Have you ever been betrayed?

[IJhonnyI]

Forget all the petty and little things have you ever been harshly betrayed and if you don't wanna go into detail don't, just a simple yes or no is fine

[Rose_84]

You tell me. But I consider it a betrayal.

A guy agreed to be my friend, he said he takes a lot of time to build trust, I was patient for two years until he finally open up.

We were like best buddies who will be there for each other and he also said he prefers permanent people over temporary ones.

I was finally secure that at least for once in my life I actually found a GENUINE friend.

Then after 4 years of friendship he tells me that he will end this bond if either me or him comes in a relationship or starts dating.

I said why the fuck would you do that? He replied: "it's my rule, I never become friends with committed girls and I won't need a female friend once I have my own girlfriend because she will feel insecure".

I told him why the hell he didn't told me his stupid rule early so that I wouldn't have wasted my time and would have looked for better friends instead?

He is possessive of me and doesn't like when I don't call him everyday or when I talk to other guys PLATONICALLY.

He begged for my forgiveness and told me to continue this friendship until anyone of us engages with the opposite sex. But at the same time he feels entitled to talk to me everyday.

I will rather talk to him once in a month because wasting my 2 hours everyday is detrimental to my productivity or it interferes with my leisure time.

[Rose_84]

FYI I made my distance. It's so agitating when he is temporary in my life but also very clingy. I talked everyday but for once I didn't called him for 2 days, he was asking me why. So that's when I decided to create my distance. I can't be involved with a selfish person especially when he is aware that I'm in need of alone time.

[IJhonnyI]

I understand why your upset and you have the right to be he should have made things clear from the start and that's where he was wrong

[FilmGuy93]

Yes... I have been very legitimately and very seriously betrayed a few times in life.

[NathanDavis]

nope... not even close

but also "don't rely on me and I won't deceive..."

[Agape93]

Yeap

[Mynameisbobby]

Yes I have.