Knowing your emotions and triggers, which of the following would you be most likely to take personally?

[Anonymous]

Get rejected for a date or a job

Being in a group, or at work where some of the people talk to you the least often, out of everyone

someone telling you that you look significantly older or younger, than you actually are

someone saying that they think your hobbies are lame

[provokeesmokee]

Rejection from a job is what I'd take most personally, not rejection from a date.

A job is easier to land than a date, in my opinion. Plus you can prepare so much more and so much easier.

I know how to tell a hiring panel I'm amazing for the job. It's harder to click with a possible romantic partner, in my opinion. There's no guide and everyone is different. Job interviews are more or less all the same beast.

So a rejection from a date sucks, but that's ok. You can't force chemistry. But a rejection from a job I've prepped to interview for? That's harsh.

The rest of the stuff seems small.

[petitedollbabee]

2nd option. I don’t care about rejection for a date or job, that’s how life goes, you don’t always get what you want. And I don’t care about how old I look, I’m used to being asked if I’m still in school even though I’m 22. And I don’t care if people think my hobbies or interests are lame, I don’t do them for other people, I enjoy them for myself.

[BoopBoopBeep]

None of those would bother me. From top to bottom:

That's the outcome the majority of times, statistically speaking. OR the person isn't applying for any jobs/dates.

I don't do gossipy shite, so if that's what they're talking about, fine by me. I'm there to work not talk anyway.

I've been told both. I went grey early but I stay active so I'm in better shape than most men my age. It is what it is.

I'm sure many people think my hobbies are lame. F 'em. I'll do them with someone else then.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Maybe it's my age but this kind of stuff would fall off me like a drop of water falls off a duck's ass.

[molonski2]

None of those would worry me at all really , but I picked D , because if they came out and said " my hobbies were lame " , I can't imagine anyone saying that , but if they did , I'd just laugh and say " each to their own mate " , but none of the 4 would be major issues , I'd hardly notice I think.

[Spongebobssocks]

1, 2, 4 is just positive means less people near me.

3 is bad but since i'm ugly I'm used to it so its all good🙃👍🏻

[iseekpinetrees]

Um maybe hobbies? Honestly none of the choices would annoy me much. I'm more of a ok fuck you too n move on kinda person

[Anonymous]

definitely the rejection one. i always take criticism so badly, i wish i could change that but it's hard for me.

[exitseven]

getting rejected for a job or a date is pretty hard to take

[Dargil]

D. Because it is none of their fukking business.

[Nikki1989]

None of the above.

[WhitneySnow]

All of those sound bad

[Huntingnfishin]

@WhitneySnow I'm happy if groups of people at work don't want to talk to me. And age is more genetics so whatever, and if I had hobby's I feel like I already knew I was lame

[WhitneySnow]

@Huntingnfishin I understand. But I’m sensitive to stuff like that.

[Huntingnfishin]

Aww! I hope that at some point you have enough self confidence to not give a damn! 😎👐

[WhitneySnow]

@Huntingnfishin thanks lol. I’m pretty self confident but I do still have insecurities.

[Grovermint]

Getting rejected.

[LiamJHayden]

Actually none.

[Anonymous]

Getting rejected for a date or a job.