So…Was he right here or wrong?

[OddBeMe]

Rules of engagement seem equal…

Found this somewhere on Reddit. I wanna watch this show if anyone knows what the hell it is. His face does look wicked mad.

Neither was right. But he was waaaayyyy not right.

She’s right, he’s wrong. Don’t hit girls

She’s wrong, he’s right. And still got beat up.

Other

[ChicanaChick]

Both are in the wrong. As much as you just want to slap back to teach a lesson, the issue is you're going to be the one losing. You're risking it all just for ''let me teach her a lesson'' retalitory slap.

If he had just been the bigger person, stepped back and reported it or make a joke, then the one looking bad and like an idiot would've just been her and not him. Now that he scooped to her down, he faces getting jumped by others, losing his reputation, damaging his career, etc.

Unfortunately things aren't literally, univerally equal either.

[OddBeMe]

Interesting. That is an issue. Do you feel more anger toward him?

[ChicanaChick]

No. I don't feel anger towards them as they're total strangers I've never met in person and none did anything wrong to me. I feel shame for both of them. She makes the rest of us look bad with the radical feminism BS thing, making more men turn away from commitment overall. He let emotions get in the way just for the sake of retaliation instead of thinking with your brains and taking the high road, which would've saved his reputation, his possible job positions, his potential partner selection and future overall. Now he has to deal with that permanent record of slapping back that woman and his dating pool (for quality women) has reduced for sure.

[ChicanaChick]

Things will never be universally equal and one must know when something doesn't favor you. A man has a lot more to lose if he hits back in retaliation vs walking away.

[Anemone978]

You can't hit someone and expect to not be hit back.. women need to learn to keep their hands to themselves.. I seen that episode I thought it was funny but the other men shouldn't of beat him up...

[OddBeMe]

You’ve seen this? What is it?

[Anemone978]

Dadagiri: Beat the Bullies, an Indian reality TV show

[OddBeMe]

And they speak English?

[Anemone978]

I only watched that episode and it was English..

[OddBeMe]

I mean it sounds like an Indian Jerry springer so she shoulda been expecting a slap back.

[Anemone978]

Its more like they bully the contestants and put them down.. she is like one of the meaner ones I think but I don't know if she was allowed to hit people on the regular? lol

[OddBeMe]

Sounds like Japanese shows. Remember that one guy kept hostage for two years only to be constantly tortured? Famous case. Can’t remember the name. It was Oldboy like, living in an apartment barely surviving for a year.

[Stoner710]

They’re both in the wrong he was correct in his language, but in his actions he was wrong. She was wrong and her actions and wrong in her words, but women can slap men and get away with it. We know this already why because men should be able to take getting slapped in the face by a woman without hitting her back. This is what men do men take the punches and kicks women are out at us and we can’t hit them back. This is why true gender equality will never exist just because of realities on the ground and the instinctual reaction guys have to seeing another guy smack a girl.

[jshm2]

Right, but wrong.

She abused his friend and hit him. He had plenty cause to strike back, in a court of law.

But had he stepped off, he could have had a big payday to further his career and end hers.

So he was wrong in the step he took. But I suppose he left the bigger person.

[OddBeMe]

But wouldn’t you watch the whole ep if we could find it?

[Anonymous]

"Rules of engagement" between men and women are never ever equal.

What was in the clip was a set up scenario for a TV show ( its an old show, jerry springer type format), in real life no one should slap someone without expecting the same in response, she was out of order,

But I would have never allowed the slap to land (she telegraphed that she was going to do it), it would have been blocked and in the same move the woman would have been pushed back to open the space, giving me more options if she came back for another try.

[Staximus]

I've seen you post comments agreeing with some extremely misogynistic comments on here in the past, comments mentioning doing extremely violent and terrible things to women. You're a lower lifeform masquerading as some kind of man of the people. I'm tired of your undercover woman hating. You're scum. The best part of you dribbled down your mother's leg when your father pulled out.

[msc545]

She was wrong. Look at all the simps who ignored the woman hitting him, and then running to beat him up...

[OddBeMe]

Yeah. And I get it, chivalry makes us dudes have to take shit and hits.

[msc545]

not I !

[OddBeMe]

(Slap) challenge you do a duel?

[msc545]

me? uh no..

[OddBeMe]

I meant an exclamation. You’re lucky a question mark appeared. Saved your life… made it optional.

[Juxtapose]

I don't care who you are, if you dare hurt me? You have forfeited your right to safety and I'm going to do everything I can to take you down no matter how dirty or extreme.

[LiamJHayden]

A wise old woman said, "Never hit a lady." Then she added, "If she hits you, she isn't a lady."

[inhua]

equal rights. equal fights