POLL- Did your parents get mad & beat you or disown you when you got pregnant?

[Anonymous]

i see so many girls 20-30 having babies & I see their mom so happy & taking care of baby & congratulating daughter or cry of happiness. My parents are the type to beat me to death if I’m pregnant at 25-26. All cuz I’m not married but I see many girls have baby then marry few years later. I got bad luck and no guy is racing to marry me. Some girls marry fast at 18. Many girls cry and have no clue when they’ll be proposed to. You can’t force it. Even being married you can be cheated on, ik many women married & cheated on but they get pregnant again fast after guy cheats. My parents are type to disown me & beat me for having a baby at age 26. I live alone. I wish I had chill loving parents 😞

Disown me

Beat me

Celebrate be happy

Other

[inhua]

this doesn't make any sense. when do you parents want you to have a kid then? when you're 55? surely they can't be this clueless on a woman's fertility window.

as far as no guy racing to marry you, what qualities are you displaying to them that would convince them to marry you? are you of great physical shape to have a baby? do you have maternal motherly instincts? do you have the necessary skills required to be a wife and mother? if a man were to marry you, what positive values do you bring to his life that would encourage him to stay and be loyal to you?

[Asker]

We’ll I think they want me never have kids neevr have sex. To them 25 is like age 10 or 15. I’m loyal smart hardworking loving , I can cook clean, fmaily ortiented

[Summeroflove]

You’re a adult. So what you want. If you want to get married and have children. Do it

[Asker]

No guy asks to marry me I can’t marry. I do want a baby but my parents r the type to beat me if im pregnant at age 25-26. I live alone and they can go to my adress and still come beat me.

[Summeroflove]

Well. If you want to marry someone sometimes it takes time. If you’re ready to marry. Ask yourself

[Summeroflove]

If your parents best you literally they should go to jail. You’re a adult. Do what you want

[Asker]

I feel only lucky people marry. God make all my step siblings marry fast and he chose me to live in misery 😞

[Asker]

I don't know y he want me unhappy

[Asker]

I’m saying they r the type to disown u and bear u for being pregnant at age 25-26 without being married. 25-26 isn’t a minor or 15 lol. But I don't know y all parnets r happy for children wen they have baby without marriage? Y their parents aren’t like mine ?

[Summeroflove]

Well. It’s best to wait until marriage. You just have to find good people and be a good person and God might be having you wait for one reason or another

[Asker]

Lol that’s stupid to wait. I’ll be 40 and no guy racing to marry me. Lol

[Asker]

It’s prob not even in my destiny to marry I ain’t guna wait

[Summeroflove]

Well. That is going to cause problems. There is men out there looking for marriage

[misogynistic_pig]

I wouldn't hit my daughter if she got pregnant unless she was a minor or still supporting her, if so, I'd kick her out of the house.

[Asker]

I’m 25 and my parents would beat me for being pregnant without marriage at 25-26 and they would be miserable

[Asker]

I’m not a minor but my parents would still beat me for being pregnant at 25-26

[TroyDT2]

I'm male and sterile. But I am still curious about how many have gotten abused for carrying the baby by "pro-life" parents instead of aborting without them ever knowing.

[BJP21]

Im a guy sooo. LOL