Which of these traits do you have? Would you consider yourself more masculine or feminine?

[HawkPerception]

Masculine

Feminine

[libsaretards]

This question actually got me to thinking. Let's analyze it. Here is where I fall:

Energy

When it comes to the Feminine/Masculine traits listed under energy, I actually have all those traits. The balance here is probably 60% Masculine and 40% Feminine.

Natural Feminine/Natural Masculine

In this category, there is a greater separation. I have ALL the masculine traits and MOST of the feminine traits. The feminine traits I lack in this category are Feeling, Allowing and Surrender. The only feminine traits that I have that I rank stronger than or equal to their masculine counterparts as listed are: Intuitive is stronger than Support (not by much). Creative 60% and stability 40% Understanding is dead even with Inner Strength. Kindness is dead even with logical. The balance here is probably 75% Masculine and 40% Feminine.

Wounded Feminine/Wounded Masculine

I will not share which traits or how many, but all the ones I have here are on the Masculine side.

Overall, I would say I am definitely more masculine than feminine based on the traits listed in this chart. Overall I would rate myself 70% on the masculine side and 30% on the feminine side.

[libsaretards]

I just realized I put 40% instead of 25%. I can be a dumbass sometimes lol

[HawkPerception]

Love the analysis, but not sure why you're afraid to share and be honest with the wounded feminine and masculine traits. You're basically anonymous 😂

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Maybe towards the masculine although I have a lot of both.

The qualities I'd say I'm most allergic to and do best to avoid (easiest to list) are unconditional love, surrender, victim, neediness, over-sensitivity, over-emotional, manipulation, withholding, control, and avoidance.

I also struggle a bit with discipline in the natural masculine section and stillness in the natural feminine (as in I'm largely lacking these qualities).

I don't understand why competitive is listed in the wounded masculine. I'm hyper-competitive but I consider it healthy. I don't mind losing, for example; I admire people who beat me and want to learn from them. I think it's only wounded and unhealthy if we envy people who beat us rather than admire them.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I tried to just mark the image and highlight the ones that I think best describe me, trying to be as brutally honest as I can including my biggest faults.

[HawkPerception]

Pretty cool you took the effort of doing that, but you could've just typed it out too 😂

But I definitely appreciate the visual 😁

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

It seemed a bit easier to me than typing it and also trying to figure out if I had more in one area as opposed to the other. 😅 Some of the ones might seem contradictory like assertive vs. allowing (I interpreted that as agreeable) but I leverage both depending on the situation.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I often wish I had more on the natural masculine side there, like clarity, more focus, stability, and discipline. Yet I'm often second-guessing myself (not so much in a way that impedes confidence, but more like I want to do 100 different things and can't pick which one) and have a hard time disciplining myself.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

A bit further on competitiveness after some thought, I think the reason I'm drawn to competition is that it's one of the few ways through which I gain some semblance of clarity. Since I'm interested in so many subjects, it's always difficult to know what I need to prioritize.

It's like in school, do I need to train my running speed more? Or do I need to train my skateboarding? Or study more? Or improve my social skills? Or something else? What do I need to work on the most?

So competition is usually where I gained some degree of clarity. I'm ultimately competing against myself at the end of the way, but testing myself against others helps me to know where I stand, relatively speaking.

[HawkPerception]

You're extremely tech savvy for that to be easier than typing 😂

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Typing it out is one thing but remembering and not losing track of where I was at is another. I'm extremely absent-minded. 😅

[HawkPerception]

That's fair 😂

[handsomelad70]

Masculine, as my username and opinions about women more than suggest.

[LazerBean]

I think in general, slightly more feminine. But not by a lot. And it kind of depends on what mode I'm in. When I'm with my husband, then I have much more of a feminine mode on. But when he's out working and I'm doing whatever I need to get done for the day, I feel like based on that chart I'm probably in a more masculine energy. But That's just based on the chart. Honestly I don't think a lot of that stuff should be seen as masculine or feminine. I think you probably feel the same way too, I'm just clarifying where I'm coming from. I don't think being kind is feminine, nor do I think being responsible is masculine. Both of those things are just what someone does if they are a decent person.

[strateguy632]

good points @LazerBean i agree with you.

[LazerBean]

Thank you :)

[Screenwriter]

I definitely have many positive feminine traits, but my energy is more masculine. And I guess this is because I'm more like my dad than like my mom.

But she had positive masculine traits too. I'd say HER energy was far more feminine than mine. I'm more androgynous than her. And more feminine than my dad. But my leaning is toward the masculine side.

We're all androgynous, some just more than the others.

[DizzyDesii]

I’m not receptive nor passive. I’m probably not contractive nor inward. I am intuitive. So yea i dont really match the “feminine energy” but I do match the “natural feminine”. I just won't surrender. I don’t match the “wounded feminine” either. I dont match the “‘masculine energy” but I do match the “natural masculine”. I match some of the “wounden masculine” too

[NathanDavis]

many of these traits are arguable... lol, but still...

found more on the masculine side... but a bit more balanced on the ones listed as "natural energy"

and I am definitely a more balanced person at the end

[The_Sexpert]

More towards masculine
I also have the opinion that being kind and having unconditional love won't make a man feminine or less masculine

[HawkPerception]

Pretty common opinion, and I don't think the image was implying that if you have any traits from the other side it means you're less masculine or less feminine.

[The_Sexpert]

👍👍

[strateguy632]

bs bs bs! gals are "giving outward and active! too". not passive , but active in family n jobs.

not receptive but she give to family.

i know that ideology trying to lie character is like genital shape but bs!

now masculine is "tough thick hide" of crocodile we chide each other roughly! get n give! not get offended but...

few masculine men around ever since they got in the habit of reporting to facebook police!

[IslaTheWitch]

lmao... a lot from natural masculine, a bit less from natural feminine :D some from both energies :D

fortunately not from wounded, except being confrontational, maybe not a lot but still

but it's pretty balanced I would say

[Levin]

tbh, a bit of both. Most people would probably consider me a bit of an arsehole of late so I guess masculine. I'm trying to develop my divine masculine, this is my life's worth.

[strateguy632]

sad to see you accepted the association method "male are jerks" echoed by media n films infinitely. even at kids in disney inside out 2915, hidden in there.
men character isn't jerk!
some men chose to be jerks like some gals chose to be "bee-yotch" as they say.

[Levin]

@strateguy632 Nah man, I get there is a wider imperative to tarnish menhood. Sometimes men end up being arseholes by virtue of our work and graft. If you work and focus on self improvement it winds you up and gets you tense. These aren't easy times we're living in.

[HighValue]

Creative and kindness are much more masculine traits. MOST things in the world made by people were created/invented by MEN. Most self sacrifices to help others have been done by men too.

[strateguy632]

i agree with you. facts are facts!

[Phoenix98]

Masculine that's what the majority of my traits are.

[Xia1994]

I'm a feminine woman.

[HawkPerception]

I get that, but I'm sure you have a few traits from the masculine side, no?

[Xia1994]

Those traits some of them are fluid because for example men and women both need to be disciplined in order to survive and logical, confident, supportive so they are fluid traits the essential core traits that make a woman feminine is emotional expression women tend to be more neurotic than men, women tend to be more motherly or fall into the motherly role even if they don't have kids, women tend to be more agreeable, and more likely to be extroverted than men etc and its' all because of our biology that makes them more inclined to be that way.

That's why i see those biological traits as a determining factor of femininity then the cherry on top is a woman who then also embodies the things that have been deemed as being feminine by society for example, make up, heels, dresses, skirts, pink things, etc.

So judging by that I am a feminine woman in my feminine energy.

[Xia1994]

it's all because of our biology that makes us*

[AmxlPX201]

I don't understand most of these words properly.

Anyways, I think the following are true:

Balanced between Natural

Feminine energy>masculine

Wounded feminine>masculine

[Simslover92]

Definitely more feminine

[CoolCatMar1]

More feminine

[laly520]

100% feminine

[LavLavLuv]

Feminine