Are you okay, if not let’s talk about it?

[anniisa97]

Just wanted to check up on how everyone is. Not sure if this sort of question goes against the rules but who cares

[Anonymous]

No I'm kind of sad. I'm sad I lost all of my friends. Started distancing myself because i was paranoid. Long story short i have a mental illness. But right before diagnose i was being bullied and stalked and harrassed and no one believed me... 1 girl was In on it

[anniisa97]

That sounds awful. I really hope you’re in a better place than you were, even if it’s far from where you want to be.

I feel quite lonely nowadays as well, I have one very good friend but decided to leave my actual friend group 2 years ago and haven’t found another since. It’s hard to make friends when you’re an adult

[Opinion Owner]

I've finally found a therapist I can keep. This past 5 months she has helped me far more than the one i had for 2 years.
I'm actually maturing and healing and living MY life.
I'm kn a better situation thank before thank you.
Maybe we should pick up on a hobby? What do you like to do?

[anniisa97]

That’s really good to hear, I’ve been recommended therapy a number of times. It is something I want to look into, I know I need it.

Tbh I don’t even feel like I know myself very well. I used to do yoga frequently. As a child I was into a lot of sports, but since 10-13 I kind of started to lose myself and I honestly don’t know much about myself till this day. It’s crazy to admit. What about you? I have been interested in learning new languages but I’m a student right now and last thing I want is to commit to learning something else lol

[Opinion Owner]

School is difficult.
I really am a creative soul, I was very much into lifting weights and being all around active.
But I like painting, arts, dance, puzzles.😊

[anniisa97]

I do find that I’m happier when I play sports, it’s been a while that I’ve played actual sports though.

Lifting weights sounds great, but I’m not one to really try new things by myself, I do these things to socialise with people I’m familiar with, and since there’s only one friend it’s kind of hard.

Painting sounds great! I really admire people that can paint realistic pictures and draw faces really well. Would be quite cool to be able to do that

[Opinion Owner]

💜 thanks for talking to me

[anniisa97]

💚💚

[Blackcupcake]

I’m good thank you, how about yourself?😊

[anniisa97]

I’ve been better but I’m a little better than yesterday I think 💚

[SteveSmith1985]

I'm doing okay. But I think this might be my very favorite GAG question of all-time. I think I'm definitely going to 'follow' you. You seem like you might just be an excellent person. 🙂

[anniisa97]

Aww, thank you! Glad to know you’re doing well 💚

[Avcfhcic]

I would say a lot of people are not okay.
I also am not okay, I have trouble with my own image and I feel alone.
Are you okay?

[anniisa97]

I’m not ok, no. I’ve been feeling quite lonely nowadays and just wanted to ask everyone else how they are. I know I’m not the only one going through something that would probably want company.

[Avcfhcic]

Feel free to send me a message and chat 🥰

[Alex8736]

im doing really good thank you for asking. i wish more people had your positive vibe. So... How are you doing? 😊

[anniisa97]

That’s great to hear. Thanks 😊. I think I feel much better than I have in the last few days, let’s hope it carries on. It’s been nice to talk to some people on here

[Alex8736]

just keep on smiling 😁

[kallmesagg]

hmm, it’s been tough L8ly. i’m semi at peace at the fact that i don’t contemplate s**cide thoughts as much as i did 2yrs ago nor am i as depressed as i was b4.

[anniisa97]

Yeah, same. What’s changed for you?

That’s really good to hear that it isn’t as bad as it once was though. Did covid influence those thoughts in any way?

[kallmesagg]

um maybe getting a job being able to do a little for myself. no i don’t think so. hbu? how are you feeling these days?

[anniisa97]

Yeah feeling like you’re in charge can go a long way. That’s surprising, I would have thought it had since it was 2 years ago and I know we all faced difficulty during 2020.

Lol, lonely. I’ve just been wishing I had more girl friends or sisters… or that I was just born into a normal family with a caring farther and siblings.

[kallmesagg]

in some cases yes lol. i’ve wished the same thing but once i’m around other women like me we just don’t click so it’s pretty tough finding female friends. as for a caring father & siblings i think therapy should be considered. family who aren’t really caring does make you feel like an outsider more so like “who can i talk to”

[anniisa97]

Yeah that’s a lot of it for me “who can I talk to”, there aren’t many people around. I do need therapy. I did speak to a councillor at uni but that didn’t end well lol

I can make friends quite easily if they’re from my community. It’s just finding them that’s difficult

[Fuentes]

I'm always OK you know how I'm living in SoCal.

[anniisa97]

How could I forget lol

[Fuentes]

See let the record reflect you know hahahaa

[Andres77]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=meDpNwem0Vo

[Fuentes]

@Andres77 you're right it never rains all sunshine no shade haha

[Shamalien]

I’m pretty fkn far from okay…but so is everyone.

[anniisa97]

What’s up?

[Shamalien]

I’ve talked it to death lol, heartfuck breakup

[anniisa97]

Oh yeah, that sounds familiar

[Shamalien]

This one is strange. I can’t just write her off, neither of us really wronged the other, she just got really stressed and panicked; said she thought we couldn’t be together; I reacted by telling her I didn’t wanna talk for a while and then she got hurt. I don’t think she has much right to be hurt…but nevertheless.

[anniisa97]

Are you not in contact anymore?

[Shamalien]

We are not. I told her I didn’t wanna talk till the new year, which was about 1,5 months, she told me she wanted to keep talking but I was too hurt. After a week and a half I reached out and she was extremely cold and did not want to talk

[anniisa97]

So, do you think you’ll talk after the new year or is this it? I’ve been a similar situation

[Shamalien]

After her cold message I told her she could message me anytime but I won’t initiate contact, so it’s up to her

[anniisa97]

That’s rough, I’m sorry you went through that. It’s a bit weird she did that but I don't know, wasn’t meant to be I guess.

[Shamalien]

We had agreed to talk on new years day so it’ll be interesting to see it she messages me. I have no idea whether she will or not. If she doesn’t, I will be tempted to…idk what ima do

[D_Bone_Steak]

Wife is deployed and I developed a chronic masturbation problem. Currently really into midget clowns.

[anniisa97]

Damn

[D_Bone_Steak]

I know right 😂 Things aren't that bad, I have video games and I'm talking shit on the internet. Life is just life... even if you have no access to midget clown pussy, life goes on.

[TrillXHippy]

Nope haven’t been okay for the longest lol

[anniisa97]

What’s wrong?

[Andres77]

Pretty good, thanks for checking

[htmndg183]

No..

[anniisa97]

Oh no, DMs it is