How do you get used to going out more when most of your life you have been indoors because you never had money? Is that a problem with you?

[poneglyphs]

Also, because I never had a car I would rarely leave the house too. Does anyone else has this problem 🤔

[lightbulb27]

if you mean be social, I only did that where I felt safe, I avoided social events.

the solution is to do it a little at a time, go somewhere and just feel ok being there, write down how you feel, scale 1-10. Build a log of success overcoming how you feel. work on being social and work to just have good engagements and conversations. build a log of success. failures will happen... so what. This is repetition and experience. Keep challenging yourself to new social challenges and over come the fears. Study how successful people do it, practice not caring what other people think of you and winning people over.

you can start to organize events to be social, then you are in control.

Eventually, there won't be a problem because you are doing it already.

[NathanDavis]

not sure... I did it differently, I started to out all the time and without much money... lmfao

back in school days though

[poneglyphs]

I was the opposite since ai had to use ubers & public transportation it would cost me like 50 dollars everytime I went out

[NathanDavis]

I'd just walk, or ride the bus... which was cents

but most of the part someone would pick me up or I would tag along

there's definitely options out there

[poneglyphs]

Yeah but most of my friends don't like going out so...

[NathanDavis]

get more friends

[poneglyphs]

Okay whenever it stops being cold

[NathanDavis]

if I could find you 99 solutions and options in a row...

you would find 101 issues to use as an excuse... lol

[poneglyphs]

Nah, also I'm not sure about getting more friends I have like 20 good one's

[NathanDavis]

that's great... do cherish them

[poneglyphs]

I do when I can 😊

[RobT312]

I have the exact opposite problem. I typically spend no time at home, now as im getting older and settled my girlfriend and i are trying to stay in more

[poneglyphs]

Oh, I got used to staying home all of the time

[RealMarek]

Learn to fish. It’s cheap, it gets you outdoors, and if you catch fish you can have a free dinner.

[exitseven]

I used to do a lot of things that didn;t take a lot of money but I imagine that is a lot harder to do today.

[Guy13]

Not so much but it came in phases until around 25...

[jayhams]

Going outside is free

[poneglyphs]

No, not really it cost money and I need a car

[jayhams]

Literally free

[joeldalton]

no. So you have to start leaving the house.