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Do you believe self love is the most important love?

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  • OfMiceandMen
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    I think it has a lot to do with how content a person is. I've always said, if you don't love yourself, how do you expect to be in relationship and love someone else?

    If your just relying on their love all the time, to make you happy, then your almost like a junkie.

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  • MadAndBankrupt
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    Self love, Family love and wife love are all interconnected and have the same value.

    self love alone wouldn’t do you good or family/wife love alone also wouldn’t be good.

    you have to balance everything because too much self love makes a person Egotistical and selfish

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  • LaFemmeFatale_1
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    My experience taught me that, yes…

    If you love yourself, then people will love you as well.

    If you forget yourself, so will they.

    So, never forget that.

    Always, always, always put yourself first.

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    • LaFemmeFatale_1
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      The best way I was loved, that was when I was my most selfish version.

      I was so selfish, gosh, I feel like I was such a bad person, yet my ex was head over heels in love with me. I lived like a goddess.

      Slowly, when I fell so hard that I became selfless and put myself second, our relationship deteriorated.

      So, be the selfish one, be the bad one, the good ones are only appreciated in books and movies.

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  • Labokachulaa
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    Yes, because you always have to treat yourself with kindness and love yourself. You cannot expect someone else to do it, if you don't love yourself.

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    • Msputiton
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      Exactly

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  • MidnightOwl57
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    Xper 5 Age: 26 , mho 59%
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    Yes, because the relationship you have with yourself is the only truly life-long relationship, self-love is the most important love of your life. You can't share healthy love with others until you love yourself. You may feel love for others, but you may not be able to express it without fear.

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  • mstbooblover
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    I'm not confortable with the words "self love", because they make me think of narcissism. On the other hand I'd say we have to know well and accept our self as we are. At least this is how I conceive the notion of self love. Once we are genuinely aware of our tendencies, these will become tools to be used when needed in full conscience.

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  • DizzyDesii
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    I think its a need compared to the other loves that are wants/desires. But i think a child’s love is the most important love

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    • Msputiton
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      Yeah, i can see that

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    • DizzyDesii
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      The only thing keeping me going without a child’s love would be God’s love. So i shouldve stated that as the most important love.

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    • Msputiton
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      That is so true

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  • mandyfire98
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    Master Age: 27 , mho 42%
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    Yes, because it starts with you. If you're miserable then nobody will be able to change that. You can start in a place of not loving yourself and build on that.

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  • Daniela1982
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    Not necessarily. There is no greater love than this, when a man lays down his life for his friends. John 15:13. People can loathe themselves, but still love others.

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  • The_Shadow_Dweller
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    You cannot expect anyone else to love you if you don't love yourself first. Your loving yourself is kind of the base on which others put their love.

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  • Cassie88
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    Oh sure, I practice self-love at least twice a day.

    Oh, you meant... nevermind. :D

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  • WellGreetingsISay
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    It's very important. In my opinion being loved by another is more important, but self love is a close second in my life.

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  • Stressyalaire
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    I agree with that, you're your own company 24/7. If you can't handle that... I fear for your future.

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  • Lucy68
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    Self care and time for yourself is extremely important honestly

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  • Nikki1989
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    Absolutely. If you don't like yourself, you will dislike everyone else even more.

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  • MementoMori777
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    Not really, because too much of it leads to selfishness, its important to love yourself to a certain extend but if you love yourself too much it gets toxic, you should love yourself but love others equally as well

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  • Bethany22
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    Yes, because it helps you avoid lots of drama

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  • SnowedIn
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    Nope. Yes, you do have to love yourself, but self love isn't the most important.

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  • exitseven
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    No, but if you don't love yourself you can't love others

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  • Babygirl_S
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    I strongly believe in this. If you don't love yourself enough, you won't be able to love another person whole-heartedly.

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  • Sparkie460
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    I think so. If you don't love who you are how are other people supposed to love you. Self love builds Self esteem.

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  • Cubus
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    No. Most important love is always towards another person, not yourself.

    If you believe than love towards yourself is more important than love towards an other person, then it means you're just selfish and self-centered.

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  • Charliefretz329
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    If you don’t know how to love yourself, you can’t truly know how to love others, or importantly, you can’t fully accept another persons love.

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  • TheSpaceGnome
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    Wanting to be loved by someone else is part of self love. I honestly would not separate the 2 mentally. But yes its important.

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  • Wish4UrB00ty
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    I do!! One hundred percent!! I don’t practice it well… but I believe it! Lmao!

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  • GoodGuyBreakingBad
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    Yes, we got to Love ourselves before we Love someone else. So loving ourselves is the most important.

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  • blueonblack22
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    Yoda Age: 40 , mho 44%
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    Self respect is the most important self love.

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  • Paulychicagoluv
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    Xper 7 Age: 47
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    Absolutely. If I didn't love myself enough, guaranteed I wouldn't be here.

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  • Paul09
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    535 opinions shared on Other topic.

    Yes. It should be a priority ! That's where it all starts

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  • humanearth
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    Sorry, but I don't understand what you're asking

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  • genericname85
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    well if you don't love yourself, nobody will. so i'd say that's probably true.

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  • Iron_Man u
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    I already know I love myself I need to hear from others

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  • SpokenTruth
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    No I do not agree with that there is a word for that, narcissism.

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  • Fuentes
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    Nope love for money 💰 🤑

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    • Msputiton
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      🤣🤣🤣

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  • serious
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    Yes of course. 100%.

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  • melanieeeB
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    Definitely!

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  • es20490446e
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    I self love myself daily.

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  • collie22
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    Self love and self forgivness those two 😇

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  • ERB62
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    Love for Jesus is 5he most important

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  • TrillXHippy
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    Very important to me

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  • Bklynbadboy12
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    Yes I believe that self love is the most important

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  • Jugyeong
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    Yesssss! Absolutely..

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  • Nominal
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    Yes, l.

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  • Charlesbrandonf
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    Yes very correct

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  • talka20
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    Very much id say

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  • Carguy600
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    Nah.

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  • Slay256
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    Yeah definitely.

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  • OG956
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    Yes, it's

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