I don’t know what to do with these neighbours?

[Anonymous]

Everytime we leave the house they will opening the window or looking though out kitchen window then they’ll move there car 100 times to see if we will come out and then today we went to church and my sister parked there near our house but when we came back a white van parked there they make me feel so uncomfortable I can’t even leave the house without seeing there car what should I do ignore them?

[NotTacocaT6969]

Some people simply don’t understand how to mind their own business or respect other people’s privacy.


There are many ways to handle this.


1.) confront them about this directly in a non-threatening way.


2.) confront them about this directly in a very threatening way.


3.) if you share a building with them, contact the landlord about the issue.


4.) Put cameras up all over your property.


5.) Do nothing at all until it’s determined if they have some kind of sinister intention or not.


6.) leave them a note politely asking them to mind their own fucking business.


7.) Act like a person from NJ, skip all possible steps above or below this, walk towards them aggressively, stop approximately 6ft away and start a verbal confrontation about the issue. when the sound of the fight causes other neighbors to come to see what the noise is about, tell those neighbors what caused the fight and get them to take your side.


8.) ignore it but keep an eye on the behavior to make sure they’re not becoming more intrusive.


9.) When you notice them doing that weird shit, go outside and stare at them from your front step. Say nothing even if they try to speak to you. Do not blink or show expression.


10.) I’m actually out of ideas that don’t involve a potential lawsuit…hm…I suppose barking at them technically doesn’t violate any laws….🤔

[Asker]

Jheez thank you I told my mum about it and she said I should just enjoy my life and ignore them but I’ll ask them to put doorbell cameras

[Asker]

And there will be also a black car too

[Guy13]

Camera with digital record to app on phone

[Asker]

But do you know what’s the reason why they’re doing this?

[Guy13]

No idea.