Weird dreams have me at a loss?

[Anonymous]

The last few nights I’ve had dreams that my “friend” ended up having a significant other. And that’s fine, but what bothered (bothers?) me is the fact that he didn’t tell me, which is something we’ve discussed and agreed we’d let the other know. Do I just ask him about it or not say anything?

[ohsheeT]

Well you're asking this question so you must have thought about it.

Weird dreams have me at a loss.

Is that just a question or is that what you feel because you know if he does then you know what you're going to do if you ask and he does

And it's the same time it will bug you till the end of time if you don't ask knowing that something's not right maybe so

You're stuck between a rock and a hard spot

The part of you doesn't want to know the truth and a part of your needs to know

And we both know the right thing will win out

Because that's just who you are that's the reason why you're asking this question

I can only say it like this because I have dreams too and they're usually pretty accurate
I hope yours isn't
Because in the next question will be how do you fix a broken heart and we're not going to answer that question so that means you're going to be okay and he doesn't have a better half but he might be seeing somebody I'm going to zip it right there leave it alone is what I'm telling myself but I'm curious because dreams do mean something so I would like to know just because I find that cool and I love how the dreams tell you a lot of different things I don't care about the drama part of it I'm more into the knowledge of your dreams sorry I didn't mean it to sound like that but I hope you know what I meanre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[strateguy632]

Your worry caused the dreams, but he never did it.

I recall one gal told me she dreamt i cheated on her.

I said, " josef had a dream about future , also your's, i didn't do it yet!"

She freaked out and accused me because she SAW me cheat... in her dream. I Asked if she wanted to break up, but she kept yelling so i dumped that wacko!

Are you like that?

[HollyK21]

Confronting him is pointless because these are just dreams, so as of now he has not gone against your agreement. Who knows maybe this is your intuition screaming that he’s being dishonest but if that’s the case then just end it. I mean you can hope that he’s abiding by what you talked about but the hard truth is that he doesn’t owe you the discretion.


It’s like if you and your best friend pinky swear to tell each other when you start seeing someone, and she comes out one night with a whole boyfriend. The most you can be about it is hurt and disappointed but at the end of the day, she chose to go a route outside of your promise. This is the equivalent of asking a man to let you know when he’s seeing someone else, he says he will but behind the scenes.

[HollyK21]

**behind the scenes he’s doing otherwise.

[Gwendoline]

I get what he was doing. When I started dating my husband I kept it very low key and didn't tell anyone how serious I was about him for a long time in case it didn't work out.

[Wise4myage]

I say let it go, he might have felt awkward

[In_Trance]

this is why guys think women are insane

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 it was a dream!

Women☕️