Has someone ever beat you in a fight?

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zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

Street/bar actual fights, no. I've only been beaten in practice fights like in a dojo setting. But also on that note, I've not been in many fights at all. I'm not even sure I would call any of my "fights" fights at all. I was in one short fight that I wouldn't even call a fight in middle school where a kid pissed me off, I punched him and walked off. The other fight was a bar but it wasn't even my fight to begin with. I was with a firefighting crew and one of the other guys was in fight with a local and I was trying to get them apart and get my crew out of the bar when all the locals surrounded us. Some guy stepped out of the crowd and threw a punch at my face so I lowered my head and let him break his knucks on the top, then I came back up and gave a sharp palm strike to his chin. He fell back into the crowd as someone grabbed me from behind so I swung my elbows back to free up and strike until I saw it was security and pulled the elbow strike. I yelled at him and he backed off saying we had to get out and I said that's what I was trying to do so he got between me and the crowd and I started pulling my mate out the door.

So to sum up, no one has beaten me, or even really hurt me even slightly. But also no real fights to speak of. I try to avoid fights and back down or get out of the scene before anything starts.

Oh yeah, I forgot one other event but again this was more of a controlled setting because I set it up like that. I was at a party with my girlfriend and she came to me and said can we go please, my ex is here and he's drunk and asking about you and I think he might try to fight you. But I didn't want to leave, so I asked where he was and when I found out I got kind of close to where he was at in the party, and said in a loud voice "You know what I love? Wrestling! Does anyone like to wrestle here?" He jumped at that opportunity and said "I'll wrestle you!" So after a quick agreement on the tap out, no striking rules, we started to wrestle. He was strong, but I got him in a"triangulo" in under 5 minutes and started to choke him out until he tapped. After that, everything was cool, he was going around the party telling everyone how cool I was and we stayed and had a good time. So even that wasn't really a "fight", more of a way of avoiding an actual fight by setting up a harmless wrestling competition.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

Yeah. This fist fight between me and another kid, we must of boxed for about 30 minutes before the Sherriff came and broke it up. My left ears is still slightly deformed from that and the entire side of my face was nothing but a bruise.

The other time my Mexican friend and his and my girl friends were Asian, we were walking down the street to a local bar. I'm only mentioning the race because I found out it was racially motivated down the line. Anyways, they thought my Mexican friend was white too... light skinned I guess. About six black guys started running at us and yelling shit and the girls went ahead of us. The group finally caught up to us and stopped us. The biggest guy got in my face and said "You were talking shit" (never met that fucker in my life until then). I pushed down the big guy on his ass and the guy that circled around me hit me in the head with a 40oz bottle. I was out.

I couldn't see, really feel anything, or move my body. I just felt the big guy punching me in the face and the others stomping on me. I could hear... my friend pulled out a knife and the girls were yelling for them to stop it. After that is was an ambulance, and then getting stitches in my face and stables in the back of my head. $20,000 medical bill.

Justice happened... we identified the guy on the street and the police got him. He had to pay my medical bill and got 20 years in prison. All this happened in a military housing area. One of the other guys got some time too... they waited until he was 18 to charge him. The rest were minors so they basically got away with it.

So yeah, there... two stories of me getting my ass beat.

Apulu_Imback · Accepted Answer

No, I fought physically with a girl once at the age of 12, broke her nose and bruised her cheeks so badly that since then I don't fight with anyone else because it hampered my reputation in school. Not many know about it though, because it happened during lockdown school period where very less students attended the school since there was an option of attending classes online too. That was my first and last day in offline school during pandemic.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Beat me? Nah. I am pretty sure she was on the ground while I was controlling myself not to make her bleed 🩸 . She was my friend until she wasn’t!

JustinTheGreat · Answer

Yeah it was my first fight in 4th grade when I was like 10 years old. It was this kid who was my friend but I also felt like he hated me at the same time 💀

one time i was talking to someone else and I told them that he was an asshole.
Apparently he was standing right behind me or something. He confronted me and told me that he heard me talking about him. And I was playing dumb like “not uh. I didn’t say that 😳” and he was like “I heard you say it, I was right next to you”

and he started punching on me at recess LMAOOO. And nobody stopped it, not a single teacher 😭

teachers broke up every other fight but nobody saw me fighting for my life when I was getting my ass beat by that kid? Y’all are fake 🤨

And if I remember correctly, we continued being friends after that too 💀

I’ve been in a handful of fights after that but I held my own in the others

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

I avoid fights at all costs. They just don't seem mature enough, you know. But there was this one time when I was in 8th standard. My 'friend' at that time told the teacher that I was eating before the actual breakfast time.

I got enraged as from my POV he had broken the trust I had placed in him. He then seeing my small body wrt his, told me to do anything I can while smiling simultaneously.

I beat the shit out of him. His mom worked as a teacher in the same school. It took about 5 to 6 guys, my other friends, to stop me, just before I could drop a whole freaking bench on him (a small-medium bench). I was really in anger, the highest till now.

His mom, took me and him to the principal. He was also shocked to see that a boy who was shoulder length of the other boy had beat the tall boy. Overseeing my academic record and reviews from other teachers, I was given a warning. And left.

He needed a new pair of glasses, some stitch as well I guess. And his face was swollen. But his attitude did not change afterwards. I avoided him at all costs later on.

He was kind of shameless fellow.

But from that day, everybody else seemed to talk with me with much more caution and respect than earlier. I noticed. It was subtle, but it was there.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

My ass has been handed to so many times when i was a kid 🤣 But one day it all changed (i was 14) and since then, i got some bruises and black eyes but i really messed up the others, in a bad way. So since i came to Sweden in 2005 i have never been in a fight in 18 years.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

I’ve never fought (a person*) in earnest, but I have boxed and sparred and fenced with sticks, etc…and, though I’ve won more often than not, I’ve been beaten plenty.

*I’ve fought with plenty of livestock and “meant it.” I’ve been beaten up by them sometimes, too.

humanearth · Answer

Yes and this guy was big as a Mack Truck and he tossed me around like a rag doll. Plus while he was kicking my ass. I kept on talking shit.

Sometimes I never learn to shut my motherfing mouth

And I won a few times in my lifetime. I never back down, another stupid macho thing that a fault of mine.

PaulPanda8 · Answer

One guy, he was on top. I blocked his blows by putting my hands on his shoulder and extending elbows out. Neutral win against best friend. We were trying to kill eachother. He took out his pocket knife then we both stopped. Few months later, he died from drinking too much alcohol. Haven't fought since. Doesn't make me feel good. I don't enjoy hurting another person and who I become when I fight.

Rangers · Answer

Yes, my big brother used to punch me in my stomach, knowing it would knock the wind out of me since I have a respiratory condition.

My friend Jose in 3-5 grade we used to fight a bit and I usually out wrestled him until he absolutely whooped my ass in 5th grade. As always, we were laughing about it the next day though

David4358 · Answer

no not really, I mean most of the fights I have been in they just kind of ended, with someone breaking them up, defiantly took some hits and damage plenty of times but not to the point I was really getting my ass kicked like it was one sided. I hated bullies and had a mouth on me so did end up in a lot of fights when I was younger.

TallAnon · Answer

Technically no, practically kind of.

I've practiced martial arts for many many years and I've never "lost", but there have been many times where I knew I was out-classed. (White/blue belt vs black belt 3rd dan, you ain't gonna win, lol)

Never lost anything outside, never went down, never gave up, never took an official loss.

ilovelamp · Answer

Very surprised not a single commentor here has mentioned this.
But ya i did lose a fight once it was 20 vs 1.
And i know a ton of other people where groups of cowards attacked them when they were alone.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I've been in a lot of fights and matches over the years, some I've won and some I've lost it's part of studying and walking the path of martial arts.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes a girl beat my ass when I was like 6 and she was 13 or 14. It was so unfair. Then a guy beat my ass and he was twice the size of me. Another unfair fight. I think I was 6 or 7 there too and he was a bit older.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I am not sure. The three or four people why qualify for a ''fight'' in the past all aren't doing well nowadays. What can I say... ''it wasn't me, necessarily'' :D

MementoMori777 · Answer

I took one L I think, it was boxing tho, real fights I haven't lost any but tbh my fighting phase wasn't long

Agent_Elflord · Answer

I don’t think so, I’ve only ever been in like 1 or 2 fights when I was a little kid and it wasn’t really much of a win-lose thing more like just stopping because it was stupid

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Long time ago in public school. I would get into one every couple of weeks.

zagor · Answer

I think the last time I was in an actual fight was when I was 11; it was with my good friend and ended in a draw. We were both pretty scrawny back then.

Ben487 · Answer

yeah my brother. He used to beat me up when we were kids. I think he still can but we're grown now so no more fighting.

Fuentes · Answer

Nope I ain't lose a fade but I ain't actively fighting people

Sparkie460 · Answer

I try to avoid fighting so I've only been in 2 fights. I won one and lost one

DJB72 · Answer

I've only been in five fights in my life and I would count them all as wins.

Andres77 · Answer

couple draws in high school. never got beat up.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Lots of times. It is part of studying any real martial arts.

4ngelic · Answer

if we're talking real real fights never, i've only had a few and always won

mandyfire98 · Answer

I've never been in a real fight before.

Anonymous · Answer

Never been in a fight do to the fact that I think I’m a little psycho, I feel like if I truly wanted to hurt someone I’d actually just try ripping their eye out

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

My stepfather, like a googolplex times, knowing that I’m effing disabled.

Soxee · Answer

I've never been in a fight

laraWM · Answer

Fortunately no, I try not to fight

Paulychicagoluv · Answer

Physically or mentally?

exitseven · Answer

I have lost fights but never been beaten.

loveslongnails · Answer

I haven't lost one yet.

Jennz6 · Answer

Yes, but I ran away before he could hit me again

Iron_Man · Answer

No, I’m undefeated

MysticAngel5000 · Answer

Nope

PointTaken · Answer

I have never been in a fight.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Nope

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope not once!!!

eagle1951 · Answer

kind of

Anonymous · Answer

A girl?

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