What do you think about compliments?

[Apulu_Imback]

I really love giving compliments and recieving as well. I love positive attention. I would randomly compliment people close to me whenever I feel like it.

There is a fact that complimenting or writing gratitude to others makes you a happier person with additional benefits like deeper sleep, stress reduction, calm mood.

I learnt this from my present class teacher. My section is known to be the most notorious section in whole 9 grade and really difficult to handle. We got the most notorious kids here (but they aren't bad, they have a good humor. They don't do anything bad intentionally so I'm proud of my section) and we have the most number of students. Other teachers ask her (my class teacher) how does she handles us? She said she writes gratitude for each student.

[Cynicaldreamer]

I don't mind giving them (if someone deserves or needs it), however, I'm terrible about receiving them.
I always assume someone compliments me because they need or want something from me. Or it's insincere (ie- someone calling me pretty yet not meaning it).

[Apulu_Imback]

Well I react that way to compliments when people who don't know me properly are complimenting me.

[Agape93]

They can be nice but they make me very uncomfortable. I'll either not believe it or I'll assume you're lying to me.

[Apulu_Imback]

Even if from someone close?

[Agape93]

Only a few people I'll genuinely accept it from, and that's because I trust them implicitly.

[Apulu_Imback]

I see

[SnowedIn]

I like compliments and saying thank you and appreciating nice things, etc. And, I agree with what you wrote that a good compliment or thank you or other recognition can make you feel good. That's not the reason to do it but it's a fringe benefit.

[Apulu_Imback]

Yes right. It keeps you positive and optimistic.

[SnowedIn]

Good for you for recognizing that!

[boggboss]

Meh I tend to give compliments to my girl but don't really care about receiving them

[Apulu_Imback]

I see

[tfan1]

I like giving and receiving compliments. Who doesn’t like a kind word especially in this ridiculous time we’re living in?

[Apulu_Imback]

Yes!

[Jennz6]

I like a good compliment, not a guy that says “Nice tits honey” something like I love your cooking, or maybe you are beautiful.

[Apulu_Imback]

So true

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

If you give them out all the time, willy nilly, people won't take you seriously, when you're actually trying to really give one

LESS, IS, MORE

[Apulu_Imback]

I never said I compliment people without any reason. I compliment when I feel like yeah they did a good job in certain thing instead of ignoring it. I make sure not to involve with Nilly Willy people anyways. I'm surrounded by relations of decent people.

[Blackcupcake]

I don’t like compliments. I give tons, I just don’t like receiving it. you can tell me a joke and make me laugh instead lol

[TrillXHippy]

I think the compliments that I’ve got were fake tbh

[eagle1951]

not sure don't get many these days, give a few

[LavLavLuv]

ehh tbh i dont really care

[Apulu_Imback]

I see

[serious]

I totally dislike it.

[CubaPirate]

Better given than received

[Apulu_Imback]

True

[Anonymous]

don't know i don't get any

[Apulu_Imback]

I'm sure you will do when your good deeds starts to be visible.

[Cubus]

I like giving compliments in some way

[jamartheg]

I hate them insults are much better