What is your biggest fear?

[IJhonnyI]

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Thanks for everyone who gave and is giving a genuine response

[DoctorSex]

I had to sit for a good 2 minutes to think about this.
I don't have any fears. Non whatsoever.
I lived my life like Jesus when he stumbled around In The desert for 40 days and nights with the Devil throwing everything at him. Yet did not falter and returned a true Man.
I feel like Job who ran, ran, ran from himself until there was nowhere left to run and eventually accepted who he was.
I feel like Nelson Mandela who hears the clattering of the judges hammer as the sentence of life in prison rained down, and in that moment to know true peace, knowing that unjust suffering is redemptive.
I have the fury and rage that comes with a burning desire like James Baldwin when he wrote, "God gave Noah the rainbow sign, no more water, THE FIRE NEXT TIME! 🔥"
I feel like Milton H. Erickson the greatest psychotherapist and storyteller that the world has known in the last 100 years.
My joy is in the fact that I have left a catalogue of my books and stories, and what's exciting about that, is knowing I have buried gems in my stories! and one day a great great grand child of mine will dig up one of them and know me in a way no one else does. :)

You cannot take a man's life who is all too willing to give it up for a greater good.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Dontaaaa]

Slowly dying while knowing I'm not at peace with the life I dead.

Feeling nothing but total anguish and despair, knowing that it's the end and I nothing to show for it.

[Dontaaaa]

lead*

[Dontaaaa]

I have nothing to show for it*

[LilyoftheLake]

I'm scared of being alone. You know how people mention social isolation as a torturing tactic? I would absolutely die.

Like anyone else, I need some alone time, but there's something... Horrible about being alone for a long time. If I was the last person on earth, I might just die.

[EarthRealm]

That’s not a Torturing Tactic I love Isolation.

[SoftCliff]

Becoming paralyzed after an accident and losing my loved ones

[Iron_Man]

That’s horrible yes

[SoftCliff]

@Iron_Man yes it is for sure

[SoftCliff]

Thank God MHO, OP!

[SoftCliff]

Typo *Thank you for MHO, OP I meant 😂

[IJhonnyI]

No problem

[menina]

I'm afraid of dying. The thought of being buried or cremated creeps me out. Also not knowing what happens when we die or if anything happens at all is really scary to me.

[SoftCliff]

@menina I've heard there's a process called cryonics or cryopreservation, in which they freeze human remains and store them at very low temperatures with the speculative hope that resurrection may be possible in the future. However, it's very pricey, I think it costs about $200,000

[Iron_Man]

You’re not gonna wake up when you’re dead in a coffin you will no longer be in your body your soul goes immediately to heaven and you’re alive again like less then a second then you await a new body I also have fears of dying. The Lord loves us and doesn’t want us to suffer and be paranoid about death he will take care of us

[menina]

@SoftCliff I've heard about that too. But I never thought about doing it and honestly as much I like the idea of being resurrected I don't think it's possible. Also it's too expensive, it's not worth it in my opinion.

[menina]

@Iron_Man No offense but we don't share the same beliefs. So my thoughts on death are different from yours.

[Iron_Man]

Open your heart my friend believe if not it’s all over

[IJhonnyI]

It's okay iron man not everyone has the same beliefs don't worry just know what you believe in, we aren't super heros too be saving anyone but there is nothing wrong with telling people about it, if they actually consider it only God knows that @Iron_Man we know what's up that's all that matters

[Iron_Man]

God wants me to witness to people my friend and that’s what I do on gag

[IJhonnyI]

Like I said there is nothing wrong with trying to lead people too believe in God but like the Bible says don't force no one that's not the way of God

[IJhonnyI]

Just tell them once no need too force it

[Iron_Man]

I’ve never read in the Bible where it says don’t force people besides I’m not forcing people im trying to help her

[IJhonnyI]

Ofc bro 💯🔥 I never said that I was just letting you know my bro, like I said nothing wrong with telling somebody but forcing someone is not the way of God that's all I was saying 👍🏼

[Iron_Man]

Not forcing my friend

[IJhonnyI]

I know brother

[menina]

@Iron_Man I see that you're religious and I respect your beliefs. There's nothing wrong with what you believe in. I just don't share your beliefs, that's all.

[menina]

@ijhonnyi I've never read the Bible but I agree with you. Religion shouldn't be forced.

[IJhonnyI]

@menina yep, that is not correct to force someone no matter what, nothings wrong too let someone know tho, but me as a true believer knows too never force but try to spread the word of God never force it

[IJhonnyI]

@menina but of course I have my flaws we are all human at the end of the day

[Iron_Man]

I’m a serious Christian person I don’t throw in the towel and let people have a lost soul and die so I’m here to talk to you and try to help your life I won’t ignore you you’re welcome to come by my private message to discuss this further The rest is up to you I’m here for you. ❤️

[menina]

@ijhonnyi I absolutely agree with you. Of course, we all have our flaws and I know he wants to "help" me.

[IJhonnyI]

@Iron_Man trust me I know how that feels to try to guide people into the right direction there's just people that won't be helped I've have a pure heart and one time when I insisted it ended worse for me trust me I know what it is too he Christian but overly telling people isn't the way of the lord if they want too listen they will listen the first time

[IJhonnyI]

But I agree @Iron_Man we just have the best intentions

[menina]

@Iron_Man There's nothing wrong with being a Christian. I'm just not like that. I appreciate your help but I'm not lost and we're all going to die one day regardless of our religious beliefs.

[Iron_Man]

The Lord wants us to witness to people not to give up and be selfish if you see a man on the ground do you walk by or do you help him up back on his feet? As long as he’s not resting

[menina]

@Iron_Man Of course I would help him. Nobody needs to be religious to help those who are in need.

[IJhonnyI]

@Iron_Man of course you help him back up on his feet but there's is where you have it wrong when someone covers their ears do you keep talking or do you pause and be quiet this has nothing too do with selfishness my man this has too do with someone who doesn't disrespect Christians but at the same time doesn't have the same beliefs

[IJhonnyI]

You are comparing someone in need too someone who doesn't need nor wants too believe in the same thing we do, this is were I said we don't force we say and if they choose not too listen than that's none of our business

[IJhonnyI]

@Iron_Man do you get what I'm saying now my friend?

[Iron_Man]

No I don’t have things wrong I’ve lived on this earth long enough to realize what’s right and wrong and religious is the only way of life you’re supposed to support the Lord and witnessed to People not turn your back against other people and let them die and lose there soul because you don’t want to get involved with a little bit of stress trying to explain to people. Look at people in the Muslims worlds some of them if you can’t site the Quran they chop your head off. Am I like this no

[SoftCliff]

Iron_Man is a very kind person, he has good intentions, is very passionate about religion and likes to help others. That's why he can become a bit persistent at times

[Iron_Man]

I’ve read books on this preacher that help this guy from the street gang turn his life over to Christianity he never gave up on him even when he got spit on and saved him

[IJhonnyI]

See @Iron_Man you just don't understand life itself then because not everyone believes in OUR believes do you not get that God loves everyone equally he also expects people for who they are he wants everyone to choose their own path

[IJhonnyI]

Listen of course it's possible too help people but not behind a screen MOSTLY not behind a screen I'm daily trying to help people about God face to face activities and I have helped plenty without over telling them they chose on their own some saw things they didn't have too see too find God

[IJhonnyI]

But listen too this can you help a demonic that's fully into worshipping the devil go to God, no you can't I have an amazing heart and I've actually tried but no matter what you say will change the FACT that some people won't change I NEVER SAID DONT TRY I said don't FORCE

[IJhonnyI]

See wow you just proven too me you have no knowledge you think your Intellegent because of your age I hope you know you actually need experience clearly from the way you talk you have 0

[menina]

@Iron_Man I get your point, but I'm not Christian. Like I've said there's nothing wrong with your beliefs.

@softcliff I know what he's doing, but I don't share his beliefs.

[IJhonnyI]

Sad too say a what you so call "grown man" still needs too grow up

[IJhonnyI]

Mentally

[IJhonnyI]

@Iron_Man your talking about humbling myself it's exactly what you need too do you clearly have a biased mind if you even know what that is

[Iron_Man]

You’re still a human behind the screen just because we’re not in person live to talk Doesn’t mean I can't help somebody over the computer screen. You can help people in person and on the computer. Did you not listen to a word I said about the book the preacher helping the street gang guy?

[IJhonnyI]

Clearly I touched one of your nerves but your letting your ego control your emotions and that is not what a "man" does

[IJhonnyI]

You know how un cultured and spoiled you sound 😂

[SoftCliff]

@Iron_Man @IJhonnyL
Uh oh, guys please let's try to calm down, I know you don't mean it, either of you. You're just angry.
The question was not even about religion. I'm sorry, it's my fault for making this comment about cryopreservation, I didn't know it would spark a fight

[IJhonnyI]

@softcliff I promise this has nothing to do with you don't worry

[Iron_Man]

Educate yourself before you speak kid and learn some manners

[IJhonnyI]

What spoiled life did you have too to believe you deserve manners

[IJhonnyI]

Your age is no excuse around where I'm from you earn manners you idiot😂

[IJhonnyI]

Your thinking you just DESERVE RESPECT who are you?

[IJhonnyI]

I would love too see how your gonna play the victim on this one

[Iron_Man]

Look a little boy you have no knowledge you are just a little control freak at your age you are not right here. Just because it’s your question you wanna control the conversation like you are some type of a captain

[IJhonnyI]

Talking about "like you are some type of captain" you know how immature you sound man up except your wrongs you should know how too since your so "mature"

[Iron_Man]

Name Calling and talking smack doesn’t qualify you for knowledge or make you right you just look bad real bad typical teenager that has no education that’s what they do get an education and Learn respect. You are a problem child and it’s disappointing. You don’t talk to your elders like that like I said how dare you? What city are you from what country?

[Iron_Man]

You’re not telling the truth you swear you’re not educated and you reported me like a little coward to the site like you’re trying to get me kicked out we’re done here I don’t talk to cowards that report people because You can’t handle the truth. You wanna speak more come to my private message I’m not coming back here just to get reported and you’re trying to set me up to get kicked out unbelievable child. You are not right you’re wrong

[IJhonnyI]

I NEVER REPORTED NO ONE ON THIS SITE

[SoftCliff]

Poor Menina getting all these notifications..

Guys this is just silly, you're both in the same camp, you're both Christians, why don't you just make peace and forgive each other?

[Iron_Man]

Oh I just got your new question you wanna threaten my life do you want to meet me in person come on by my private message will work something out and you will lose big-time

[IJhonnyI]

@softcliff @Iron_Man isn't man enough too do that

[Iron_Man]

This is my last post and I won't come in here anymore to be set up to be kicked out you know where to find me on this site and I won't come back and read here anymore

[menina]

@SoftCliff You're right, there's no point in arguing about this. It's ok to have different religious beliefs.

[IJhonnyI]

@menina that is what I'm saying and then he wanted to diminish my age and then say I'm wrong because of my age is he dumb or literally never have knowledge of life?

[IJhonnyI]

Just because he can't except the truth he wanted too start a argument

[IJhonnyI]

@menina sorry for so many messages

[menina]

@ijhonnyi Can I message you?

[IJhonnyI]

Yes you can

[menina]

Ok, I'll follow you.

[petitedollbabee]

Losing my loved ones, I’ve lost too many friends over the years. And spiders.

[IJhonnyI]

Yea I've lost some loved ones still hurts too think about it, I don't even cope at this point I just move forward

[Greergr]

I would say failing, but I could still be a trophy wife... so spiders.

[IJhonnyI]

Love the confidence 😆😌🤝🏼

[Anonymous]

My biggest fear is inevitable, that is losing my parents. It’s why I try to share time with them and enjoy them while I can. It’s weird but the thought of death, can make you more appreciative.

[DarkCarousel]

Death of my loved ones. It makes me physically sick to worry about it.
Also, tsunamis.

[Mynameisbobby]

My biggest fear is when my sister gets out of prison she is going to kill me. I'm the reason she is in there and when she went to prison she said she would come back and kill me for it. It's a long story bro 😪

[IJhonnyI]

That's crazy, if you don't mind me asking would you mind giving me a sum up if the story 🤔?

[Mynameisbobby]

Well my mother and sister never liked me because I'm a boy. My mother let my sister beat me up all the time and she is 5 years older than me. One day she came in my room when I was 13 beat me up and she had me on the floor that's when she stepped on my belly. I really thought she was going to kill me that day.

[MrButty88]

Going to jail or prison. Because my butt is the size of texas, here is me for context

As a guy, I don't want to become pregnant.

[EarthRealm]

Frogs

[exitseven]

How about this guy?

[RedStealthOperative]

Being stuck in a job that I despise for the rest of my life.

[boredgal]

dying and not being able to do everything I wanted to do before that.

[IJhonnyI]

I agree

[richt325]

I used to be terrified of pain whether it was physical or emotional. Over time I’ve learned pain is relative and temporary. The amount of pain one can take is far higher than you’d expect. But tbh, I’m terrified of being alone.

[exitseven]

having some kind of a stroke or weird disease where I wind up a big vegetable.

[Anonymous]

Letting my worst enemies see me in a vulnerable state.

[Wonderwhat]

More than what I do not understand, I fear being understood.

[IJhonnyI]

You meant too type understood? You didn't mean misunderstood? 😕

[BlueStripedSoul]

I fear white lettering on a black background! 😱😱😱

[IJhonnyI]

Yooo that's mutt😂😂😂😂

[Anonymous]

not much anymore

Did You Know All Religions Say Women are Evil?

[JmiW000]

Clowns, dolls, and falling in love

[Lyndsielee666]

Puke tbh

[exitseven]

yes, I hate to puke too.

[IJhonnyI]

If im being 100% honest I don't know anyone in their right mind who likes Puke unless it's the after math of puking when you feel better.

[Lyndsielee666]

No I have bad emetophobia that stems from ptsd. Lmfao even reading that someone has thrown up triggers panic attacks.

[Lyndsielee666]

And it caused an eating disorder on top of it 🥳

[IJhonnyI]

I have some bad ptsd, and I used too have an eating disorder but I had too control it I used too be obese 😐😂

[IJhonnyI]

And if I could control it you can over come It I believe in you 🥳🎉

[Babygirl_S]

Marrying a guy I don't really like and spiders.

[Kissskissbangbang]

Pain! And losing my loved ones.