What tips would you give to a 14 yr old?

[Apulu_Imback]

Yeah I'm asking for myself. I also had another doubt, do you face any changes when you turn 14 or is it same as 13 age?

[crossdressingrihno]

You won’t know exactly what you want to do with your life at your age so while if you do have a goal I do suggest following it don’t throw everything you have into that one goal


Dating is OK just remember not to get too attached because you are almost guaranteed to break up with the person that you like no matter how good your relationship may seem


Your teenage years will probably not be the best time of your life but they are still precious send you should spend them wisely because you can’t throw everything you have into work otherwise when you’re an adult you’re just going to go and miss the teenage years wishing you could do it all over again but you also don’t want to spend your entire time partying because otherwise as an adult you’re not gonna have a single clues what to do.


My last bit of advice is not to trust the school system if you’re an American then your school system is absolute garbage and doesn’t work and while you should still go to school and learn everything you can even though I’m sure a lot of that stuff is going to be wrong you need to learn it anyways that way you can get that stupid piece of paper that tells you you can move on to college or the actual information is

[Apulu_Imback]

Nope, I'm not American so our schooling system is different but not the best. Yes I have a life long dream and I am really close to achieve it. Nope I'm not for dating now. Thanks for your advices.

[NathanDavis]

drink lots of water...

liquids are not enough, has to be water


besides that, yes... there will be many changes and a plenty of adjusting as you turn 14, and 15, and 16... and all the way till 18

and then some more as you reach early 20's

our brains and bodies, and most of our being starts to settle around age 24 (around the time the brain completes development)

and then there's a new set of changes and adjustment that start at age 24/25 that will go own for life... lol

[Apulu_Imback]

Ah thanks for clearing my doubt.

[NathanDavis]

gladly, any time

[Little_Bumblebee]

A regular sleep schedule is very important for your health and brain function

Don't change yourself or choose to do something in life because others want you to, but think about what you really want to do.

And don't hang out with people you don't like or have your best interest at heart, doesn't matter if they're popular or anything else, it's not worth it.

Be honest with yourself, and kind to yourself, the relationship with yourself is the longest you're going to have

[Apulu_Imback]

Yes I will thanks!

[Blackcosmo]

It's not that different physically but you mature a lot in 1 year during the teenage years.

[Apulu_Imback]

I hope so I become more wise.

[Blackcosmo]

Yup!

[Blackcosmo]

Also Happy Birthday! Sorry if it's late

[Apulu_Imback]

Nope it isn't late! It was three days ago! Thanks a lot!

[EspressoTeen234]

At school organize your folders this was my biggest mistake I always forgot to turn things in because I didn’t have a dedicated folder. Also if your school has a and b days don’t get too stressed out on homework from all the classes in one day.

[Apulu_Imback]

No there aren't such days. by the way I'm 14 already now, thanks.

[EspressoTeen234]

Oh, my biggest issue is organazation.

[serious]

Well between 13 and 14 you will not see any major changes as such. Physically not much for sure, of course mentally there is no limit. A person can be quite mature at 14 years of age. There are some teenagers who are really mature.

[Apulu_Imback]

Yes that's true.

[maximumpower]

Don't even think about getting married until you're 30.
Prioritize education above almost everything else.
Consider where you would like to be in 10 years and steer toward that as a goal.
If there's something that sounds interesting but isn't along that route, don't do it until later.
Start saving money NOW.

[Apulu_Imback]

I'm workaholic person not not into relationships. I prioritise education but equally give importance to my passion as well which I want to pursue as my future job.

[Butterfly07]

Girl don't obsess over boys. Trust me it just DRAINS you lol. I haven't done that this year and I honestly feel SO much better than last year when a whole lot of stuff went down with this guy and me.

[Apulu_Imback]

Obsession is bad. Small crush won't bother especially if he crushes on you as well. We have been great friends since few years for that. We are just friends now, will consider about relationship as adult.

[Butterfly07]

That's awesome! And yes I agree with the crush being ok. Just don't make him the center of your world ❤

[Apulu_Imback]

Of course no, My passion and dreams are the centre of my life for now.

[Butterfly07]

👍👏👏👏😁🤩

[AviatorTom]

Dear 14 yr old...

Enjoy your teen years. Don't try to grow up too soon, there will be plenty of time to be an adult later. Have fun with your friends and family. Do good things and avoid bad things, you know which is which.

[Apulu_Imback]

I never wanted to grow up more than 13 but yeah life goes on. I will live my life till the fullest.

[nawtee_me]

Do not rush to grow up, that will happen in its own time. Enjoy your youth while you have it. Find something you are passionate about and stick with it, it will help you as you grow...

[Apulu_Imback]

I know right. I am a bit upset that I'm not a 13 yr old now but it's fine. Yes I have my life long passion. Music and writing.

[EaterPeter]

Teen age is full of challenges or puberty rather. It can start as early as age of 8 and ends probably around 20 25.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[EaterPeter]

Take it easy. Forgive your self and others.

[EaterPeter]

Especially ones who are in same boat with you or treading same waters, friends, family, frenemies, teachers, strangers, not purposeful put downers. Differ good and bad people. Use serenity prayer.

[EaterPeter]

And become serene 🙂

[EaterPeter]

Try to get even or exceed with people who are kind to you. Other deserves kick in rear or crotch or wherever. Just don't kick them even of you feel to. Hold on to the reverse count of 10 before taking bad actions. That is likely to save you from getting bitten in back. In other words bite your tongue, I mean don't. You know the metaphor.

[EaterPeter]

Even if you feel to. *

[Apulu_Imback]

Yes I promise to be a better version of myself. Thank you sir.

[EaterPeter]

You're welcome and all the best!

[dolemite89]

focus on school and getting a part time job, don’t focus on sports or extracurricular activities they’re a waste of time.

[Apulu_Imback]

I don’t need a part time job however I have passion and I'm close to achieve it so I am sure it isn't wasting my time because it isn't messing with my academic life. Extra curricular activities are healthy and also helps to discover your passion.

[dolemite89]

no they don’t lol i know legions of people that wasted too much time in high school on their “passion”
that are broke now.

[Apulu_Imback]

Their problem was that they didn't study seriously. Like you need to study as a back up. I'm working on my writing as well as study well so that in future I can still live well off. And they didn't go through official processes for their passion. It just stayed within them and unknown to world. That's the major reason people become broke.

[Anonymous]

Ignore relationships and focus on your studies. When you graduate then is the time to look for a relationship.

[Juan4574]

Don't focus on studying and don't waste your adolescence.

[Wise4myage]

Learn self defense.

[selenarevera98]

Choose your friends wisely! :)

[Saamee]

Focus on your studies