Do you ever just need a hug and someone to be there, but don’t say anything?

[bobalife]

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Nice to know I’m not alone feeling this way lately…

[MertJK]

Life flows strangely sometimes. Suddenly, we feel an emptiness inside. A lack, a feeling we couldn't understand... For me, the only way to fill that gap was to hug. Hugging is not only bringing bodies together, but also bringing souls together. A hug shatters loneliness and melts the ice within us. Hugging picks up our broken pieces and makes us whole again. A hug is the purest form of love and acceptance. That hug makes us feel like someone accepts us as we are. What we need is not just physical contact, but also a spiritual connection. When we need a hug, we are actually looking for the presence of another person. We want someone to wrap their arms around us and take the weight of the world off our shoulders. That hug gathers us, re-strengthens us, and helps us overcome the challenges ahead. Hugging is like emotional therapy. That moment goes beyond words and expresses a deep understanding. In silence, love and support are shared. All we need is a hug and an understanding that will relieve the loneliness within us. Maybe these are the moments when we find ourselves when we need a hug. That embrace reminds us that we are not alone. It reminds us that we are there for each other and that we can get through anything together. And this knowledge strengthens us and moves us forward.

[bobalife]

Aww, I loved everything you wrote, its very true and lovely indeed 🥺🥹😭

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Sometimes if I'm having the worst day and I can't cheer myself up so well. Then I tell my wife, "Need huggie!" like a baby. Then she's like, "Okay," and lies down and I give her a huggie. 😅 I'm always the big spoon though. Being little spoon makes me feel weird.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Also, "Huggie time!" That's usually when I'm not feeling too bad and just think it's time for a hug. "Need huggie!" means I'm desperate.

[Tinat]

Cute! 🤭🤗

[bobalife]

LOL aww you and your wife are precious ☺️

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

It's actually an ancient martial technique according to some philosophers and used by some of the greatest arts masters that ever lived.

[IslaTheWitch]

sometimes they just know, and sometimes I just come closer and hug them... and then they know... I don't require reading my mind... I can ask or show if I need something...

[strawberrypancake]

aww ❤️🥺 sometimes i need hugs when i feel sad ❤️ here's a hug from me ❤️💜☺️🥺

[bobalife]

Aws thanks 🥹❤️💝

[BoopBoopBeep]

Hey you... here's a hug.

And to answer your question, yes.

[_Maya_]

🤗 From my mom

[BoopBoopBeep]

@_Maya_ Aw that's a great hug. One of my rescue kittens is learning to hug

[_Maya_]

@BoopBoopBeep just had to outdo me... and my mom.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@_Maya_ when I wake her up I say "Little Duck... it's time to get up. Duck Daddy Daughter time!" and she'll roll on her side and throw her little front lets up I'll put my face in her belly and she'll grab my temples and just quack away.

She was orphaned by her mom as a farm cat. I think the really bonded with the ducks.

[_Maya_]

@BoopBoopBeep I don't have my contacts in so at first glance that did not read duck and I was worried.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@_Maya_ hahah when she came to the house she waddled and quacked... her name is actually Lilo but when she bonded to me and followed me around because everything was scary... including a really fat cardinal that comes to eat here, apparently, because she fell out of a window when he landed. Anyway, if she got scared and was across the room she'd runwaddle over to me quacking the whole way and hide behind my legs, and I'd say come on Little Duck you don't have to be scared here... and the nickname kind or stuck

so very different than what you read :P

[_Maya_]

@BoopBoopBeep that's like the cutest thing I'm going to read today. @strawberrypancake needs to see this! 💜

Minus my comment. Whoops.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@_Maya_ hahah 90% solution

[strawberrypancake]

@_Maya_ @BoopBoopBeep awww thats the cutest story ever! ❤️💜🥺❤️❤️ lilo sounds so sweet ❤️😭☺️💜

aunt kylie’s duck gunther would never ever be that sweet 😂🤦‍♀️😂

[_Maya_]

@strawberrypancake yeah aunt Kylie's duck won't stop "quacking" 😆

[bobalife]

I feel like I’m interrupting a family conversation 🫣 but I just wanna say thanks @BoopBoopBeep for the kind hug~ 🙊🥹

[_Maya_]

@bobalife Never interrupting. Jump in anytime!

[BoopBoopBeep]

@bobalife
No worries. First hugs are free. Second ones'll cost you a hug though. I do take layaways though because this economy... hugs are about the only thing you don't have to finance. I'm trying to corner the market. Jump in any time. You can be family too :)

[_Maya_]

My mom would be upset. FFS.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@_Maya_ Why? your mom can have a hug, too.

[_Maya_]

@BoopBoopBeep looks like yhr hugs have been distributed. I don't even know how to break the news.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@_Maya_ Haha I read that as my hugs have been "disturbed"... i was like... piu... as in they have been troubled or they were accused of being troubling? My hugs shall not be slandered! Then I turned the brightness up on my screen. Now it is too bright for Little Duck and I have to try to convince her to come back to bed. It's complicated. I have more hugs on backorder. In an emergency I can make more in house on the CNC router.

[Anonymous]

I understand the need for comfort and companionship. Sometimes, simply having someone there to offer support without saying anything can make a big difference.

[bobalife]

these words were very comforting that you understood it, I appreciate you~

[bobalife]

by the way do I know you, mister anonymous? You just remind me of someone lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Sure

[sirderpsalot123]

Not really, but back scratches from my girl is always nice lol

[sirderpsalot123]

But here have some hugs 🤗🤗🤗

[bobalife]

LOLLLL @ backscratches, maybe you’re secretly a cat guy than a reptile guy 🤔 but aw thank you 🥺🤗

[sirderpsalot123]

I'd argue I'm more dog like 😒

[bobalife]

LOL let’s be honest, you’re team dog😄

[sirderpsalot123]

Hahaha nope! Reptiles are still superior

[bobalife]

LOL nuuuu, maybe it’s time to visit a dog park and you’ll realized those puppy eyes are everything 🥹

[sirderpsalot123]

Listen bobalife. You seem like a nice lady and I respect you as a person, BUT you're just going to have to take the L on this one lol you're wrong

[bobalife]

Lol I guess we can agreed to disagreed… for today 😤😂

[NathanDavis]

yes... but they still hug me, I don't need to say it...

[Drew-1990]

I probably need a hug lots of times but I'll probably never tell anyone that I'm hurt or suffering.

[bobalife]

I’m the same way…

[Drew-1990]

It's sad honestly, I would hug you if I had the chance just to make you feel better, no other reason at all either.

[bobalife]

Thank you for your kind thoughts 🥹

[Drew-1990]

Your welcome, I love knowing I made someone smile even if I'll never see that smile

[bkcrmas]

Absolutely yes… on those hard days, having somebody (friends or significant other) who you could rely on mentally and physically is just a blessing!

[PeachyPie93]

Yes. Boyfriends are the best for this but friends will do if you ask lol.

[IloveWinters]

Yes and I love the moments of silence between those hugs... It feels so close.

[ab2shifty]

Lately yes, but I rather keep personal things to myself rather then letting other people know

[FunkyMonkee]

T`would certainly be nice!! It's been years!! Maybe, some day, I'll get it, again.

[KrakenAttackin]

This is pretty much every mans, everyday existence.

[KrakenAttackin]

Having said that we do get numb to zero human contact.

[bobalife]

Sorry to hear that, hope you’re able to talk to more trustworthy friends/family 🥺

[Jennz6]

Yes, I need a hug

[bobalife]

🫂🫂🫂

[Charliefretz329]

Yep often. Hugs 🤗

[bobalife]

🥺🤗

[Charliefretz329]

🙂🙂🥰

[shortster]

Frequently

[bobalife]

🫂🫂

[shortster]

Thanks

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Yeah. Do you?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Oopps forgot to read the update.

*Hugs*

[bobalife]

Aw thank you 🥺🫂

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Np. I needed that too by the way. 🤗

[Anonymous]

Yes, hugs can be very therapeutic.

[DJB72]

Yup. I'm human.

[clubboss]

My sister is that person for me.

[KittyKat90210]

Yup.

[Nice222]

Yeah many times.

[Tinat]

Yes.

[smahala1991]

Sometimes yes

[BrookeS]

Of course

[shanshu]

Yes quite abit

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[eagle1951]

very much so

[darkforcebooty]

yes!!!