Not being on her phone or having headphones in. You automatically become pretty much unapproachable. Smiling and eye contact work. It's not so much about what you're wearing but showing that it's okay to come up and talk to you as a stranger. Most guys (that I know at least) look for signs not to talk to a girl rather than signs to talk to her.
Honestly it's how pleasent she is to talk to. Like... you know the way some girls roll their eyes or ignore you, when you smile or say hello to them? - This is a big turn off. Wheras if she smiles back, or even wants to start a conversation, this means she's 1. Confident 2. Makes me ignore every other girl in the room (Because she stands out)
A female stands out to me when she has anything of similar interest in her possession. I personally am a huge nerd, so a female would stand out to me if she happens to be wearing a Zelda shirt that day, or I notice her purse or wallet has something nerdy on it.
How well she relates to others, how genuine she is, how comfortable she is with herself. Yes, her Looks Count too, but that's secondary. The main Thing I'm looking at is, "is it going to be enjoyable to spend a lot of time with her..."
Hmm, that's tough, usually I notice basic things such as weight and style. Like I want someone who can take care of themselves, someone who is healthier. Also by their style you can sometimes tell what someone is into. Then I notice the hair, I appreciate good hairstyles lol ( I have a thing for shorter hair). Then so on and so forth, those are just what makes a girl stand out and catch my eye, but it is the personality and if there is a connection that makes the person.
Personal stuff: long hair or short hair, anime/videogame fan, glasses are hot to me, talkative, optimism, Ac-Cc, nice shape, short women makes me studder, tall women makes me bashful, i love hugs, eye contact, initiates physical contact
The girl with personality; the one thats funny, dorky and is nice to everyone. She's humble and but still confident. She takes care of herself, and cares about her health. Just an all around good person with goals and self respect. This is the girl that every guy falls for, but only a lucky few can get her.
Elegance. This works for every man. Elegance is part of everything a woman does. It means she is smart and educated, move elegantly, talks elegantly, has a elegant posture, dresses elegantly. When an elegant woman enters the room, everyone notices.
Just physically,. Nothing specific because everyone seem to have a similar sense of fashion. Her attitude in the sense that some steadfastness, patience and good judgement of character, for these traits I would really make a fool of myself to ask her out. Unfortunately, these are too rare a quality. So,.. making it work with what I get.
Easy. If you're interested and you tell me you're interested. Actually make efforts to hang out. Don't text me for a week or 2 and respond to everything and be engaging, and then always find an excuse not to hang out. I just cut a girl off for this. Like why waste our time? Why play games?
For guys in general, I think It's just whichever girls that happen to be their type. For me personally, my type is the kind, tough, friendly yet quiet yet straightforward ones who seem to have their own type of laid back yet prudish style. Average or chubby body, and overall get along with me and stuff
I guess where a guy looking at. But first they looking how you're look more how you looking at the world. After a moment you're look isn't so interesting anymore, so thet look at you're personallity. But for sure, every man is different.
Personality. I want a girl who is loving, caring, sweet and laid back but most important, someone who I can trust and tell all my deepest secrets too as well as all the traumatic events I've been through in life. But I want her to be pretty as well.
You are alone cause guys usually start looking at their phones boreeeed that im not talking about memes or such. I do like memes tho lol. They also give me looks when i tell them i play videogames
You know you're the girl they ignore because they can't get away with their typical bs with you. I don't know what a Meme is. It's great knowing you like makeup something more than your phone bc everyone likes their phone.
Man you and me both. I've dated too many dumbass's and really I mean it extremely dumb. So easy to lie to bc i can't be mean and tell them to pick up a book. Dumb girls are also too emotional. It's bad to say but thats just what it is. The girl I'm with now is very smart I don't know how my parents set it up but I'm happy I have something good going with a smart girl.
Just because you don’t wear makeup doesn’t make you any better than the girls who do and just because a girl wears makeup doesn’t make her dumb 🙄 geez so many judgy people
Those guyz who ignore girls because she is much more intelligent than them and not much pretty or doesn't put on much makeup and are jerks they don't deserve any girl
Given the fact that I already like her physically (let's be honest, body is what attract at first, personality is what make someone wanting to KEEP someone else, whoever says otherwise is lying to him/herself or to others) there are many qualities that make me interested in a girl, such as political and religious views not too different from mine, wittiness, intellect, being down on Earth, empathy, lack of individualism and goes on.
intelligence... I'm shallow as fuck but not for looks. She can look like Beyonce or Shakira But If I can't talk to her about sophisticated topics and if she has no useful hobbies and interests... I'm gonna drop her like a hot potato.
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Not being on her phone or having headphones in. You automatically become pretty much unapproachable. Smiling and eye contact work. It's not so much about what you're wearing but showing that it's okay to come up and talk to you as a stranger. Most guys (that I know at least) look for signs not to talk to a girl rather than signs to talk to her.
Honestly it's how pleasent she is to talk to.
Like... you know the way some girls roll their eyes or ignore you, when you smile or say hello to them? - This is a big turn off.
Wheras if she smiles back, or even wants to start a conversation, this means she's 1. Confident
2. Makes me ignore every other girl in the room (Because she stands out)
A female stands out to me when she has anything of similar interest in her possession. I personally am a huge nerd, so a female would stand out to me if she happens to be wearing a Zelda shirt that day, or I notice her purse or wallet has something nerdy on it.
How well she relates to others, how genuine she is, how comfortable she is with herself. Yes, her Looks Count too, but that's secondary. The main Thing I'm looking at is, "is it going to be enjoyable to spend a lot of time with her..."
Hmm, that's tough, usually I notice basic things such as weight and style. Like I want someone who can take care of themselves, someone who is healthier. Also by their style you can sometimes tell what someone is into. Then I notice the hair, I appreciate good hairstyles lol ( I have a thing for shorter hair). Then so on and so forth, those are just what makes a girl stand out and catch my eye, but it is the personality and if there is a connection that makes the person.
Happy, Friendly, smiling, has a passion,
Personal stuff: long hair or short hair, anime/videogame fan, glasses are hot to me, talkative, optimism, Ac-Cc, nice shape, short women makes me studder, tall women makes me bashful, i love hugs, eye contact, initiates physical contact
Her talents or passions in something.
A happy, optimistic girl is way more attractive than a sad, pessimistic girl.
The girl with personality; the one thats funny, dorky and is nice to everyone. She's humble and but still confident. She takes care of herself, and cares about her health. Just an all around good person with goals and self respect. This is the girl that every guy falls for, but only a lucky few can get her.
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You're not wrong, big boobs are a stand out.
Elegance. This works for every man. Elegance is part of everything a woman does. It means she is smart and educated, move elegantly, talks elegantly, has a elegant posture, dresses elegantly. When an elegant woman enters the room, everyone notices.
Just physically,. Nothing specific because everyone seem to have a similar sense of fashion. Her attitude in the sense that some steadfastness, patience and good judgement of character, for these traits I would really make a fool of myself to ask her out. Unfortunately, these are too rare a quality. So,.. making it work with what I get.
Easy. If you're interested and you tell me you're interested. Actually make efforts to hang out. Don't text me for a week or 2 and respond to everything and be engaging, and then always find an excuse not to hang out. I just cut a girl off for this. Like why waste our time? Why play games?
For guys in general, I think It's just whichever girls that happen to be their type. For me personally, my type is the kind, tough, friendly yet quiet yet straightforward ones who seem to have their own type of laid back yet prudish style. Average or chubby body, and overall get along with me and stuff
I guess where a guy looking at.
But first they looking how you're look more how you looking at the world. After a moment you're look isn't so interesting anymore, so thet look at you're personallity. But for sure, every man is different.
Personality. I want a girl who is loving, caring, sweet and laid back but most important, someone who I can trust and tell all my deepest secrets too as well as all the traumatic events I've been through in life. But I want her to be pretty as well.
To any guy the first thing he notices is her body. but after getting to know her. it's her personality that makes her stand out
Totally agree
To me her eyes first then after getting know her.. her personality that i love her
Not true in all cases. I like most all body types. Not picky on that. I find the attitude and personality to be the key factor.
well, everyone has there own taste but a vast majority are like this
Personality is the most important thing
very true
Im loving how i got these features (no make up, etc) and guys ignore me for the make up girl lol. If i talk to them about global views they get bored.
I would love to meet a girl like you that talks more then self
You are alone cause guys usually start looking at their phones boreeeed that im not talking about memes or such. I do like memes tho lol. They also give me looks when i tell them i play videogames
Never meet a girl who is into g
Videogames. And I know I'm alone for the most part cause I'm different in many ways.
Lol!
I like women with brains. can't stand a dummy female.
You know you're the girl they ignore because they can't get away with their typical bs with you. I don't know what a Meme is. It's great knowing you like makeup something more than your phone bc everyone likes their phone.
Man you and me both. I've dated too many dumbass's and really I mean it extremely dumb. So easy to lie to bc i can't be mean and tell them to pick up a book. Dumb girls are also too emotional. It's bad to say but thats just what it is. The girl I'm with now is very smart I don't know how my parents set it up but I'm happy I have something good going with a smart girl.
@Lifeisgood24 I feel you bro. I've met someone who seems to be my equal but we will wait and see.
I've actually tried to talk to these dumb girls but damn they act so stupid sometimes. Its ridiculous.
Anyways I wish you and your girl the best of luck! Also nice abs
Just because you don’t wear makeup doesn’t make you any better than the girls who do and just because a girl wears makeup doesn’t make her dumb 🙄 geez so many judgy people
@BaddieBunny12
1) you missed my point
2) its called having an opinion. Sorry no one taught you that
Those guyz who ignore girls because she is much more intelligent than them and not much pretty or doesn't put on much makeup and are jerks they don't deserve any girl
Lol thank you. Awe that was mean. she's not a bad girl. I think she's really sweet and has some great opinions.
Some girls wear makeup everywhere and get away with it. I like baddiebunny12
Given the fact that I already like her physically (let's be honest, body is what attract at first, personality is what make someone wanting to KEEP someone else, whoever says otherwise is lying to him/herself or to others) there are many qualities that make me interested in a girl, such as political and religious views not too different from mine, wittiness, intellect, being down on Earth, empathy, lack of individualism and goes on.
intelligence...
I'm shallow as fuck but not for looks. She can look like Beyonce or Shakira
But If I can't talk to her about sophisticated topics and if she has no useful hobbies and interests... I'm gonna drop her like a hot potato.
& no, not even a one night stand
Courage. If you're older and single like me you've experienced some damage in your life. But the only way past that is to let it all go.
I am the leash a person anyone would ever meet LOL. And what impresses me more than anything is someone who can keep up. 😂