Do you love yourself?

[Miah04]

I think too many people struggle with loving themselves, because they only see their flaws or non successes

[dustybiker2]

I wouldn't be here if I didn't. It's the thing that keeps us all going through tough times.

[dustybiker2]

That sounded depressing. Did it sound depressing? 😂

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Sounded uplifting to me!

[dustybiker2]

Thanks man. 😎

[Miah04]

This was wisdom. If we don't love ourselves it is easy to let the darkness in, when life gets hard.

[dustybiker2]

Truth. Such truth.

[Wiredone]

@dustybiker2 it was not depressing at all

[dustybiker2]

@Wiredone Thank you, sir.

[Wiredone]

You're very welcome

[Miah04]

@Wiredone thank me for asking😡

[dustybiker2]

😂 Possessive today
•hands @Miah04 a snickers•

[Wiredone]

@miah04😁😁😁😁😁

[Miah04]

*reluctantly takes the snickers*

[dustybiker2]

😎😎

[Jamie05rhs]

Hey- who can ever reject a Snickers? Lol. Those things are delicious! 😋

[dustybiker2]

@Jamie05rhs Power bar of the gods.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yeah haha

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I think so but the way I love someone or something is to seek to improve it. Like if I love my house, I want to see it increase in value so I clean it, maintain it, make repairs, home improvements. I don't accept it the way it is.

In that sense, I might love myself more than anyone else in the world, since I most want to improve myself. I have my own inner Mickey:

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I do have this apprehension towards the idea of conflating self-love with self-acceptance. For example, I quit drinking alcohol last year since I was very discontent with my binge drinking habits. It came from a lack of self-acceptance but with self-love that I decided to quit drinking. If I didn't have self-love and instead too much self-acceptance, I would have just been like, "Whatever, I'm happy being a complete drunk!" So I really think self-love means we always seek self-improvement; at least that's the way I see it.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I never struggled with self-loathing though since I put maximum stock into the idea that people can change, starting with me. So if there's something I don't like about myself, I can fix it in the future. I'm a moving target, not a fixed target, so there's nothing to hate since I can just keep improving and improving.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Also never disliked anything I can't fix since it's not broken. For example, I never disliked my height since I can't fix it, so it's not broken. I only dislike things that can fixed, i. e., broken. And so I can't dislike myself as a whole, since I can always fix it. I'm not going to dislike my house because the lightbulb needs replacement. I'll just replace it. I still love my house.

[WhiteSteve]

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[Miah04]

😂😂

[Justneedtokno]

I love myself.
I think when I sit back in, say it, or say it out loud, if feels a little odd and weird, because I’m already taken care of myself for I’m already doing what’s necessary to live. Like drinking water, eating giving into my whims and passions. It seems sometimes it just feels silly to say, but yes, I love myself. 🥰

[Skyros]

I’m very happy for you. It’s near impossible to find such happiness in this life.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Yeah. I know I'm quite different from most adults, but I always tell myself I'm doing good and the best I can. I can definitely say what I've been doing and have done so far is great, even if other people wouldn't consider it as such (because they live a different life). But I love myself and other people.

[superchan2011]

No I don't love myself, but I've learned not to loathe myself like I used to do. I instead accept myself for who I am while working to become the best version of myself.

[RebelinSteel]

Yes I am happy with myself, I accept a lot of my own issues, both mental and physical.
I must clean my mirrors though, too many kiss marks

[nawtee_me]

Absolutely, and I am good looking too. If you don’t believe me just ask me…. I’ll tell you…. lol

[Miah04]

😂😂

[Alex-Snow]

I love myself and while I have done stupid things I have also helped some people and try to be a good person. Besides I also have great sex with myself if there is no girl around! How bout you?

[worldscolide]

For a long time, no. Then I met my wife.. For some damn reason this beautiful girl loves me, so I thought that maybe there is something in me that is worth loving.

[EmmaMary]

@miah04

Well if I didn't, who would? lol

[Pinay_ako]

Self love. Yes 🙌 if I can’t love me, who else will?

[Rangers]

Of course not, you think I'd drink so much rum that I threw up 14 times in one day if I loved myself?

[Wiredone]

Yes I do love myself for the person I am. I'm proud of who I've become. I have to partially thank my parents for that. They brought me up right. They instilled values in me when I was growing up.

[mandyfire98]

I think overall I do.

[mandyfire98]

There are times where I think "you dumb hoe" but overall I love myself.

[Miah04]

😂😂

[Anonymous]

lol no. i've been struggling badly this week and last week.

[Guanfei]

Nope. In fact I'm probably the person who hate me the most.

[ChicoFromThe305]

*hugs myself* that's good 😌

[Miah04]

Good job

[Fuentes]

Lol depends on the mood

[Miah04]

You do.

[CoolCatMar1]

I do love myself for many reasons

[Anonymous]

One of the few things in my life that I’ve mastered is hating who I am. I’ve accepted that true, lasting peace won’t find me until I’m gone.

[Drew-1990]

I would be lying if I said I loved myself.

[MemeSupreme]

does anyone actually love themselves lmao

[sirderpsalot123]

I guess lol

[Miah04]

*grabs derp and shakes* love yourself😡

[sirderpsalot123]

Maybe tomorrow lol

[dustybiker2]

•snort•

[Miah04]

That felt so lazy😂

[dustybiker2]

Incredibly lazy

[LiamS95]

Just enough not overboard.

[Lynx122]

Yes <3 :)

[Skyros]

What’s that like?

[Lynx122]

@Skyros It's nice :) life is still challenging but when it's too much I just give myself a break and I don't get pissed at myself for not completing everything that was planned. When I feel better I just keep going at my own pace. It might be a bit annoying for other people sometimes but whatever.

[ballweevil]

more likely i hate myself

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes. I have too. It's a must.

[Charliefretz329]

I’m Trying hard to. I think it’s super important

[Luckycharms12]

Struggle with it. But I have respect for myself

[eagle1951]

someone has too

[ab2shifty]

Nahhhh

[Miah04]

Best start or else

[YevBor]

Exactly opposite.

[katiesmuff]

Not an issue for me!

[laly520]

yes I do

[sheikalana]

Yes, I do.

[Jay-_-]

I'm trying to learn

[MrDaveAPSI]

Nope