Guys do you like women with a jealous nature?

[Anonymous]

I'm guilty of it, I have thought of a theory that jealous people are the most loyal, they know how it feels to be jealous so theirs a higher chance they won't do something they know they wouldn't like themselves, this of course has many other parts like morals and self control but I've noticed a pattern that a high amount of loyal people get jealous, I know people that don't get jealous have loyalty too but I feel like there's some kind of link there, I also like jealousy cause jealous women are adorable.

[Booboolove69]

When I’m with a guy and I really like him or love him or adore him and he starts to look at other women or getting calls from other women or talking about other women I get fucking jealous but if I don’t like a guy in that way and I’m friends with a guy and I got no feelings like that for a guy then I don’t get jealous. Why do I get jealous with guys that I dig because I don’t wanna lose them !!!

[Asker]

Yep that's the adorable nature all women should have in my opinion, it's a way to express your love in a completely different way 😂

[Booboolove69]

Yup 👍

[Vevv123]

Not necessarily, I’ve seen some of the most possessive and jealous people actually be some of the most unfaithful. In that case I think for them, it came from within, maybe paranoia or their guilty conscience making them think others could be just like them. I think it depends on the person though.

[Asker]

That is... a fair point actually, there goes my theory 😂

[Vevv123]

😂😅

[VyacheslavSokolov]

No they are very immature. They don't understand you are busy and that is why you can't response to text. You will want to pull your hair out if you were with someone like that.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[OneViewpoint]

Oh hell no. I left high school behind long ago. I have no interest in revisiting that period in my life now. So no to women with massive insecurities and trust issues.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[MemeSupreme]

my mom is a jealous woman

she also cheated on my dad and was paranoid bc she was cheating lol feel like if it's anything more than normal it's FISHY

[Asker]

Good point, word family you got there lol

[MemeSupreme]

word or weird lol

[Asker]

Weird, you knew the answer, why even ask lol

[MemeSupreme]

my dog was shoving his nose in my face, so i just typed up a random response so i could put my phone down lol

AND yeah i have a very dysfunctional family

[Asker]

Fair enough lol

[alice55]

It's interesting because in France there's the reverse believe is it said that jealous people are jealous because they're cheater and worried their partner will do like them.

[Asker]

Yea people have been telling me that and have ruined my whole theory 😂

[alice55]

Well my mom is extremely jealous and she's very loyal, she never ever looked in another man direction only looked at my father so XD
I think it depend some are jealous cause they're cheater and other are jealous cause they're obsessed with their partner / love them a lot and are not cheater it depend on the person.

[Asker]

Yep it truly does depend on the person, I assume your mom past that trait onto you lol

[alice55]

Sadly yes I'm a pretty jealous person but I hide it cause it's not well received in general when I'm jealous I mostly ignore the person / give silent treatment I don't yell or do anything loud my mom was quite loud though xD

[Asker]

So you are the quiet jealous? That's normally easy to read, very adorable, I hope your jealousy trait runs down for generations 😌👏🏼

[alice55]

Well considering that my sister is also jealous it'll surely run down during many generation it's in our dna XD
Yes I'm the quiet jealous and even if it's easy to read some people just prefer ignoring it and act like everything is fine.
I will doom my generation with quiet jealousy XD

[Asker]

It definitely will but I think the quiet jealousy Is the better than the loud, as long as the guy doesn't have to fish it out of you like fishing for Marlins, you will bless your generations with loyal jealousy lol

[alice55]

It's sure, it's also a lot less embarrassing when in public when people are the type to have loud jealousy and they scream in public it's funny to watch but must be so embarrassing for the person XD
Well I share my feelings pretty easily is people just ask me like "what''s wrong' then I will say. There's no point in making it difficult as nothing will get solved after.
As long as they're loyal that's the most important

[Asker]

You are reasonable too? You are such a good catch Alice, you are heavily underated, I have hope you'll have a very bright future, very full of wonder 😆💯

[alice55]

Thank you, I hope to have a very bright future too to be honest when I was a child I had rude days but the more I grew up the better my life get so ^^
I hope you have a good future too :)

[Asker]

Well I'm glad the things changed for the better and youve reached good things in life, and thanks Alice I hope so too and I appreciate it 😁

[alice55]

You're welcome :)
Thank you ^^

[Asker]

😁💯

[sirderpsalot123]

I like being desired, I don't like being controlled and feeling like our entire relationship is me trying to defuse a bomb.

[Asker]

I guess it depends if what makes the bomb stop ticking is justifiable or not, normally tho the more mature jealous women just give you the silent treatment 😂

[sirderpsalot123]

I hate the silent treatment lol

[Asker]

Lol fair enough

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Jealousy is not an adorable trait in my eyes lol. More like a trait with high potential to be suffocating 😬

[loveslongnails]

Jealous? No. Protective? YES!

[Asker]

What emotion you think powers that protective behavior tho 😂

[loveslongnails]

Emotions don't empower protection; love does. Fear powers jealousy.

[Asker]

No it doesn't, love powers jealousy as well, people express love in different ways, expecting everyone to express it the same way is unrealistic since everyone is different

[loveslongnails]

Love NEVER empowers jealousy; fear does. You are mistaking misguided acts of possessiveness with "love", and those acts are based on fear. Trying to excuse those acts by saying " oh, it's only my different way of expressing love", is bullshit. It's a rationalization for denial.

[Asker]

Yes it does, if it didn't nobody would care enough to be jealous over anything you do, if anything they would even encourage you to do what you want so you leave them alone, clearly jealousy has love as it's source because the reason they get upset about a specific thing you do isn't cause they don't care, they also would "fear" about losing you if they didn't care

[Asker]

Wouldn't*

[Asker]

Even if its from insecurity or fear, the source is love because they wouldn't feel any of these threats if they didn't have any feelings for you

[loveslongnails]

You are MISTAKING jealousy for "caring because of love, or out of love". A jealous person "cares" about "losing what they THINK they own", not because they love the person, but because they don't wish to be alone. It's not love FOR that person; it's the FEAR of being alone or that they DON'T love you! IF you loved someone and knew they didn't love you back, you'd let them go and not try to possess them.

If you don't understand this, we're just going to disagree indefinitely, and that's fine. I'm out, it's late, I'm tired. Have a good night.

[loveslongnails]

No it isn't... it's not love, it's possessiveness for your own benefit. There's a huge difference.

[Asker]

Im surely not talking about possessiveness you are mistakening the question, can't tell how I meant my question, just cause youve had toxic possessive experiences that traumatized you doesn't mean every jealous person has these same twisted sources to their jealousy, I guess we will have to agree to disagree

[MikeRJ]

I don't like jealous people in general.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[oldpigg]

No..

[Miah06]

Weird