Are you a cryer?

[MementoMori777]

if so when was the last time you cried and if you wanna explain why, feel free to go anon, i created a venting space

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I think I should just open my Georgian wine and drink a glass of wine to celebrate that I don’t remember when was the last time I cried!!!

God! I just realized!

For the past 2.5 years I cried a lot, first because of long distance and inability to meet my ex, then because if him getting distant and hurting me, then because he broke up with me, and if you asked me when was the last time I cried, I always knew exactly when…

I don’t remember anymore!!!

It means it’s been a long time!

Feels so empowering to realize it!

I am finally happy again.

I’ll buy a wine and celebrate it tomorrow evening!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That song comes to my mind “Alone again, naturally” but I would change the lyrics into “happy again, naturally.”

Feels so good to finally be over of all these dramas!

[MementoMori777]

seems more like a work in progress Fetale, but i dont believe you are over him quite yet cause you keep bringing him up which shows he's still in your mind quite often, now im glad its gotten better and you no longer cry tho so progress is progress but i know its been a while but id completely understand if he's not fully gone from your mind, it was a long commitment, but to your progress congrats and enjoy your wine. 💯

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Well, honestly I think he’s in my mind because he’s the only relationship I’ve had. I don’t think I am not over him. I am maybe 90% over him. At this point in my life, I would not accept him back even if he begged and promised me the whole world. I don’t regret anything, I like my life the way it is now.

And I am happy it ended! Because I don’t remember when I last cried!

He often was the reason of my tears.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am far happier this way. The last year of our relationship was miserable.

[MementoMori777]

well those are two completely different things, you wouldn't accept him back cause you know he's not the same, you see him in a different light and its not possible to unsee what he has done to you, it doesn't necessary mean you are over him, you just aren't vulnerable to the heartbreak anymore but its completely normal to still think of it although im glad youve progressed very well on it and you aren't emotionally effected by it, its only uphill from there, you do seem happier from the last time i spoke to you, it shows time has done you well, the truth it that first love hits hard, you definitely seem to be moving forward and not backwards tho and thats awesome, keep it up

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Thank you 🍾🎈

[MementoMori777]

💯💯

[petitedollbabee]

Definitely a cryer, lol. Almost daily. The perks of having a personality disorder that causes mood instability. Sometimes I cry for no specific reason, mostly just to release pent up emotions. Other times there are specific reasons. Lately I’ve been crying a lot due to overstimulation - I’m pretty socially burnt out and it hasn’t taken much to start the water works.

[MementoMori777]

well sounds like you got more reasons to cry than you do not to cry ha, either ways i hope you feel better and cry less i guess 🤣💯

[Billlewis]

I recognize the importance of releasing my internal angst, but the only sure fire way to accomplish that is for me to receive a fairly harsh, forceful spanking, whipping or, best of all, a real, honest to goodness genuine Singapore/Malaysia style punitive judicial caning. When I'm subjected to a good, hard bare bottom thrashing from a strong, capable practitioner, it's as if my very soul is being cleansed and made pure again. And of course, there are tears aplenty.

[MementoMori777]

i see

[AaronKrieger]

About my own emotional state? Nah, not often and only when alone. However, if I see some beautiful moment that touches my heart or a sad scene I connect with, then I might shed a few tears.

[LostandFound__x]

Yes. I cried 2 days ago in a shopping mall and the lady working said 'it's going to be ok'. Lol I cry so much and I am pretty much used to crying in public now.

[MementoMori777]

aw why tho, must have been bad if you couldnt hold back the tears 😦

[LostandFound__x]

I’m always like this 😂

[MementoMori777]

so you just cry randomly ? 🤔😂

[LostandFound__x]

Yes 😂😂 typical girl

[MementoMori777]

i dont believe you when you say its for no reason 😂

[LostandFound__x]

Looool just life

[Anonymous]

I cried today when this lady I know told us that at one point her mom was suffering so much with anxiety and depression and she told her she didn't want to live anymore.

I hate when others experience so much agony and pain, it breaks my heart. I've experienced anxiety and major depression before. It was the worst feeling on earth. I would never wish that on anyone not even on my worst enemy.

Anyway I'm thankful to God her mom is better now. ♥️

[MementoMori777]

thats a peace to hear that she's doing much better now and may god bless her family and you as well for having a good heart 💯🙏

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you 😊 God bless you too

[MementoMori777]

thanks 😊💯

[GreatBigCircles]

Had to put my cat down a few weeks ago. I was bawling for 4 hours and then passed out.

[MementoMori777]

damn bro, sorry about your cat

[Yannishka]

I am. I wrote a whole mytake about me feeling sad. That's the last time I cried.

[MementoMori777]

i see, goodbyes can be hard Yanny, i hope you feel better soon if you dont already 🙂💯

[Yannishka]

I felt good the day after. I am the kind of person who can move on after just letting it all out. I'm good now :)

[MementoMori777]

well thats good to hear, i thought i was gonna have to mail you some tissues, a crying yanny is a big emergency 😂

[Yannishka]

😂😂❤ I appreciate that! But I have enough tissues thank you!

[MementoMori777]

but are they puffs vicks mint tissues tho? 😎

[gothbxtch]

majorly yes. this morning getting my septum pierced, and then the evening before over a movie.

[MementoMori777]

oh right your piercing ouch, nothing like some metal going through your nose to get them tears running

[gothbxtch]

yes haha!

[Meropatrick]

A little bit😢

[MementoMori777]

why?

[Meropatrick]

When i remember things that happened in the past. Or when someone who i value and trust hurts me. I dont cry in front of others. But i get sad and i feel it a lot on the inside like my soul is crying. But i have friends who console me so I am fine👍

[MementoMori777]

well thats good to know bro, friends can be very important in someones indeed, im glad to hear it 💯🙂

[Meropatrick]

😊🙏

[Anonymous]

Well i do cry when my tears allow me to.

[MementoMori777]

well why don't your tears allow you too? lol

[BLP11520]

When mom died yes

[MementoMori777]

damn who wouldn't be a cryer there

[BLP11520]

exactly...

[MementoMori777]

my condolences bro

[BLP11520]

thanks