Really fed up with my neighbours what do I do?


I work long hours, leave house at 9am and sometimes don't get back until 7pm then I go to the gym several times a week, a lot of the time I am knackered and want to sleep in or ill go out with friends so I'm not always at home to help my mom take the trash out or do things for outside of the house, the neighbours give me death stares and when I do take the trash in and out sometimes I can hear them say 'she's really bad

I get a gardener to do our gardener and honestly I don't like to go out and do things like clean the windows etc because my neighbours just come out and stare at me. I hate it. I'm damned if I do and dammed if I don't.

I would rather pay someone to do things to the house but the whole street does not like me and talks about me that I don't do enough to help my mom.

My father passed away when I was 12 and all I got from them was 'are you helping around and helping everyone'

Its like there's no compassion at all and I'm some devil person

What do I do?

Do I ignore it? Step up?

This has been said about me when I was 16 - up until now at 30

The house is paid off and I pay the bills and help inside the house

10 mo
Its also because my mom buys groceries and has about 9 huge bags full, heavy stuff and she carries it half a block away to the house. As I said im working. Is that bad?
Really fed up with my neighbours what do I do?
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