Poll- did your parents kill your or beat you for having kids being pregnant & living with a partner?

[Sugar100]

I’m 25 & i have strong urge start my family & live with a partner. i just have a boyfriend but I live alone every day. My issue is my parents are the type to beat you & kill you & disown you for being pregnant at 25-26 & will be unhappy I live with a guy start new life. I have hid my new adresss for many months but then dad managed get my adress from the dmv without my permission. He refuses give me back my car keys so he can continue opening my car & driving it whenever they want. They are the type to stalk my new adress or come to my adress to beat me or my partner for having a baby. So I plan move mid next year if I’m pregnant but worry the dmv will give dad my new address again. I don’t like how parents live close by to me & wish I can move to a far city but then it would be difficult find a new boyfriend in a far city. I’m crying of fear. I see normal girls have kids and their moms support thier daughter & even take care of daughters babies. They don’t kill or disown or beat them.

Yes

No

[Jacobbbb]

If you have a good career to financially support yourself I'd say just move away. Your parents seem like the type to not leave you alone at all as long as they're close by, so doing that will help. As for finding someone new it's not that hard. It'll happen. That's my advice

[Sugar100]

I can’t move cuz my boyfriend lives here with his mom he won’t move with me. i only plan move when I have baby cuz my parents don’t want me have baby never. also the dmv will give dad my new adress. How do I get dmv to not give dad any of my info?

[Jacobbbb]

Tell them you're a grown adult and that they have no right to that information. Just tell them what you told us

[Sugar100]

I don’t have my lisense yet tho and I have insurance shared with dad , is that y he had access to my info on the dmv? Still the insurance shud have nothing do with the dmv?

[Sugar100]

I’m unable get my own insurance as dad refuses remove my name. we r not on speaking terms 3 months now.

[Jacobbbb]

Then yeah that probably has something to do with it. Insurance tied to your dad's name gives him the power to access that information... I'm not sure how it works but I guess that's why

[Sugar100]

So how can I get insurnace and get my name removed from dads insurance? Can my new insurance do that themselves? Dad refuses remove my name as he wants control me

[Jacobbbb]

You need to go to your insurance company

[Sugar100]

But the insurance is under dads account. I’m just sharing it. So they cannot remove my name without dads approval?

[Sugar100]

Issue is my dad wants control me and refuses remove my name. I’m 25 live alone and dad doesn’t want me be independent have my own insurance

[Jacobbbb]

I'm guessing that's the case. If the insurance is under your dad's account there's not much you can do, but if you move far away he's not gonna go through all that effort

[Sugar100]

But I need my own insurance. What do I do to remove my name? I’m an adult.

[Jacobbbb]

I have no idea. I would go to the company you're with and ask about that

[Sugar100]

Mom isn’t letting me remove my name from dads insurance. I told her fuck u

[Sugar100]

I told u they. R controlling 😞 how can I remove my name and get new insurance?

[Jacobbbb]

You need to go to your insurance provider like I said earlier. Ask them how

[Sugar100]

They will say they need dad to remove me. So do I tell them my dad is controlling won’t let me remove my name?

[Jacobbbb]

Yeah I guess that would be the next move

[misogynistic_pig]

If my daughter gets pregnant while she is a minor or living in my house, I will kick her out of the house.

[Sugar100]

25-26 is a minor?

[Sugar100]

I never said I live with parents I live alone and 25

[iamGod-Like]

says the guy that lives with his grandma and doesn't work.

[Sugar100]

@iamGod-Like wtf? I’m a girl not. A guy

[Anonymous]

You should file a restraining order against your parents. Also you could file for a name change and then move.

[Sugar100]

But the dmv will give dad my new adress again if I move. I don't know y the dmv is giving him my information , can I tell the dmv to. Or give him my info?

[Opinion Owner]

If you have a restraining order the DMV won't give out your new address.

[Sugar100]

Is there another way the dmv cannot give dad my info?

[jshm2]

You need to report your parents to the police.