How do you handle conflict?

[Justneedtokno]

Recent realizing I used to be a person, I wanted to keep the peace /solution based when it came to people I love explosive when it came to people that I didn’t care very much about. Say something without thinking.
Say I didn’t know and now that I’m 30 I’m learning that I don’t give quick responses to things because I think about the stuff that I wanna say to each person but I know that they want a quick response in that moment, but I don’t wanna say the wrong thing Not politically correct but not to hinder the relationship just thinking

I feel like I’m still doing it wrong

[insatiable_curiosity]

I’ve gotten better as I’ve explored the use of non-violent communication. It’s important to step back, emotionally regulate ourselves, and to find ways of bringing up uncomfortable information to without attacking. Imagine that you were to receive the feedback that you are thinking about giving. How would you want it to sound? What would you want to say?


Also, remember that you both have experiences and that two things are often true at the same time.

[Pudsmucker]

I've never dealt well with conflict. I tried to avoid it. I usually walk around it or walk away from it. My wife doesn't like it when I ignore her when she wants to argue with me. No point of arguing no point of any kind of conflict. I grew up in a house of conflict and it wasn't fun it was not necessary My parents always fought. The only thing that anybody wins is bad feelings. And they linger. Nobody wins everybody loses. I prefer discussions You learn from discussions

[Dongie]

Violently! Heh, just kidding. Calmly and as an adult.

[Agape93]

With aggression