I’m tired of being given for granted. Anyone else feel this way?

[Anonymous]

20 yo guy here. Very very few friends. I always have to be the first one to text, i usually end up spending even months without anyone, and it always hurts more… as time passes by, i see people living their own lives.

I’ve considered taking my own life.

Dating has never been an option, but that’s mostly due to the fact i’m a balding guy and i really can’t see myself attractive in any possible universe.

[Nirmroth]

Thats how it is if you dont have a core of good friends you end up feeling lonely if you grow older. They may start families, are busy with work, move away or in rare cases even die.

But its not to late, you just have to go out more like taking hobbies or helping in charities. You are under people and sometimes may even find a new friend there.

What I learned aswell is to show presence. If you rarely talk/write or appear on meatups they will naturally think you are not interested. You have to care friendships.

If you're going bald then either remove your whole hair or try stuff like microneedling/minoxidil or getting hair transplants. Dont do stuff inbetween.

[overthinkergirl]

i advice you not to take your own life. life is unfair and harsh but on the orher side so beautiful. imagine all the views, sunsets, animals and gems of this Earth. life is beautiful but society is harsh to fit it. maybe just take a break from work or sth and have a little vacation, go travel and explore the beautiful aspects of life. have in mind that you’re not alone with dealing problems and secondly you family and friends will be hurt if you do that.

but however you choose. sending you luck and hope for better life:)

[FunkyMonkee]

No idea! How does THAT work?