I've put a lot of careful thought and consideration into what age you should have your shit figured out.
There's not enough room here to explain it all in detail, but I've come to the conclusion that you should be a "made man" (or woman) by age 40.
By "made", I don't mean a respected member of the mafia, but rather you've become the person you've always wanted to be, both personally and professionally. Your life is finally on the course you chose.
Your 20s and 30s are not the years you have to have it all together. Those are the "building block" years. Especially in your early 20s when your brain isn't even fully developed yet. You can seriously relax in your early 20s. Just have fun.
Of course there are exceptions and outliers, and everyone's life moves at a different pace, but I feel like it certainly applies to most people.
(Sorry, this was more of a rant than a question, but there you go)
There's not enough room here to explain it all in detail, but I've come to the conclusion that you should be a "made man" (or woman) by age 40.
By "made", I don't mean a respected member of the mafia, but rather you've become the person you've always wanted to be, both personally and professionally. Your life is finally on the course you chose.
Your 20s and 30s are not the years you have to have it all together. Those are the "building block" years. Especially in your early 20s when your brain isn't even fully developed yet. You can seriously relax in your early 20s. Just have fun.
Of course there are exceptions and outliers, and everyone's life moves at a different pace, but I feel like it certainly applies to most people.
(Sorry, this was more of a rant than a question, but there you go)
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I just wanna add that I firmly believe in the phrase "shit happens". This is just my opinion and my word is not the end-all-be-all, so don't take it personal
