Do you give a second chance to people?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Depends on what they did in the first place , if it involved cheating on me with someone else , then no way in hell would I give them a second chance , I made that mistake one time before, thinking things could possibly work out to realize it was just a waste of time , I don’t know what I was thinking by giving her another chance , I was going through a tough time and she was there for me at that time , so I think that’s why I gave her another chance, but the truth is I realized I was no longer in love with her , the feelings for her weren’t the same , she was just a piece of ass to me honestly So I ended up ending it with her and from there on out , I no longer take a cheater back period in my life , that one time was my lesson learned in life , to never take someone back that couldn’t stay loyal to you the same way they expect you to be loyal to them , for any relationship to survive both partners have to make each other their top priority or that relationship is just a waste of time. The only way I would give a second chance to someone is if it was something they did that didn’t effect the foundation of our relationship , something I didn’t agree with , but she did it anyways and they apologized for their actions and were honest with me about it , then yes I would reconsider , as long as it didn’t involve cheating , we are all imperfect people and we all make mistakes , Mistakes happen but of it’s a mistake that doesn’t really involve you then that’s something you can both work with if they promise not to do it again , if they do it again , dump them

exitseven · Accepted Answer

Most of the time I don;t. .

DaveJord · Answer

It really depends honestly; I mean I always approach a women with the intent of forming a relationship. But when that fails, I usually break it off, but if she comes back around... I will entertain her for the sex.

I call it giving her a second chance because if the sex is good then I will reconsider, and if it becomes a relationship later then great. But it seldom does, because once you to try to date someone and they, more or less, prove they are not up for the challenge... I mean people really do not change that much over a short period of time.

I have never had a women come back around after a week or two.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

Depends on what kind of relationship we were in, and what they did to blow their first chance. Friendship? Sure.
Teammate? Probably.
Sibling? Yes.
Romantic partner? Hmmmm. Maybe.

What did they do? Show cowardice?
Cheat on me? Lie to me? Steal from me? Hurt somebody I love? No…. we’re done here.

Crashed my car? Stiffed me on a bar tab? Drink my last beer. You bastard! You owe me right now! Let’s talk about it over a drink & cigar!

Nxtawm · Answer

I often do, I don’t hold grudges too hard. Exceptions are I think they did me wrong and I’m pretty chill

Hawkes_Lady · Answer

If they cheated, no... cheetahs never change there spots. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Lying to me, I will try to give you another chance but I will never forget and it will always live in the back of my mind.

NathanDavis · Answer

Yes. depends, on what it is... but usually, yes

Dargil · Answer

Cheating on a committed relationship? No. It is the ultimate betrayal. Gossiping and back biting? No. They are no longer trusted friends. Each day, the list gets longer of those who can  KISS MY ASS!

notfoundtoday · Answer

Yes, But there has to be some strong reason behind it

LiamJHayden · Answer

After a betrayal / cheating? No. Otherwise, usually yes.

Starrrboy · Answer

Nope.. life is too short to waste it on people who'll never be worthy..

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I have in the past, but I've always had my kindness abused in the past.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

All We are saying is give peace a chance. People ain’t perfect and are always committing errors, whether big or small.

nawtee_me · Answer

Yes if they admit there wrong doing that they need a second chance for….

aceleon · Answer

i don't believe in them.

sage2021 · Answer

Yeah! I'm not a grudge holder

jahaims · Answer

Depends on the context

AmeerX · Answer

I give them 3 chances

Iron_Man · Answer

I do

Kelly6 · Answer

Always

Likes2drive · Answer

Yeah, I usually do

Twalli · Answer

Almost always

jimmy2 · Answer

Yes I do

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Yes, I do

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