Like if someone asks you if you cleaned your car and you reply with yea but you didn't so you decide to actually do it so the results are the same ๐
Some might call it a pre truth ๐
I have. I have been invited to a semi-formal event and I was like "Can't. I have a family outing". Then I was like.. *sigh* "I guess I have to arrange a family outing now. 🤣" and I did.
Lmao it be like that, they don't have to know the truth truth, just the truth ๐
So how often do you put such efforts to make things right ๐
Same basically, to avoid uncalled for issues and to prevent worse results, I don't think lying is right but a deep truth is that not everyone can handle the truth so sometimes it has to be stirred into something similar to get the better results if that makes sense.
I sound like a manipulative asshole right? If so I don't mean it like that ๐
Lol I guess that makes two of us ๐ซ
as a kid...
"did you clean your room?" of course (putting used clothes in the laundry basket)
"did you buy milk?" of course (running to the grocery)
"did you do homework?" of course not... I don't think I did a single homework in my life... :D
now no one asked me such stuff anymore... :D
Lol fair enough
Well it was still a lie. Like if someone asked me in January 2023 if I'd ever beaten an IM in a chess game and I said "Yes" when at that time I had not, even my doing so later would not actually make my original response true.
hahaha
Oh I think I must have done that yes, especially for choirs, I don't have specific examples but yeah I'm sure I want many times this "pre-truth" way, good phrasing here! 🤣
*went many times
Not many have, or they are scared to admit lol
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Kind of. When my parents accuse me of something and I said I didn't so they go 'yeah right' so me annoyed that they didn't believe me, told them that now I was gonna do it and I did. Out of spite :(
What a plot twist ๐
But it worked! Over time, no more accusations ๐
Over time? How many more times did it happen since then? Cause sounds like a few
Yep a few ๐ but it was just very annoying
Lol.
I lied about having my nipples pierced because I really wanted to do it then I finally got the courage to do it. 😂
Pre truth indeed lol, but both? You telling me it went something like *pierce* AAAAHHHH!
"okay now the other one" ๐
The first one didn't hurt that bad the second one made me cry though ๐
Sounds like one is more sensitive than the other, although the pain timing did you right If the last one was the worst ha
I do wonder if the guy fucked it up because that one has always had issues ๐คท๐ปโโ๏ธ
He was probably hoping you didn't notice, I'm sure that pain is motivating enough to not let it close up tho
I like having both too lol I feel like one is weird
Perhaps, even weirder if someone pierced their favorite tit, or pierced the opposite lol
No, I mean yes. I mean noโฆ oh well donโt know which is which.
Now I'll never know lol
๐ thatโs my point
Why? Lol
Because itโs fun ๐คฉ
Not for me ๐ซ
Ahahaha I know ! I am the annoying orange.
Lol.
Lmao I used to lie about having kids and being a single mom when I was younger and didnโt want to talk to someone and now I have a kid am a single mom 🤣
I've got so many questions ๐
Lmao like?
I was so committed to it too lol Iโd have my nieces and nephews answer my phone and say their mom was busy ๐๐๐
Why? For starters, did they ever find out the truth? Are you happy to be a single mom now? Do you regret lying about it then? Why single mom and not a normal mom? I'm sure I can come up with more if I process everything deeper ๐
For one I used to pickup my nieces and nephewโs from school in hs/college lmao so whenever Iโd get asked out by people I used to know Iโd just say I was a mom ๐ no I donโt regret it because the funniest rumors about me happened and I found out who was spreading them. A normal mom wouldโve encouraged a conversation but single was like awww nvm let me not get into it ๐คฃ
Leads to more questions, as expected, so why didn't you want to date? Were you already taken so it was the best way to matrix all the interest? cause high school and college is basically the moments people date and stuff, you've got good planning and are very wise to getting the results you want tho, I'll give you that lol
If you don't say when you did it, its technically not a lie.
it just becomes "i did it in the future".
Nope. People who can do that are deceptive.
Way to make things deep ๐
yeah back when I was still a liberal
The fact that you were ever a liberal is wild ๐
Pre-truth. I'm dying... :D
It was a lie when you said it
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