Did you have a classmate you strongly disliked?

[Mamasanma]

Either in college or school, and why?

[Pyrofox]

Lets call her bella and her sister grace they were twins the older one bella often picked on me at school and would glare at me from across the room so I always felt like she really didn't like me and it honestly creeped me out. How she would make faces and give me such attitude (Specifically glare, kinda snap at me and give me really offputting aura.). I eventually just grew to really really dislike being around her. (Note this was way back in elementary school.) close to almost 18 some years ago since then ROFL...

Admittedly growing up a little extra context I grew up down to earth and was taught by my mum to be a gentle man and I've come to realize I think this girl Bella was actually trying to flirt with me. And I sort of feel now terrible for being so aloof and cold.

The thing is though all my elementry school friends would just come and be really laid back and like informal. So I just kinda realize now I think Bella was like SUPER afraid she'd get it wrong. I'll admit I never was good at catching onto when girls were trying to hit on me I was I think branded as the guy that was WAY out of all my female classmates leagues. As I never noticed when they were actually trying to hit on me. And often misread my responses as being friendzoned ROFL when I look back

Now I'm kinda looking back at in my 20's and after grasping how young girls flirt and are so awkwardly subtle I realize I was such a dense dude. LOL. To my own credit though dating was never really a thing on my radar in terms of growing up priorities. And I guess the fact I made friends with almost everyone I was with made it that much more intense I guess to try and even ask me out. XD I was a semi tall 5' to 5'11 muscular Korean kid. So I guess I understand why so many of my female friends never really had the confidence to drop the question or be more up front XD. I don't blame them but at the same time.

It wasn't like I was dating anyone during those times. If a girl would have been brave enough to just say the words I would have been happy to go out with them tbh. XD.

[Anonymous]

Solution?

• Don't acknowledge them. Remember when you threw a tantrum as a little kid, and no one paid attention to you so that you would get the hint. Do the same with them.
• Confront them. You have tried to give them subtle hints. Now is the time to let them know.
• Let the professor know.

[jennifer_bloom]

I never disliked any of my classmates. Everyone is on their best behaviour cause if you act bad, your grade goes down.

[CreatingWonders]

Yeah, her name was Gemma and she was a bitch, she’d always lie about me and get me in trouble so I smashed her in the stomach with a cricket bat. We were like 7-8.

[bowenw]

I disliked a couple of guys that were bullies.

[LiamJHayden]

Not really. We had a huge group of friends who were together from grade 6 or earlier all the way through to graduation.

[DarkLegacy]

I disliked all them the same really

[Jennz6]

No, I didn’t go to school

[WellGreetingsISay]

Yeah fucking Jack

[Mamasanma]

Why what did he do

[WellGreetingsISay]

He embarrassed me too many times

[Mamasanma]

How old were you

[WellGreetingsISay]

15 or smthn

[tfan1]

Very much so

[Mansearching]

Most of them.

[riverrat3]

Don't we all