it's important there trustworthy and on the worst days still have a pleasant nature.
I obviosly want someone i enjoy being with or there isn't much point in a relationship looks obviosly form part of that but we have to get on well.
I want some one open to trying new things and to be able to discuss things without me feeling i had to censor my self and with them feeling comfortable opening up to me.I guess if she has a big dog then I notice her... I usually want to pet the dog though. The girl can wait. Petting a big dog is more important to me.
Holy shit. Sometimes, simply the way a girl moves or looks at you and COMPLETELY change how I view her. Do a cute shoulder wiggle, do the Shakira shuffle with your hips, look at me with a desiring smile and I will fucking melt and pool over to you in a heartbeat. These things can turn me upside down.
Girls that are comfortable loners.
Maybe it's just me but when I look around a crowd and see individual girls doing things solo it automatically makes her stand out.
But when a girl is in a group no matter how much I see them I look at them collectivelyHer eyes , I think that the most beautiful thing to a girl are her eyes
Another thing that stanf out for me is the smile , I mean when you see her smiling you forget about everything and everyoneUsually her personality, so many girls now are focused on themselves and what every celebrity is up to. I just meet a country girl ( who is extremely attractive) and she's easy to talk to and more down to earth then most of the city girls I've come across. I won't ask her out but she's a good mate to have it's nice just having a good friend :)
Well if you mean right away without talking to her and learning what kind of girl she is, first I notice her hair, especially if she's a redhead and second her eyes. Especially if she has big blue eyes. I always notice hair then eyes but redheads are my favorite and blue eyes. Those I don't ever miss.
Unique interests and passions. There's virtually infinite women who like walks, like partying, cute things, blah blah blah.
I would be much more interested in a girl who wants to start her own business, or likes learning about technology, or is rebuilding a classic car, or designs and makes her own clothes. It's the unique feeling of a unique person.If our personalities are compatible, if she can see me as a friend and desiring something more. I enjoy the subtle flirting even if I don't catch on to it immediately. I basically let her choose me if she wants me.
This is all my opinion but, physically, it starts at the eyes then works its way down. If you get to talking, it's the voice then of course what that voice is saying. Unpoppular opinion, smell is an indication for attractiveness but that works both ways. Articulation and blunt honesty is attractive.
For many, physical looks stand out first, shortly followed by seeing how she carries herself. When she's at the register at a store does she exude a courteous and cheerful impression? When she's hard at work does she still keep her personality as present as when she's off the clock? In just those two instances a guy can find out a lot about a girl. If you show qualities that the guy likes, then yea you'll really stand out.
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