Those are all decent goals, I would say I have a mix of them, or that there are a certain priority level to each one.
* 10% * Getting married/partnered up: it's nice to have romance, but this is something that I don't push too much. It happens when it happens, which is usually when I'm not looking.
* 20% * Traveling the world: I've done a lot of this already, and it's a great time. Looking forward to more.
* 30% * Having fun: This is kind of the point, isn't it? Also incorporated into the partner, career, traveling, and getting rich goals, right? Just enjoying life, love, the people you are with and the experiences of life.
* 10% * Getting rich and comfortable: I feel rich and comfortable as it is, but could get a bit richer.
* 30% * Meaningful career: this is also very important since I spend and plan to spend a lot of my time working.
* 0.01% * Going down in history: Matters very little. Humans themselves and their historical records seem so small and petty to me. Just dust in the wind.
Well I've got the wife and kids already.
I suppose right now my main goals are enjoying life and improving my health. Spent too long in a high stress job, got in a few accidents etc. Probably going to need some surgery to get back to peak condition but it'll be worth the trouble.
I've also been around casually to add another woman to the family, no luck so far. Poly is a bit of a tough sell, but I'm sure I'll meet someone cool who gets it eventually.
Might take a trip or two just to reflect on life. Backpacking in Japan sounds like fun. Might want to take a long distance bike tour here in Canada at some point.
When my kids are old enough for grade school I suppose I'll switch back to career mode but it's nice to spend lots of time with them while they're little.
Right now though, my main goal is to enjoy a relaxing afternoon listening to the trees in the breeze.
For right now, it's working on myself so I can complete A first. It seems like that's everyone's goal in some sense. F and B kind of ties together in some sense when I think about it. There's a specific image that comes to mind when I imagine my life going perfectly or if everything did, I'm just trying to focus on getting there. I don't really care too much about wealth or about traveling (I like most countries but I don't really care about any other besides mine and my family's homeland).
Thank you for the question! I figured I might as well answer it and it's interesting seeing how people answer it.
s I voted E since it's one of my biggest dreams but C is more meaningful to me. I guess that's all that matters in life.
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Having fun until it lasts and enjoying my life
Other, Miss Lily of the Lake. I want to be the best version of myself that I can possibly be. And THAT version of me, would go on to do option F and maybe option B as well. I'm too physically short for option A and don't want to be anyone's simp, so a genuine relationship is not possible for me given the physical limitations and shortcomings. Also, I no longer want to get married either, I'll NEVER do that, given the statistics nowadays.
I say its career but i dont follow it i distract myself due to my wrong urges. Tbh when it comes to relationship i wanted to find a girl whome i can grow with together like diaries to eachother give good self helpbooks to oneanother everyday discuss their interpretations and grow as a person. Rn not looking for relationahips in my life been approached by wrong women so i dont expect anything outta them i like i git approaches from girls in school that alrdy had boyfriend and wanted to use me to get their boyfriend jelous. rn just do my work and in leisure time i do wrong / flirty / sexting stuff here. I dont wanna sugar coat my wrong doings.
I wouldn't mind going down in history as the most feared killer in history
The idea that history books will tell of the people who feared me, the country that shook in their boots when the sun went down because of the possibility that i might be there.
Well, options B and D are connected. If one has a good, meaningful career which means there are high chances that the person will become wealthy and live in comfort.
Hence I will choose D. However to achieve B is needed as well.
Had too choose wealthy and living in comfort that would be a dream don't have to worry about I'm too short for bills or I can't afford this it would be amazing too live in comfort 🙏🏽 good question by the way
As nice as all the others are. For me if you don't have someone to share those hopes and dreams and fun activities then what's the point. I also think being able to have fun with a partner adds to that.
u Of these, Option A. I'm already married and we have a son, but they are my top priority.
I have a meaningful career at the moment, so I would have to say my top priority (ies) would be to start travelling more and find a lifelong partner/get married, in no particular order
Option C, having fun while it lasts, because it isn't going to last. It will be over before you know it.
Since I like a lot travelling and discover new places, I’d chose it. But I think also having a stable and meaningful job is a good priority.
Becoming wealthy is not at all related to comfort. I know it.
My whole family works to maintain the wealth. And I need to surpass both of my parents to increase that wealth. And WILL increase it for sure.
I would say A, not so much the married but the life long partner and getting her pregnant, as she needs it lol.
All of them are important to me. But right now my top priority is A. I want to make babies and start a family.
I found my woman and married her I had a career and retired from it, and I am living in comfort don't care to travel the world it is too screwed up and don't care to have my name in history like my privacy
Just having fun and doing what I love (which includes traveling)
I think finding a better career is in the priorities because when you build a career
You achieve all of remainings
Its a combo.
Enjoying life while living in comfort.
Having a super awesome and fun life while it lasts!
No better feeling in life than happiness.
It is a hard one. A tossup of many of these things.
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