Girls, Question regarding women in showy outfits?

[Awoooo]

First things first, there are a few things I'm not interested in. I will not be taking any sentence that includes the word slut, whore and all variants thereof seriously, I will pay no heed to talk of modesty, and I will laugh at any and all sentences that start with "as a Christian."
I am a 24 year old enby who is one technicality away from being a hetero man, and something I've never been sure of is what exactly women want/expect from those attracted to them when they wear revealing outfits, I tend to grow nervous and avoid eye contact, first priority is not creeping them out they have quite enough of that, but besides that.

[SueShe]

Now that you informed us about what you want to hear and what not, let me tell you what I want from you.

I want you to use the update box and rephrase your question in such a way that it makes sense and that people actually understand what you mean to say. Words such as "enby" cannot be found in a dictionary and are therefore meaningless.

At time of this writing, you question has been up for more than 6 hours and you only got one single reply. No wonder that people don't answer you if they don't understand the meaning of your question.

So, before you impose your conditions, make sure that you give the people a reason to want to give you an answer...

[Awoooo]

That's... So on you. People have known about non binary people for ages and googling enby meaning takes exactly 3 seconds. It's really telling on you that you take issue with me not caring what slutshaming conservative Christians have to say.

[Anonymous]

Not all women that dress that way want something. That is a myth so many misguided men like to peddle. It is utter nonsense.

[Awoooo]

From this can I reasonably extrapolate the best thing to do is just not acknowledge it in any way shape or form as a general rule?