Women think with their hearts and men think with their dicks, how true is this?

[Anonymous]

It makes sense why so many women are easily manipulated by men and it makes sense why so many men are easily controlled by women, It seems that it's a learning curve only reached with time and experiences to break this cycle for both to think with their minds.

[Anonymous]

People just need to stop running games. It's just best to pray for a partner and all. Both men and woman play games. People like that are weak and pathetic. I feel like I'm pretty mature for someone my age. I'm 27. And people most guys around my age is still on that elementary/middle school mindset. Like seriously grow up and settle down and stop sleeping around. If y'all are scared. Stop dating and having sex. And remain single and celibate. Sex is part of a relationship. Sex is a gift and was originally a gift from The Creator of Universe for married couples. Most people misuse sex and use it as a game. No! It's for only to bond with your mate and to create children. Whoever wants children. People keep acting like they have no sense at all! It's so annoying dealing with people who can't just have a sensible mind! And reasonable! That's everyone's problem if they want to used and stop giving yourself to men. And men stop giving yourself to women without marriage! There are so many red flags to look for. And y'all to tend ignore it! Trust your gut feeling and stop being ignorant! And educate yourself. If you are sex addict get some real help! I'm so tired of being the only human in this world who doesn't these problems like everyone else. I don't judge people but seriously this is so sad! Like be adults and be real! Especially women in general who got pregnant so young or regret it. Always project their stupid non sense on me. Like okay it's not problem that you decided to sleep around and you are mad because I'm not pregnant. Like I don't care it's so stupid! Go fix yourself! It makes me so mad. Because people want to fool around and get diseases like rats. And cry for pity and help when y'all purposely put yourself in a situation! Innocent victims do not count at all! If someone lied to you and all that's not your fault. But if you knew they did and you continued. That's your fault especially if they lied to you again! Break up and divorce if they are cheating on you. Like dang! Like guys playing games and wasting your youth on stupid nonsense! Like grow up! Anyone is offended is because it's truth about them. I already figured that out! There are good women and men out there but y'all reject them. Even if they are good looking. Y'all reject them if they not one cm tall or chest area isn't one cup large. Something with behind. Just get real that we aren't perfect at all! And that we will all get older to back to dust to the ground!

[Opinion Owner]

It's so sad because many women always treat me mean because I don't have children or if I'm not sleeping around! Tbh I'm so happy not doing that! Because it brings negative vibes when doing stuff like that!

[Opinion Owner]

It is possible to break the cycle! Everyone has to change their own ways instead of trying to figure out what someone else may do

[Asker]

When you are going in the right path you'll always have people try to drag you down the incorrect one

[Opinion Owner]

Yesss always especially when trying to follow God's ways. Smh but it's worth staying in the cramp road than the space road

[Asker]

Spoken like a true believer, that is indeed true.

[Account]

Honestly no, I dont have a low opinion of men. I don't view them as simplistic creatures, therefore, I don't think that is true. I think we are all a bit complicated no matter the gender. I don't think all women think with their hearts and I don't think all men think with their dicks.
A couple of men here on the other hand are a disgrace... 😩

[thatkawaiiemogirly]

You can say that again sis!

[Asker]

I meant most not all, it seems this way with a lot of people, women can have a hard time reading people's intentions even when the signs are clear and dudes have a hard time not keeping their dicks in their pants and have a hard time not sexualizing others, but maybe it the people I've seen personally according to my environment, either ways you don't see to think with your heart, I've noticed you actually seem like the type to not let anyone into your heart which I think only leads to one question, were you always like that or did something happen that changed you? Maybe at one point you did think with your heart or maybe you never cared too, either ways you aren't one of the women that do 🤔

[Account]

You are actually correct. I think logically mostly as much as my capabilities permit me to. Oh I allow people into my heart platonically lol. I have also allowed them romantically too in the past, but not to the point of loving them due to the fact that for me that is reserved for family and friends.
Also if I loved them and they loved me, wouldn't that have been everlasting? For sure it would have. Therefore, that was lacking. Even though we cared for each other as long as that lasted, we just weren't fully compatible for the element of love to develop.
It doesn't happen often to me to fully like someone because I can usually understand people at first or second glance and I don't like settling or trying things that I know are doomed to fail anymore. I don't have the mental or emotional capacity for that. At least not right now.

[Asker]

Well falling out of love exists, cause love is very powerful but it's also quite fragile and can be broken or can fade away if the flame isn't kept lit, speaking of romantic love of course, the way romance works for you is very different than most women and even tho it's more challenging it seems beneficial to both, for a guy earning your love and your heart will be more difficult and possibly even complicated and doing so will help them value it enough to not fuck it up and for you if a guy puts all that effort to win your heart over until he does, it only shows persistence and that shows character which can help both of y'all grow a stronger bond, interesting 🤔

[RavVid]

A gal pal maintained it was easier to persuade women with rat like logic and men with this'll get you laid.

I think she was right. A trophy blonde in a car add does have me thinking. Rat like logic is this'll get you {insert desirable resource here}. Same thing at the end of the day but for men primal sexual emotion is making the decision whilst women use primal avarice logic in making the decision. "oh he has got pots of money. I will fall in love with him then"

[BetaBucks]

Men can act like their emotions don't lead them through life, but I know better. Sure, we make a lot of decisions based on sex, but I see guys making terrible decisions based on love even more. And I think women think about sex way more often than they admit to. It's why they're convinced that it's all men think about.

[Miah04]

I think i am more of heart thinker, but i do believe i have a lot of logical thoughts too.

As for y'all.

I don't know.

I just kinda know when it becomes a spring board y'all don't seem to think clearly.

[Asker]

What is this y'all you speak of, my brain has reached max size from all the braininess 😌🧠

[Miah04]

I'm just sayin

[Asker]

I know I was joking, was to kill it, you must love being a party pooper 😂

[Asker]

Way to kill it*

[Miah04]

Mine was a joke

[Asker]

I know I was playing the victim card, I kinda wanted to see how that's like

[Miah04]

Welp. It kinda failed

[Asker]

Damn

[EmmaMary]

@ChicoFromThe305

Well it's a feat of complete impossibility to think with something I don't actually have... So I'll happily settle for the other option instead... Thank You.

[Asker]

It wasn't a multiple choice, you think with your heart lol

[EmmaMary]

@ChicoFromThe305

Thank you so much for actually confirming this! lol

[Asker]

I thought I made it clear with my question 😂

[genericname85]

i mean "sometimes" that's true for men. not all the time. and women don't think with their heart. hearts don't think. they pump blood. women look for which partner benefits them the most. which isn't bad or something. just rational. tho they like to hide it behind some fuzzy feel good bullshit. while men are typically just honest about it.

[NathanDavis]

if they're immature, sure...

but most people grow up

[Asker]

That is a lie most people stay within the cycle, it's one of the main reasons why there's so much failure in relationships, according to statistics approximately 70% of relationships end within the first year , if there was a lot of maturity in society then we would see a lot of it in relationships.

[NathanDavis]

the immature thing to do... would be to stay in a relationship that just doesn't work...

[Asker]

The mature thing to do is to choose accordingly to what you know you want in a partner and when you do so, to work things out instead of just dropping things when things get complicated.

[NathanDavis]

if they were the right partner... it would not be as complicated...

that's why a lot of of divorces have happened... because they married for the wrong reasons, and the idealized expectations

[Asker]

There will always be complications and too complicated is subjective, you just proved my point tho, I agree, people marry for the wrong reasons, I dont believe thats a mature thing to do, before proposal they should know exactly who they are marrying, the can't take all the time they need to get to know a person.

[Asker]

They*

[NathanDavis]

yes, that is true... but immaturity causes a lot of issues, not just these ones...

and whoever is not thinking with their heads, they are immature

[Asker]

I don't disagree with anything you've said here, which seems to be a big percentage of the human population, or at least in some parts of the world

[NathanDavis]

on that, I would not know, nor I am sure... lol

[Asker]

If it wasn't then the failure wouldn't be so high cause most would supposedly be thinking with their heads not leaving tons of room for mistakes.

[IslaTheWitch]

Chico... read what the relationship cycle looks like... divorces happen exactly in moments of crisis in the relationship...

infatuation takes up to 6 months and then people start to see the real person... their advantages and disadvantages, all annoying details... if there was nothing more than infatuation, the relationship is over...

next crisis comes 6 months later, when everything started to seem too normal... no more super excitement, some future plans that require effort and involvement... no more fireworks...

then after next 2 years people start to ask the question "what am I doing here? Who is this person? where is love?"...

and so on...

why? because people are not taught that relationship is hard work. You have your job, annoying boss, unrealistic deadline, and at home is this important person who is very sensitive to your moods. You have to learn how to balance everything, how to listen and look to hear and see what is important. How to grit your teeth and don't explode when you have to repeat something the 6th time. Or when after talking about something important for you your partner says "what?". Because they are people too. Tired, worried, sad... such days can break everything if you don't work on your shortcomings, if you don't invest your time and emotions, if you think you are over it, because you are the mythical provider...

[Agape93]

Well I certainly have never thought with a dick. Lol

[Asker]

If you had one you would 💀

[Agape93]

Yeap

[jack1924]

Chico, I have a very big heart lol

[Asker]

Big time rush was legendary lol

[jack1924]

I have never seen it before lol

[Asker]

Shit is fire

[exitseven]

Yes, lots of times guys think with their little heads.

[Asker]

Lmao little heads

[MisterWack]

This is culture war baiting male v. female shit.

My answer: Individuals think with their dicks and individuals think with their hearts, it is up for us to pick out the good from the bad.

[Staximus]

I'd have to say that I know a few women who think with their vaginas instead of their brains or their hearts

[Anonymous]

Men think with their brains but have a higher sex drive than women.

[Asker]

If they thought with their brains they wouldn't be so easy to control, not all but it seems like it's most

[Opinion Owner]

Everyone has things that others can use to control them. It doesn't mean they think with a body part other than their brain.

[Asker]

It is if that is if that's the way to control them

[Opinion Owner]

What?

[SugarSugarplum]

SO, no one is using their brains?

[Asker]

Metaphorically nope, scientifically everyone does, the metaphoric comparison to using your brain is to think logically according to common sense and to make the choices that you believe will bring the best results to everyone around you and yourself, people think they do that but use either emotions or other things that would cloud their judgment, or so that's what they saying believes and where it comes from.

[Asker]

The saying*

[lorenzomichael]

I don’t know about all that, but I believe that women just want money and us guys wanna fuck everything.

[Jennz6]

You said it, so I guess it’s true

[Asker]

Wdym?

[Jennz6]

@ChicoFromThe305
I mean what you said must be true

[Asker]

It's more of a guess Jenn I don't know all the facts

[Jennz6]

@ChicoFromThe305
It seems like you know everything

[Asker]

No that would be quite a claim, but thanks for the compliment tho Jenn 😁

[sirderpsalot123]

I don't think with mine. It thinks for me.

[Asker]

Lmao same thing 😂

[sirderpsalot123]

I disagree lol

[Asker]

How's so? 😂

[Miah04]

Samething. You weewee thinker

[IslaTheWitch]

not true at all...

[FunkyMonkee]

I think with my brain.

[12karen]

Somehow it's true...

[12karen]

Do you think with your dick

[Asker]

I did when I was younger but I have mentally evolved from that

[12karen]

Mean your statement is true at some point

[Asker]

I guess so