What’s your standard of a Golddigger?

[Justneedtokno]

If a woman already works, has her own house, already can afford to travel, keeps her self up fairly well, and takes vacations. Why is she considered a Golddigger if she wants her partner to have the same things or do the same things?

[Lionman95]

That honestly sounds weird to me. What you describe rather sounds like a guy that feels insulted hence he meets a woman that has her life together while he hasn't and calls her a gold digger.

I wouldn't call her a gold digger because she just wants a financially stable guy.

[Justneedtokno]

Well, from this example that has happened before being called a Golddigger

[Kaneki05]

I mean there are two types to me. 1st is the ones who manipulate men into getting their money which to me isn't fair. 2nd type is the one who is honest about it, who will tell you this is finical relationship which is fair to me.
If you've both consented to something that's not wrong.

Anyway what you describing is just a wealthy woman wanting to date a wealthy man which ain't gold daggering unless they are super greedy also just wanting all his money.

[DizzyDesii]

Wanting someone to have the same or more doesn't make you a gold digger. But Intending to date someone just for their money OR only wanting to spend their money but not yours would make you a gold digger

[BJP21]

The most recent date I was on the gal did this with ordering expensive drinks. Needless to say... We are not dating anymore.

[DizzyDesii]

@BJP21 her entitled actin ass

[Anonymous]

Someone who you think loves you forever, is only after what you can give them in the end.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats not gold digging.

Gold digging is when a woman dates or marries a guy and has him pay for everything or most things, or divorces him to get half his money. A woman who has the things you mentioned does not need to leech off a guy.

[ArrowheadSW]

A woman that you describe, I would not call a gold digger. It would be like combining incomes to live a more comfortable life perhaps?

[Justneedtokno]

A lot of women would love this. Then we could take a trip across the globe instead of just another state.

[AviatorTom]

The last sentence in this post is not a Golddigger. A Golddigger is a woman who wants her male partner to support her lavish lifestyle. That's something completely different from an independent who has her own assets.

[NathanDavis]

I have never, EVER, in my life had any issue with women/money situations... this is just not part of my universe at all... so I just don't any "standards" for it, lol

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

A gold digger is a woman who is with a man soly to extract resources from him. She doesn't give a flip about him nor love him.

Just care about his resources.

[Jamie05rhs]

If she already has all of that, that's wonderful. But if she STILL wants the guy to make more money than her, ... then she's a gold-digger. Plain and simple.

[magiusX26]

whrn she starts asking about my money early into seeing about dating/onky a few dates in

[Alex8736]

She is only a gold digger if they are dating and he has to pay for everything above what he can afford

[Heolurt]

Because when they get divorced she'll aim to take everything he has, it's female nature to want more and more and never be satisfied because more is always better so they always aim for more

[Justneedtokno]

Is this only after divorce or can it be before?

[Heolurt]

Yea it can be before, especially if she's the type to get the guy to pay for everything while she just keeps her money to herself, she probably also buys gifts for the man with his own money but she probably thinks some bullshit like she's the gift so she'll never spend any money on the guy.

[msc545]

Most women do not have the things you mentioned, and if they do, then the issue becomes "who paid for them?" Most of the time, it's some other man.

[Justneedtokno]

I do.

[Justneedtokno]

And that’s really sad to depend on someone else to do things for you if it’s something you want

[TheFlak38]

It doesn't matter how much money a woman makes and what she has acquired. Women are never happy. You want to have it all will never set a limit. That's why advertisement is always directed at women. You are the primary target of corporate giants because you won't go against the urge of buying whatever trash is advertised to you. You purchase 80% of plastic in the market and at the same time lecture men about the environment. Women are never happy. It's a fact.

[Justneedtokno]

I think we only get upset when you tell us that we can’t have what we want. Don’t tell us No

[TheFlak38]

No man tells you you can't have what you want. We just call you out for being whores. That's basically it. Sex goes one way and special gifts and favours go the other.

[Justneedtokno]

I think we don’t like the Dubbers standard

[Justneedtokno]

Double

[TheFlak38]

oh really? women are the epitome of double standards and hypocrisy yet you claim you don't like that? Double standards help you to serve your interests. You literally manage to survive thanks to that.

[CallmeTheKnight]

My view of a gold digger is a person who only gives their time in order to receive financial and material benefits from another.

[genericname85]

the woman you described isn't a gold digger. unless she goes for rich/wealthy guy exclusively.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because what a woman earns is hers. What a man earns is "theirs". Think about it.