Guys: What makes a girl stand out to you?

Question

What makes a girl stand out to you?

Canuck37 · Accepted Answer

A girl's beauty is what will grab my attention right off the bat, so I suppose that's what fits your description of "stand out."

But I've trained myself not to rely on beauty, as much as it catches my eye, and to instead rely on her character when deciding who to date.

So what makes a girl stand out to me is when she does the right thing even though she's surrounded by people doing the wrong thing. If she's the only one to clean up a mess that 20 people walked past, that catches my eye; if she's the only person not to cheat on a test out of a class of 25, she stands out to me; if she steps up and volunteers to introduce the speaker even though she hates public speaking, I come away impressed.

Loon309 · Accepted Answer

When she's comfortable in her own skin. Don't get me wrong I have a type, but there's more than that, cuz if I don't something about a girl in theory, like if she got a boob job and wears low cut tops to show them -which I hate in general- I can forget about it and find myself head over heels for her if she feels comfortable in her own skin about her decisions and doesn't let others opinions of her alter how she behaves and dresses. I think that alone can override a lot of "turn offs" if she's comfortable and confident without being painfully self involved and arrogant.

The_FallenOne · Accepted Answer

Although I'm straight and like men this holds true for both sexes. Intelligence, the way they treat others, their attitude, and THE WAY YOU DRESS. If a guy or girl is dressed basic, follows trends I as u me their snoby trash and I avoid talking to them. But shy people or intoverts 😍 They do their own thing and don't care what other people think about them and they aren't brainwashed by society. I like thoes quiet people who usually don't talk in class. And yet when they're called on by a teacher, they always know the answer. Usually those are the people who go on to do great things and end up highly successful.

BleepRawrsaurus_Rex · Accepted Answer

I'm really attracted to the way a person carries themselves. I find it really attractive when someone knows what they want and they go for it. So basically when someone is mentally, emotionally, and physically strong.

emymushmass · Accepted Answer

I get most attention when I smile, always smile whilst talking. It can be very flirty. I've always been really good at manipulating people with my eyes which drives boys crazy

melodicstacey · Accepted Answer

One who is not trying to stand out but just being herself, perhaps?

rjroy3 · Answer

Of the girls who have legitimately stood out to me it was usually girls who approached me. Making eye contact and reaching out to shake my hand for an introduction. You'd be surprised how uncommon that is today. I remember a girl back in highschool who made that clear an introduction and have never forgotten it. Just because so many people don't do it.

That immediate openness and show of being outgoing, even if you're not that outgoing can leave an impression. Not too many girls stand out to me unless I really like their style, or she's very unique in some visible way or is very very attractive. But generally most notable for standing out is girls who are more direct or girls with a nice sense of style, with a bit of sex appeal.

winterfox10 · Answer

Well it's not something you can teach, but it's elegance, for me. Some women just have a certain something that makes them exude subtle sexiness, confidence, class, taste, gentility, most importantly: simplicity. Simple but elegant women have an aura that fills every space they are in with calm and joy. And if she doesn't have it, she simply doesn't have it and elegance cannot be forced without becoming trashy.

I would almost consider it a genetic thing, because I've met many women who have the elegance gene, but their sisters simply do not compare. It's truly fascinating.

Frosteh · Answer

The world is a sea of try hard and insecure women covered in makeup and completely fake, a lot of who have a pretty bad outlook on men. It's so completely mundane and boring at this point.

Women that stand out for me are women who offer up as much respect to men as they think they deserve back. Who care about traditional values and have a good heart. Who are interested in their responsibilities and being a force for good in the world, rather than moaning about their rights all the time and what they're entitled to.

In my personal experience more traditional women tend to dress more conservatively, not need to overdo the makeup, and have a more natural feminine look with long natural hair.

Extremely rare in the UK today at least in my neck of the woods, too many die hard liberals who are trying to be as much like men as possible.

MrOracle · Answer

- Physically attractive (duh)
- Positive attitude (critical!)
- Honest and straightforward
- Good morals and values
- Good work ethic
- A desire to be a true partner/team member in a relationship
- A drive to learn and to improve herself in various ways
- sex-positive (enjoys sex and not hung up about it)

Most of the other things can be worked out, but these things she more or less NEEDS to arrive with from the start in order for me to consider her "girlfriend material".

TheOneironaut · Answer

A beautifully structured face, uncommon features such as red hair or unique eyes, a kind, nurturing and intellectual personality, creative talents such as music or drawing, and I'm a guy, so let's face it: a beautiful form is eye-catching as well. I generally prefer angular faces over round ones. Hair is also very important to me. Unnatural dyed colors are generally a turnoff, but I find all natural colors beautiful. One of the most important things though is a brilliant mind and a unique outlook on life.

Anonymous · Answer

She should be introvert like me. Talk less. We have mutual trust, sharing, don't smoke, drink (I don't either). Also talk less to guys, I don't talk to girls at all. Also respect me and I will treat her like a queen of my world. I am not that kinda person who is hungry for (looks, boobs and ass). Ofcourse I would like it but that not something i am looking for. And I would beore than happy to help her in every way possible. I like the idea of being supportive to her on her (period days ) she would find me adorabe. I don't let her miss anyone else. I would appreciate her every move. I would make her fall in love with me. I would show my efforts for her to be comfortable and happy around me. I don't expect much. But infact I would happily make it costomised according to her requirements.

m0t0rcyclist · Answer

Straight up! If she's not a bitch! Girl can be fat, she can be homely, she could have buck teeth that make her look like a horse, and Ill take a retarded girl out first too, cause none of them gonna be a princess. Im sorry daddy fed you lies, but you are not royalty, might have mono, but you ain't in no monarchy. Go ahead and wear your tiara in public princess, all your subjects gonna show you why this country fought england cause we wanted a queen, same is true today.

cth96190 · Answer

1. Beauty and poise. That gets my attention. 2. Intelligence. That maintains my attention. 3. Traditional conservative political, family and social values. That means that she might be a keeper.

Anonymous · Answer

First off, a cute face that you just want to wrap your tongue around lol. I like women who go natural and don't wear make up, it shows she is comfortable in her own skin and doesn't care about the opinionated glares or comments. Never understood what you women were trying to make-up for? What are you hiding beneath the globs of make-up you put on? Why would you care so much what others thought? I don't care if she's emotionally troubled, or even a little crazy, if she has intelligence, a cute face and a nice butt, I can look past all her other flaws. As long as she doesn't wear globs of make-up, major turn off for me. The closer I get to your face, I want to see pores, not layers of make-up, it looks gross.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe not what most of the comments say but I genuinely care a hell of a lot about the right personality.
I want to know i can trust her and she's empathetic women want trust but there are a lot risks men face as well also abuse in relationships manipulation by their partner with horrific consequences etc so it's important there trustworthy and on the worst days still have a pleasant nature.
I obviosly want someone i enjoy being with or there isn't much point in a relationship looks obviosly form part of that but we have to get on well.

I want some one open to trying new things and to be able to discuss things without me feeling i had to censor my self and with them feeling comfortable opening up to me.

Jacob-Kuro · Answer

I guess if she has a big dog then I notice her... I usually want to pet the dog though. The girl can wait. Petting a big dog is more important to me.

claw09 · Answer

Holy shit. Sometimes, simply the way a girl moves or looks at you and COMPLETELY change how I view her. Do a cute shoulder wiggle, do the Shakira shuffle with your hips, look at me with a desiring smile and I will fucking melt and pool over to you in a heartbeat. These things can turn me upside down.

Anonymous · Answer

Girls that are comfortable loners.
Maybe it's just me but when I look around a crowd and see individual girls doing things solo it automatically makes her stand out.
But when a girl is in a group no matter how much I see them I look at them collectively

osmeron · Answer

Her eyes , I think that the most beautiful thing to a girl are her eyes  Another thing that stanf out for me is the smile , I mean when you see her smiling you forget about everything and everyone

Lukej044 · Answer

Usually her personality, so many girls now are focused on themselves and what every celebrity is up to. I just meet a country girl ( who is extremely attractive) and she's easy to talk to and more down to earth then most of the city girls I've come across. I won't ask her out but she's a good mate to have it's nice just having a good friend :)

ImHere4You · Answer

Well if you mean right away without talking to her and learning what kind of girl she is, first I notice her hair, especially if she's a redhead and second her eyes. Especially if she has big blue eyes. I always notice hair then eyes but redheads are my favorite and blue eyes. Those I don't ever miss.

Gracefulhippo · Answer

Unique interests and passions. There's virtually infinite women who like walks, like partying, cute things, blah blah blah.

I would be much more interested in a girl who wants to start her own business, or likes learning about technology, or is rebuilding a classic car, or designs and makes her own clothes. It's the unique feeling of a unique person.

AriesMan · Answer

If our personalities are compatible, if she can see me as a friend and desiring something more. I enjoy the subtle flirting even if I don't catch on to it immediately. I basically let her choose me if she wants me.

Erijuru · Answer

This is all my opinion but, physically, it starts at the eyes then works its way down. If you get to talking, it's the voice then of course what that voice is saying. Unpoppular opinion, smell is an indication for attractiveness but that works both ways. Articulation and blunt honesty is attractive.

jtink · Answer

For many, physical looks stand out first, shortly followed by seeing how she carries herself. When she's at the register at a store does she exude a courteous and cheerful impression? When she's hard at work does she still keep her personality as present as when she's off the clock? In just those two instances a guy can find out a lot about a girl. If you show qualities that the guy likes, then yea you'll really stand out.

ohi0joe · Answer

Not being on her phone or having headphones in. You automatically become pretty much unapproachable. Smiling and eye contact work. It's not so much about what you're wearing but showing that it's okay to come up and talk to you as a stranger. Most guys (that I know at least) look for signs not to talk to a girl rather than signs to talk to her.

Mitch6192 · Answer

Honestly it's how pleasent she is to talk to.
Like... you know the way some girls roll their eyes or ignore you, when you smile or say hello to them? - This is a big turn off.
Wheras if she smiles back, or even wants to start a conversation, this means she's 1. Confident
2. Makes me ignore every other girl in the room (Because she stands out)

Kru2020 · Answer

The girl with personality; the one thats funny, dorky and is nice to everyone. She's humble and but still confident. She takes care of herself, and cares about her health. Just an all around good person with goals and self respect. This is the girl that every guy falls for, but only a lucky few can get her.

Samyelson · Answer

A female stands out to me when she has anything of similar interest in her possession. I personally am a huge nerd, so a female would stand out to me if she happens to be wearing a Zelda shirt that day, or I notice her purse or wallet has something nerdy on it.

Logorithim · Answer

How well she relates to others, how genuine she is, how comfortable she is with herself. Yes, her Looks Count too, but that's secondary. The main Thing I'm looking at is, "is it going to be enjoyable to spend a lot of time with her..."

purple_lemming · Answer

Hmm, that's tough, usually I notice basic things such as weight and style. Like I want someone who can take care of themselves, someone who is healthier. Also by their style you can sometimes tell what someone is into. Then I notice the hair, I appreciate good hairstyles lol ( I have a thing for shorter hair). Then so on and so forth, those are just what makes a girl stand out and catch my eye, but it is the personality and if there is a connection that makes the person.

Nerdking · Answer

Happy, Friendly, smiling, has a passion,

Personal stuff: long hair or short hair, anime/videogame fan, glasses are hot to me, talkative, optimism, Ac-Cc, nice shape, short women makes me studder, tall women makes me bashful, i love hugs, eye contact, initiates physical contact

theblueknight · Answer

Her talents or passions in something.  A happy, optimistic girl is way more attractive than a sad, pessimistic girl.

wassux · Answer

Elegance. This works for every man. Elegance is part of everything a woman does. It means she is smart and educated, move elegantly, talks elegantly, has a elegant posture, dresses elegantly. When an elegant woman enters the room, everyone notices.

gGreat · Answer

Just physically,. Nothing specific because everyone seem to have a similar sense of fashion. Her attitude in the sense that some steadfastness, patience and good judgement of character, for these traits I would really make a fool of myself to ask her out. Unfortunately, these are too rare a quality. So,.. making it work with what I get.

sexyalphamale · Answer

Easy. If you're interested and you tell me you're interested. Actually make efforts to hang out. Don't text me for a week or 2 and respond to everything and be engaging, and then always find an excuse not to hang out. I just cut a girl off for this. Like why waste our time? Why play games?

SuperEunuch · Answer

For guys in general, I think It's just whichever girls that happen to be their type. For me personally, my type is the kind, tough, friendly yet quiet yet straightforward ones who seem to have their own type of laid back yet prudish style. Average or chubby body, and overall get along with me and stuff

Goldnessy · Answer

I guess where a guy looking at.
But first they looking how you're look more how you looking at the world. After a moment you're look isn't so interesting anymore, so thet look at you're personallity. But for sure, every man is different.

Graydon · Answer

Personality. I want a girl who is loving, caring, sweet and laid back but most important, someone who I can trust and tell all my deepest secrets too as well as all the traumatic events I've been through in life. But I want her to be pretty as well.

AbbyHart · Answer

To any guy the first thing he notices is her body. but after getting to know her. it's her personality that makes her stand out

QueenofSexyFoxes · Answer

Im loving how i got these features (no make up, etc) and guys ignore me for the make up girl lol. If i talk to them about global views they get bored.

Giacomanzo · Answer

Given the fact that I already like her physically (let's be honest, body is what attract at first, personality is what make someone wanting to KEEP someone else, whoever says otherwise is lying to him/herself or to others) there are many qualities that make me interested in a girl, such as political and religious views not too different from mine, wittiness, intellect, being down on Earth, empathy, lack of individualism and goes on.

Vivasativaz · Answer

intelligence...
I'm shallow as fuck but not for looks. She can look like Beyonce or Shakira
But If I can't talk to her about sophisticated topics and if she has no useful hobbies and interests... I'm gonna drop her like a hot potato.

& no, not even a one night stand

masterotaku · Answer

Courage. If you're older and single like me you've experienced some damage in your life. But the only way past that is to let it all go.

I am the leash a person anyone would ever meet LOL. And what impresses me more than anything is someone who can keep up. 😂

Twistboy101 · Answer

One that's not stupid. One that's beautiful... and one that actually takes your thoughts into consideration... one that actually knows how to use their brains to communicate effectively and make days better...

Lsummers · Answer

Basically anything thats not taught to be normal in our society, where she's herself and doesn't care about anyone else

Ryancarmack · Answer

Honestly, it is how the girl carries herself. Her attitude, her smile and how she changes the mood of a room. I just got out of a relationship and I asked myself how do I find a girl. And I came to the realaization that those are what I notice most. And when I notice those things the girl turns out to be a great girl.

kadiicus12 · Answer

I would think obviously first looks would be a physical in crowd stand out difference but personally getting to no a girl im not sure. This is a good question thank you for posting! !

casscade · Answer

1 word? intelligence, to me seduction begins with intelligence if you are smart and probably know more than me on topics we both are passionate about I'm probably hard already lol , but 'tis a rare breed.

Anonymous · Answer

I naturally notice their body/face first just because that's what you see. But once you get to know them, personality is just as, if not more important than looks. Just be yourself and guys will come to you.

ldchamp · Answer

For me it is when I feel like she is truly being genuine, and not putting on aires around guys.

stonedorangutan · Answer

Things that will catch my eye; alternative sense of style, could be hair, clothes, peircings or tattoos, or all of the above😂, I'd big enough to apologise when they're in the wrong but the thing that will make me stay interested is if they can make me laugh! and smoking weed is a bonus

zeussuez · Answer

Witty woman who's well read , with a dash of sense of humor

MisterSage · Answer

Her enthusiasm! I used t have a girl I considered dating that was older than me, and she had an 'older sister' attitude, Which really helped me calm down and relax around her.

may1cp3 · Answer

You can't just say "her body". It's too obvious. There are so many beautiful girls out there. The question is, what makes a beautiful girl stand out from all the other beautiful girls. That's where all the intangibles come in. So I agree with people that are saying intelligence, or being witty, kindness, etc. I mean, of I caught you in the act of helping someone, or doing something kind, that would definitely make you stand out. If you want to make an impression, think along those lines.

ThomaS147 · Answer

I put a lot of attention into girls eyes
It helps me see into a girls feelings better i can tell how she's feeling st the time if something is yroubling her and other things like that
So eyes are where my attention is first
Then it would be personality
Mainly how kind she is and if she is trustworthy

lyannamormont · Answer

I dont know what makes a woman stand out but I know what doesn't. Being opinionated, and outspoken.

1995ALEX1995 · Answer

Glasses or black curly hair. Carrying around art supplies or a bag. If a girl I'm talking to shows she's knowledgeable about technology, games, art; I think she's likely to be compatible with me.

aproudmadruga · Answer

Some sign of intelligence, and talking about things she's passionate about. Not things she likes, things she lives for.

Beenhonest00 · Answer

A girl with any of this traits is defenetly top in my list. 1. Good morals and ethics 2. Intelligent and creative 3. Strong and independent

thebrianhala · Answer

It's common to say this: her personality. But I think her attitude, and her approach of the development of the relationship is something that can make her stand out a lot.

amishkoala · Answer

Physically, beautiful eyes. I'll walk right by a woman with fantastic tits if I see eyes that shine like diamonds. Personality-wise, Goofy and down to earth. From my experience girls that naturally have those traits are the most fun with the least amount of drama.

CNAshurawn · Answer

Well I don't think it's just one thing that helps a girl stand out and honestly I think it's different for each person. For me it's eyes, hair, and just general appearance. I find if a girl seems to be into the same things as myself I am also into her more... Hope this helps

Svennedude2 · Answer

A bright smile. Someone who breathes positivity. Kindness, compassion, etc.

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