Do you have more to lose or more to gain?

[Anonymous]

When it comes to life in general, I only have family so without that id have nothing, I honestly don't give a fuck what happens to me but you fuck with fam you wake a monster you can't put back in hibernation.

So I wonder if anyone else relates to me? 🙃

[Sonorous]

I'd say more to gain. Not a whole lot to lose. I appreciate that I'm capable of a certain physical seriousness. But I notice the "shadow" or "monster" in me has little regard for my own life. It's why I have to save myself from myself (by walking away & calming down) when I get upset with anyone. Because I know that if I don't asap, chances of de-escalation go down dramatically & I'll feel a greater & greater sense of having nothing to lose.

I'm a genuinely chill person to be around & it takes a loot to legitimately make me very upset. I've never fully unleashed on anyone. But like you say, if we feel betrayed, the beast comes out. I just hope that if mine fully comes out, I can stop myself from doing anything more than just defense. I have a feeling I'll be able to. But there are some instances that I'm unsure of. Like if anyone attempted to seriously harm my family members. Especially if a close family member was murdered.

[NathanDavis]

I would stop any gain coming my way immediately... if that meant not lose the ones in my life, for sure sure

as for the other part of your question, a great deal of what I "have" is meant to keep the people in my life, safer, healthier and protected too I definitely don't mess around with any of that

[Asker]

That's how it should be, I'm glad your loved ones are safe bro, keep it up, do what you must 💪💯

[midnightmoon05]

I have once lost everything… so when you have lost everything… there is one way to go right?
what I had was my job, my family. I was going to give my kids to my ex hubby… then I woke up and realized they need me…so I did all I could since to be there for them. And I have. Including teaching them how to play with fire lol… and go over speed bumps for fun…etc…
With my parents and sibling, I have gained a lot. I never see myself as losing with my family. I don’t get that.

With all that I have gained from my parents/sublimgs.. I am giving to my kids. That’s how it should be. Love and support for our next generations.

[Asker]

I like the way you think midnight, and of course you taught them to play with fire and and ruin the car suspension 😂

[IslaTheWitch]

I do this sniper training for some reason, you know :D

My inner circle is protected by this witch. Those are "my people".

[Asker]

What do you mean Isla 😂

[Orangekiss]

What I lose are my socks in the washer. What I gain is some laundry detergent called - wait for it - Gain. ~ K - 🧦🗑😄

[Asker]

How did you manage to do that Ms Orange? I doubt the washer ate your sock, is the detergent trash tho 😆

[Orangekiss]

Actually I have seen a sock wind up in the washing machine filter. How something like that can make it from the wash tup to the filter is a mystery as usually you might find some coins or hair pins. I guess as long as you don't find a foot in the sock. 🦶🧦🧦

[Asker]

A foot in the sock would be crazy 😂

But sounds like your washing machine is playing games no lie 😆

[Orangekiss]

I was at a laundromat once when the cleaning lady was cleaning out the dryer filters and she found $150 in bills in the filter. Can you imagine the guy losing his money and not knowing where it went to?

[Asker]

That lady lucky damn, imagine, that's quite a tip lol

The dude is probably blaming everyone not knowing he left it in his pants pocket lol

[Lyndsielee666]

I only have my kids so 🤷🏻‍♀️ if it wasn’t for them I’d be gone though.

[Asker]

No 😭, I do wish you had more, I honestly wish you had a husband to be honest, I can't imagine the difficulty you've gone through by yourself but just know Lyndsie that I'm routing for you, whoo 🎉💯🙂

[Lyndsielee666]

I’m a toxic ass person so I’m honestly better off by myself😂 trauma fucked me up pretty bad

[Asker]

Well I'll resist being nosey here but whatever that trauma may be, I don't believe you should be alone, if you make a good mother, you'll make a good wife too, with trauma and all.

[Lyndsielee666]

I have ✨bpd✨ that gets drastically worse in relationships friend 😂 I’m the issue 100%

[Asker]

Well I refuse to accept it, I won't, it might be problematic , you aren't toxic, you have a lovable personality, it's only you have this disorder that can be problematic, you just need a patient and understanding man that will love you and I assure you that they exist, just cause your disorder might be a deal breaker to some doesn't mean it's a deal breaker to all.

[Asker]

And before you continue bashing on yourself, you won't change my mind 😂👌👍

[rosemilk]

i'm at rock bottom right now, so i know i have more to gain

[Asker]

Damn sorry to hear it rose, hope you start gaining soon 💯🙏🏽

[rosemilk]

thank you 😭 appreciate your kind words

[Asker]

Always, blesses 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[exitseven]

yes, pretty much. The guy you have to really worry about is somebody with nothing to lose.

[Asker]

Indeed so.

[TiaNour]

Tbh I feel like I’m in the middle of it. Like I have a lot to lose, but then I have a lot to gain

[Asker]

Fair enough, you literally almost lost your wrist, for some reason you are always in a hospital 😂

[TiaNour]

Legit the doctors know me now

[Asker]

Bruh whatever you think of doing next, just don't

[Anonymous]

You're a good-looking, nice guy. You have a lot to offer to people.

[Asker]

Ey thanks man, I appreciate that 💯🤝

[bededazzle]

neither really