Have you ever been betrayed?

[Anonymous]

Share if you are comfortable of course.

[PeachyPie93]

All the time growing up especially in high school mainly by people I thought were friends or even best friends. Never anything big but just things that hurt my feelings, ego or lost my trust. I had girls become "friends" with me just because I was friends with "hot" guys. These girls would become my friend to get in with me so they could be around the guy but then always say like shady or hurtful comments to me or try to tear me down, literally for no reason, yet pretend like we are besties. So even now I have a hard time wanting to become friends with women.

[Asker]

That's fucked up, poor little peachy pie, but at least these colors show and you are able to separate from them 🤔

[PeachyPie93]

Which is why you will often see me dissing or judging woman much harsher than men in a lot of questions lol

[Asker]

I haven't noticed, but good to know 😂😆

[Account]

Not in a way that has impact.
... Or wait, maybe it does and I don't realize it?

I have to think about it, I might be subconsciously fooling myself.

I will come back to this in two days if I remember.

[Asker]

I'm never hearing from you again am I? 😂

[Account]

LMAO I will set a timer thing on my calendar! Because knowing me I will a 100% forget. I mean it about the timer 😂
It sucks that we cannot upload screenshots on comments because I would show you proof

[Asker]

Now you are coming clean, all this time you knew you'd forget, if I ever got captured by enemies I wish I was as convincing as you, "maybe I'm just fooling myself *lighting strike* I WILL COME BACK THO!" maybe they will just let me go 😂

[Account]

My brain isn't braining I am getting old. I literally have to set timers to do tasks at work that I will forget or focus on another task that is not of much importance if I dont do so. My mind is like 30 opened tabs on Microsoft Explorer. I only operate on alarms 🤣

LMAO!
I told you I will definitely be back 😅 I just need to process this at night because it is easier to think at night that is why I gave a half-answer. I also need to know if I am fooling myself subconsciously

[Asker]

Sounds like your brain is just braining too much, these seem to be a sign of a busy brain, maybe age has partially to do with it but you aren't old, although you are getting there and the reason I know is cause like old people, you are already blaming age for everything, you almost convinced me that you are walking with a cane 😂

I don't want you pushing yourself too hard on top of your busy schedule to answer my question that will most likely be like 4 questions deep by tomorrow, respond if you naturally remember, no pressure 😆💯

[Account]

Yo Dr House walks with a cane and he is pretty damn cool! 🤣
I have been saying I am old since my early 20s 💀.

Anyway I took some time to think about it and it actually had some impact since I am more paranoid regarding people I allow into my life. I thought I wouldn't be because it wasn't a betrayal by people who are very close to me, however, I foolishingly refused to see the damage and fooled myself into thinking that it didn't affect me in order to avoid processing it.

[Asker]

I'm going through the same situation in my 20s, I just don't let them fool me to believe I'm old, you are still not old either 😂

Well being honest with yourself is the first step into improvement, trust should be given but at the same time earned, it's a hard process to understand but it's easier to feel

[ProbablyClueless]

Several times, yes. Friends, romantic partners. I've had family members throw me under the bus (about really small stuff) a couple of times.

Fortunately my negative experiences have been vastly outweighed by the positive ones.

[Asker]

That sucks indeed bro

[Anonymous]

My ex wife had 3 sperm donors. I wasn't one of them.

[Asker]

Damn that's fucked up

[Opinion Owner]

Much as I hate it, I qualify as a Cuck.

[electromagnetic]

I don’t think so. I’ve been cheated on and that sorta feels like betrayal but nothing in that sort of context either.

[Asker]

Cheating is a form of betrayal I think

[MicahRaine]

Multiple times. Mainly by family as I choose loyal friends.

[Agape93]

Yeap to varying degrees.

[Asker]

Poor little agape... again

[Agape93]

I won in the end.

[Asker]

Still lol

[douride2]

Very much so.

[Asker]

That sucks

[LiamJHayden]

Never seriously.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[MemeSupreme]

who hasn't lol

[Asker]

Poor momo, being tossed around like a salad by life.

[MemeSupreme]

have you been betrayed before

are you a salad too

[Asker]

In some ways, I'm a different kind of salad 😂

[CubaPirate]

Not that I know of