Is your emotional side or your logical side more dominant towards life and people?

[Matadorius]

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Forgot to say that personally my emotional side didn't develop well. I don't know why but since childhood i couldn't get emotional while even some things happened around me

[NathanDavis]

56/44

slightly leaning towards logical, quite balanced though

[Matadorius]

Yeah i agree. should carefully choose the right side in specific situations though

[NathanDavis]

right... different approaches for different situations

[Biya123]

I wish i could be logical, feels things so deeply and react emotionally. I think you are an air sign because they have difficulty to feel things. Air signs are Aquarius, libra and gemini.

[IslaTheWitch]

70(emotional)/30(logical)

[Al_Musafir]

Thankfully, logical. Saved me a lot of drama and burden.

[Ironic_Method]

Definitely logical. Glad I have a wife who is similar.

[boobliker]

logical is what I work with as my emotional side was suffocated when young

[Lisia]

Emotional side for sure 😊

[Matadorius]

But wouldn't being too emotional also manipulate the decisions we make? It also causes melancholy

[Lisia]

It does, it made my life really difficult

[Matadorius]

How did it affect your life? And do you try to be more logical or doing the same things?

[Lisia]

It gave me depression, which I go to therapy for. I try being more logical but my emotional side takes over quick since I'm highly empathetic

[Matadorius]

I'm sorry to hear that. Feel free to pm if you want. Why do you go to therapy if you don't mind? And yes empathy is like a two sided blade. It's good to be able to understand others but also sometimes it backfires drives you away to sadness

[Lisia]

I go to therapy for social anxiety, depression and adhd lol 💀

[Matadorius]

Oh yours is an all inclusive package.😐 Yeah my best friend has social anxiety too. Meeting people and making friends is very difficult for him

[Lisia]

Yeah it wasn't always this way tho.. I think I've had it for 2 years now

[Matadorius]

Is there a specific reason for it or just average reasons?

[Lisia]

Specific reason

[Matadorius]

What was that?

[Lisia]

My grandma dying

[Matadorius]

I'm very sorry for your loss😔 She loved you and will always love you. You'll be alright Victoria. Your family and friends are with you to the end

[Lisia]

Awww thanks that's sweet of you!

[sage2021]

Definitely my logical side.

[sawno]

My logical side, feelings are advisory

[ChicoFromThe305]

I think it's a good balance

[Matadorius]

That's the best thing i think but it depends on the situation

[ChicoFromThe305]

Oh yea for sure but that's what a perfect balance means, based on the situation, you can be 100% if either side

[ChicoFromThe305]

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[ChicoFromThe305]

There's some situations where you should let only your heart do the talking and there's other where you need a logical side and then there's certain specific situations that require a mix of both.

[Matadorius]

How can i learn when to listen to my heart or mind? I think experiencing the good and bad ways are the only solution to solve that problem permanently

[ChicoFromThe305]

You'll know cause usually when it requires some heart, your heart will pick at you, it's the humanity in us, same with your mind, if something doesn't make sense, your mind will pick at you and you'll start thinking, it's possible for both to kick in at the same time and that's when you gotta find a good effective balance.

[Matadorius]

Agreed. So I need to explore my inner self, traits, get to know myself and when the time comes pick the necessary side, right or even wrong, and at the end of the day have to learn something from experiences and decisions to get better results later on my life

[ChicoFromThe305]

Indeed, I believe you'll naturally know what to do instinctually when the time comes

[Matadorius]

That was awesome sir. Thank you for your kind advice 🙂

[ChicoFromThe305]

Np, best of luck bro

[OddBeMe]

Logic because I’m too emotional. Boom.

[lightbulb27]

emotional.

[Crankor]

Logical for sure.

[LavLavLuv]

Logical

[Twalli]

Emotional