What is a quality you have that you feel gives you an advantge in life?

[jorfan3]

I'd have to say mine is perspective: I read this book, "Behind the Beautiful Forevers, by Katherine Boo", and it has made me an incredibly grateful person. I am very satisfied with my life and couldn't ask for a better one. It's inspired me to be a better, more giving person, while also appreciating everything I have.

[DenizLikesTennis]

The ability to free my mind of people where I compared my life with theirs because they were far more ahead than me with career, marriage etc.

Since then, I became more focused and could attain/chase my goals in due time.

People always have to say something no matter what you do. Or the same with who you are. Or wherever you are in life.

The pressure is what is causing you to marry around age 32, the society tells you to do it. But I should be able to do both. In worst cases, the heck... I will register myself on legitimate online dating sites as it'd make more sense than to seek for a wife in late20s/early 32s. Technology is progressing rapidly. So we are bound using more digital stuff and be more familiar with it.

Though The Love-relationship-wifey thing can really happen at any time. No matter where you stand in life. But first and foremost, I shall focus on clearing my own personal issues before I can click with someone. (Where I have told you). That's the most important stuff to do right now. It's getting better. So I keep making progress.

[jorfan3]

How do you keep from comparing? I must know!

[DenizLikesTennis]

Well, it starts with your weaknesses and strengths. I recognize them and noticed that nobody is possessing mine which makes me outstanding. The drawer is good in drawing and the musician good in making music.

But this used method is different for each individual. You can ask other's opinion about yourself like when you are at college and ask your professor what you're doing well.

[DenizLikesTennis]

You also can't change each other's path or past because that's beyond our control. It is what it is and it just happened. We make decisions and take risks = new experience and correct our mistakes.

[jorfan3]

Very true. I don't think about that

[Andres77]

Wisdom through suffering. Not because I made good choices but because I made bad choices and lived through the absolute misery and survived. Now rhe only fear I have is that loved ones are hurt and I can’t stop it. I’ve lived through a lot and pain was a constant companion. Grudging respect.

[jorfan3]

My husband has the same blessing

[Andres77]

👍👍👍

[Potteplante]

I'm curious about pretty much everything. It makes me never settle for an answer, if it be personal, academic or professional.

I need to explore things and even experiences, see them from different perspectives, question them and be curious with the outcome.

[jorfan3]

There is so much to discover in this magnificent universe. Keep on digging!

[electromagnetic]

I think mine would be my nonchalant approach to life.
If it’s going to give me stress that isn’t worth the effort, I won’t entertain.

[abc3643]

I will let Neil deGrasse Tyson explain my advantage.

[Hardworkingguy]

Well one of them would have to be patients because I have been struggling with many things and I do have victories in my life

[jorfan3]

What kind of victories?

[Hardworkingguy]

Well for starters I couldn't go to college while I was still young so I had to work and save money and I started my bachelor's degree at by the age of 29 and now I have it. For the time being I am saving money to start my master's degree

[jorfan3]

So impressive!

[Hardworkingguy]

Thank you. There's no other but to try

[Jennz6]

I’m respectful and I’m obedient to my superiors

[jorfan3]

Does that come in handy?

[Jennz6]

Yes, I don’t get punished when I have been Obedient

[exitseven]

Endurance.

[tedbuoyy]

Can I dm you

[jorfan3]

Yeah I guess