Guys, Do you guys like jealous girls?

[Anonymous]

Yes I prefer if she's a bit jealous

I prefer if she's a lot jealous prefer if she's not jealous at all

I prefer if she's not jealous at all..

[dynamicyandere]

I like it when my girl is very attached to me.


As for jealousy? As long as she isn’t controlling, it’s fine to express jealousy.


But, it needs to be like cute jealousy, not argumentative jealousy.

[Asker]

What if she's telling you that she don't like when you like other females pics, or love emoji other females comments on your posts? Is that too controlling?

[dynamicyandere]

I don’t really do those things, haha.

Especially, not with strangers.

If I use a heart emoji, with someone I know, I use white or yellow — keeping things platonic.

I reserve red and pink hearts for my S/O.

And scrolling through random thirst traps? I don’t even do that, let alone like a post.

If you don’t like your guy doing what you described though, you can go about it a softer way that will make him more receptive to change.

Instead of, “I don’t like it when you like other girls’ pictures.”

You could perhaps word it like, “You you still think I’m pretty?”

And then he might say something like, “Yeah. Of course. Why wouldn’t I?”

And then you could follow that up with something like, “It makes me sad when I see you liking other girls’ pictures because it makes me feel like maybe I’m not pretty enough for you.”

If you say that with a tone of sincere concern, and sadness, that should disarm him and make him more willing to change.

Men don’t respond well to a women’s anger.

But men are hardwired to save a damsel in distress.

So if you can make it feel like he would be saving the day, rather than being bossed around, he’ll be much more willing to listen.

Another angle could be more the cute/playful/brat approach and you just tell him that you want to be the only girl he likes on social media. This is very nuanced and will take the right personality to pull off. Whether he says yes or no, you have to keep it playful.

If he doesn’t change his ways though, then it seems like that’s just the kind of guy that you’re with — a man who does not accommodate. If that’s the case, then it is what it is. Either he decides to change on his own or you’ll need to find another man.

I believe that there should be a balance. The core of a man, the spirit of a man, should never change. However, if requests are reasonable, and for the good of the relationship, change should be embraced if it makes him a better S/O and it strengthens your relationship in the long run.

[dynamicyandere]

Soft, cute, playful? That’s how you charm a guy.

Bossy, controlling, domineering? That’s only going to anger a guy. (Unless he’s a simp, sub, or cuck.)

[Asker]

Thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I will follow your advice

[dynamicyandere]

You’re welcome! I’m glad you found my advice helpful. 🙂

[Billlewis]

No, but I love women who enjoy making me jealous;)

[Asker]

So you like when she shows her tits to other men, have social media and post for other the attention of other guys etc?

[NathanDavis]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/PB4Nby2Ai-g

hmm...

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

A bit jealous is fine but if I can't have a conversation with a woman without her acting all suspicious or can't leave the house without calling and texting me then that's a big problem.

[Asker]

Could she leave the house without you texting her / would you be suspicious of her?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yeah she can leave without me being suspicious.

If I have to live my life being suspicious of such person then I might as well be single then.

[colaman94]

Yes I prefer if she's a bit jealous. 😁👿

[colaman94]

And if she wasn't, then even sweeter 🍰🎂

[Asker]

Of you prefer a bit jealous, then how is it sweeter if she isn't?

[colaman94]

Easy. I'm not someone who likes drama or wants drama in a lover. I'm a cool guy, I just want a cool woman. Otherwise, it's out of sync 😃😅 vibes. I also don't like conflict, I am a softy, so I'd like a softy woman lol. Two pushovers make a happy man woman couple 😁😆

[colaman94]

That's my logic 🫢😃

[Asker]

Right... so is it better if she's all those things you named, softy, pushover etc, who gets a bit jealous, but doesn't fight about it... or a girl who just don't get jealous... ?

[colaman94]

Without jealous sounds like there'd never be awkward convo's of "I saw you eyeballing that other woman" or even "were you eyeballing that woman in the low neck dress more than you were me" lol 😆🤣

[colaman94]

I don't like arguing or debates, let alone in a relationship. Peace ✌🏻😁

[Asker]

Ok, at first you said "a bit jealous " instead of not jealous... but now your final answer is changed to "not jealous " correct? Just making sure I understood

[colaman94]

I guess so, I've lost track anyways, have a nice day. I'm just happily single anyhow, and thanks for your time, cya 😁

[jahaims]

Jealousy is immature