Why do girls like to emotionally hurt me?

[Anonymous]

[Pegases]

Some women are vultures, and as a man, you've gotta realize that showing your emotions in most cases, is like bleeding in an ocean full of sharks. Sure, you have emotions because you're human, but to the world, and especially women, you're weak if they see too much of it. Truth is, most women can only accept that you have emotions if your emotions fit into whatever box they feel they should fit inside. Thus, you've gotta keep that in mind as a you navigate this world in order to protect your peace. Many of us were conditioned to think that women are less likely to hurt you as a man, but the reality is that women are far more manipulative that society let's on. Further, the reason women are so manipulative is because its their power against the phsyical strength of a man. Its what mother nature gifted them with in order to survive. This is mostly a problem today because it has become trendy for women to find hurting unsuspecting men, empowering. Thus, you've gotta loose the belief that women are these innocent beings that with no incentive to damage you emotionally. Because, there are just as many sociopathic and narcissistic women out there as there are men, and a lot of women prey on unsuspecting men in the same way that many men prey on unsuspecting women. Lastly, women can only manipulate you if you lack self control. Take away sex appeal, and 90% of women have nothing they can manipulate you with. As a man, that is your power. So grow, research men like Stirling Cooper on youtube, focus on your 5 year plan and build the life you want by becoming the best version of yourself. As you do that, you will naturally repel women with cruel intentions, and attract more quality women.

[Asker]

Thanks so much I agree with your points in this response. It was the response I was looking for. I will be careful in showing my emotions to women. And I love that you pointed out that them being manipulative is their power against manly strength. I'll focus on myself first before these women

[Pegases]

No problem. Best if luck.

[Asker]

You as well

[JordanianNumetal]

They dont, your just too sensative. Grow a pair bud. Relax.

[Asker]

Thanks. I need to be tougher

[Anonymous]

Because unfortunately they may see you as weak (no man is for showing emotions) and because they themselves have not healed they don't repsect how they feel so they disrespect your emotions which isn't cool. You deserve peace & serenity my friend.

[Asker]

Thank you! And yes. It may be true that I'm seen as weak. But I have a very good heart. Like the other person said. I need to be stronger

[In_Trance]

because you make it easy for them

[Asker]

I do. I need to put a defensive shield. I appreciate everyone's honesty