Have you ever felt your life just crashing down every which way you turn? one thing after another just pure negativity?

[Finchie40]

Just recently my life has been spiraling downwards , one thing after another , it just keeps getting worse to the point I am holding on by a thread , I am trying to stay positive best I can but sadly it hasn’t been easy. I have been so numb and don’t know what to do , I keep praying for a miracle to happen but sadly every day just gets worse and worse. To the point I don’t know what is right or wrong anymore. I am just taking each day as it comes the best I can. Have you ever experienced this in life? How much more do I have to take to get out of this funk?

[sage2021]

My whole life has been like that! I have a friend who once told me "You don't even have to leave your house and shit happens to you". That's the truth! Have you heard of Murphy's law? Where anything that can go wrong does! But I don't think most people's lives are like that. I think you and I have a constant black cloud over us. We are Murphy's law children.

Man, I know what you're going through, not everything but most of it.
Sometimes we just don't have an answer and just have to take it one day at a time and sometimes one hour at a time. Praying is good.🙏

I'm going through something very stressful right now myself, but you don't need to hear anyone else's problems.

Have you thought about going to talk to a pastor at a church for counseling? I've done that before when I was your age.

Well sweetie, hang in there an hour at a time. Sometimes I just say screw it all and go to Baskin Robbins ice cream ang get a cone with my favorite flavor and sit in the car all by myself in front of some beautiful tree's or lake. It was my way of rebelling and doing something just for me. I don't do that now, but I did when I was your age.
☮️ Peace

[Finchie40]

Thank you for the kind words , I am holding on there best I can , praying every day that things will get better

[IslaTheWitch]

Such moments can happen, but it depends on you if you let yourself feel that way.

No, I don't feel that way. I'm more of a problem solver, so I always look for a solution. A ray of hope, even if things look totally bad. It's better to make a bad call and move things that just stay in place and look into darkness... I don't like the feeling when darkness looks back.

[OtterMan68]

have you tried counseling? Sometime just talking to someone helps

[Finchie40]

Yea I spoke to a counselor and it didn’t help much , they can’t fix what I am going through , It just seems the Devil has gotten me by the balls and loving every second of it , My kids are making dumb decisions as well that isn’t helping what so ever , I been trying to just focus on myself but it hasn’t been easy considering all the shit that is going on around me. I am taking each day as it comes but sadly each day is just more misery , Not having a job is sadly a huge weight on my chest , I been applying everywhere but not hearing a thing , I feel so lost and feel like I failed my family

[DryGermanGuy]

There are times and situations where I can strongly relate.

[Paris13]

Keep Praying and Hold Dear to You----Your Faith In God. I Feel a New Deal Coming your way. Yesss, Years Ago, Had a Few things Happen that I Cannot Go Into, But my Love and Faith in God Brought Everything To a Beautiful Blessing. xxoo

[Finchie40]

Thank you for the kind words , I am just taking each day the best I can and praying things get better , that’s all I can do for myself and my sanity

[Paris13]

Dio Not Lose The Faith and YOU FOCUS ON Better. xxoo

[Agape93]

Yeap. Part of why a bullet looks awful friendly

[Finchie40]

That’s one thing I am not going to do, but has it crossed my mind? For a second yes , but I know that isn’t the answer , but digging myself out of this hole hasn’t been easy what so ever , it feels like I am being attacked for whatever reason. I been focusing on myself as much as I can , my kids are out of control as well and I am at a point I can no longer really help them , they have been making dumb ass decisions and I am constantly shaking my head , I let them know I am here for them but I can no longer save them. I just lost my job and now I am in process of losing my home , so I am going to sell it , I been applying to a shit ton of jobs and not hearing back from any of them. So life hasn’t been easy for me these past few weeks , it’s seems like the Devil has got me by the balls. I am just so lost on what I should do next , I have no clue where I am going to end up , losing my job screwed me , I am open to moving anywhere , But without a job it’s hard to do

[FunkyMonkee]

Quite a few times!

[NathanDavis]

nope