Do you think you look the best in your natural hair color or do you prefer to dye it?

[tierrlamé]

I prefer my natural. Which is the one I have.

Natural color

I prefer to dye it

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

The way you framed the options made it awkward for me.

I dyed my hair a deep auburn red one time with streaks of my natural color and it was amazing to me. It was in my clubbing days in my early 20s and I was getting girls approaching me left and right.

Like WTF. I felt like a rock star. I had two girls fighting over me to get into the taxi with me. Unfortunately I ended up with just one. The other was too pissed. Seriously WTF moment; I've never been that popular with girls.

So definitely look best with that one. But I don't prefer it. That's where you got me. I'm married now and admittedly I'm a bit lazy. I want to still stay attractive to my wife but I don't want girls fighting over me anymore.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

That was one of the most WTF series of months after that hairstyle. It might have been not just the color though but the way my hairdresser cut it. I'm not sure which played the stronger effect on women. I never had such a strong effect before or ever after.

I felt like a superstar which is so rare to me; I'm a software engineer by trade and very nerdy that way. It's not exactly like I step into a nightclub and have women fighting over me all the time. That was so weird. But that hairstylist did wonders for me.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

With the two girls fighting over who gets in the taxi, I really liked both of them and was trying to play peacekeeper. It's like FFM fantasies were going through my head the whole time. I just gotta mellow these girls out. But they were too pissed at each other and one gave up. Again, this sounds like a boast but I've never had that level of appeal on women that pretty before or ever since. That haircut and treatment did something. I should have tipped that hairstylist my whole month's salary.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I also had guys approaching me in the nightclubs like, "Dude, what's your secret?" Me: "I don't know, I'm not used to this!" It took me a while to narrow it down to the haircut.

[tierrlamé]

Damn well that is a story! Did you tell all this to your hairstylist?

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I actually just stepped into a random place in Shibuya and I didn't even bother to remember her name or keep her card or even remember the location that much. 😅 But she talked to me and I was feeling adventurous and wanted to change my hair color and she brought up this board with fake hair and I asked her what she thought would look best on me and she picked the deep red, auburn type of color and I mostly just went with her suggestions.

[tierrlamé]

Well shout out to her I guess. lol

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I actually tried to replicate that success a few months later with a different hairstylist. But I didn't remember which color it was so I went with one that was much lighter and the cut was all different, but I stepped into nightclub like, "Here I am ladies!" Nothing. That sucked so hard. Felt like superstar for a month or two then just back to normal again.

[tierrlamé]

Well hope you find it then

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Cheers! It's good now. I got the wife and all. 🤝

[tierrlamé]

Thats good am happy for you!

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Thanks very much! Sometimes it summons a level of incredulity in men when I say I genuinely don't want to have sex with other women now being so devoted to the wife. Admittedly in my 30s like 10 years ago, I had some, "What if?" type of thoughts, you know -- especially when drunk -- only restricted by the wedding ring on my finger and remembering my vows and knowing I have a way better woman back home when I was at a bar. But I did want it.

But now I genuinely don't. Maybe it's because my testosterone has dropped a bit. I learned all guys after 35 start to decline gradually there over the years. I do feel a bit less aggressive than before.

But most of all I think it's like how you train yourself to love less sugary foods -- maybe you don't need that just yet being in your 20s -- but after a while it's like you try something very sweet and you kind of remember how it was so awesome when younger but it's also like, "This is too sweet." You know? And when I look at other women nowadays, it's like that. I'm just looking. 😅 Don't want to bother with the whole dating thing and dealing with your emotions and all that. Just looking.

[tierrlamé]

Yeah I dont know. My mind ain't there yet but then agian im not married so maybe thats why. Only time will tell.

[exitseven]

I have really gotten gray over the last couple of years. Today I got a haircut and the lady tried to upsell me a dye job.

[tierrlamé]

Hhahaha well thats a good sign

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Some people get upset at me when I dye my natural jet black hair to another color even though they later agree that the temporary switch was eventually nice.

[tierrlamé]

Haha I found it so weird how som people can get angry at something like that. But yeah am glad you had fun with it

[DeeDeeDeVour]

@tierrlamé
They like my straight black hair.
They didn't want me to change my hair color.

[tierrlamé]

Well then im sure it suits you but you do what you wanna do!

[EmmaMary]

Definitely my natural colour (dirty blonde) these days

[tierrlamé]

Nice

You ever dyed it?

[EmmaMary]

During my teenage years it was every colour under the rainbow! lol

[tierrlamé]

Hahah yeah am sure that look is better for kidsXD

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[IslaTheWitch]

My natural hair color looks like I dyed it...

[NathanDavis]

same here... or at least, some people do think I dye it black for whatever reason...

[tierrlamé]

What hair color do you have Isla?

[IslaTheWitch]

@tierrlamé
red with orangish reflexes... :D

[tierrlamé]

cool!

[IslaTheWitch]

I definitely agree!

[OtterMan68]

I'm a man, and I'm not in the music business, nor am I vain, so natural

[tierrlamé]

Hahah fair enough

[JonesT10Apr]

natural is my favourite... brunette hair I love very much in first then blonde

[tierrlamé]

Alright

[NathanDavis]

I've only had my one, natural hair color

[tierrlamé]

Fair enough lol

[laly520]

natural color is always the best color

[tierrlamé]

Cool, what color is that?

[electromagnetic]

My natural colour.

[tierrlamé]

cool. Whats your natural color+

[electromagnetic]

Dark brown. But I used to have it coloured blue and purple.

[tierrlamé]

You bleached it first then?

[electromagnetic]

Yup.

[tierrlamé]

cool