Which of these is worse in your opinion?

[msc545]

Being born and only having one parent

Being born but having bad parents

Being aborted

[lightbulb27]

I said two bad parents.

Being killed before fully conscious, that be a hopefully brief and spiritual death that not remembered here. How awful to think a mother would destroy their offspring intentionally because of her emotional issues... but that is our world. Maybe it's impactful in another dimension we do'nt relate to... quantum mechanically?

But suffering under two bad parents is long duration hell... I know those people, parents jacked up drugs, missing in action or just don't know how to be parents or lack resources.

One good parent can get ya through.

No brainer...

[tremendousfern]

Geez, there's a lot of grown adults here holding onto some teen angst. Getting lots of "My parents are horrible, I wish I'd never been born!" vibes.

[IslaTheWitch]

it depends... really it depends... on the parents, the whole family environment, the mental construction of the child...

I think some of those kids trying to kill themselves out of emotional pain and quite often also physical pain inflicted by the family would like to be aborted and avoid a lifetime of suffering...

[Agape93]

I had B, one kess parent would have been great and not being born would have been a mercy.

[slatyb]

Another fetuses were never conscious, never people. Over half of human conceptions end in spontaneous abortion, mostly unmourned. If you believe in God, them God is killing over half of all human embryos.

[msc545]

Define "conscious".

[Still-alive]

Maybe the word ‘bad’ is a bit weak but i have known some truly awful parents in the world. And if they ever expressed that they wish they had never been born, i could absolutely understand why they would say so. Voted B

[Sameone]

It's really hard question for me
Because i lost my mom when i was 6
And i get adopted by family
So i will say all of them

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Being born with two bad parents.

[OddBeMe]

Bad parents makes the kids life 10x worse.

Abortion is 99% a bean in a uterus. No “person” there.

[BCRanger10]

Anything's better than being DEAD.

[exitseven]

Being aborted is a bad beat.

[LavLavLuv]

Being born but having bad parents

[laly520]

being aborted

[goaded]

Never knowing suffering?

[laly520]

@goaded had my share of suffering