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Have you ever had someone tell you that you made them a certain way?

My ex said to me , You made me this way? Basically blaming me for her choices and decisions, I just laugh and said , I am not your Dad so i didn’t make shit , you made your own selfish choices and decisions, don’t try to blame me for your own selfishness and behavior, you did it to yourself. I also had another girl tell me that she changed her hair color because of me? I didn’t even date this girl or anything , she just took my words like it was directed toward her for whatever reason. I never thought once that I had this natural impact on people , like WTF is wrong with people? Are people that desperate and vulnerable to other peoples’ words? Have you ever experienced things like this? Why some people are controlled by your words? When I talk to people , I talk from my own personal feelings and experiences or things I witnessed in life , I don’t point fingers at someone else whatsoever, if someone asks me a question , I answer from how I see things , not how someone else sees things, why do some people do this? Have you ever had this much impact on someone without realizing you do? It blows me away that some people have very low self esteem about themselves. The only time I can come off as controlling in a playful way is in the bedroom , but outside the bedroom , you are your own person and you make your own decisions and choices in life. I am not the type of guy that tells a girl what she needs to do for me , or how she has to dress for me or do her hair for me whatsoever. If she asks me a question then I will give her my honest opinion but I am not demanding her to do what I say. Are people that insecure about themselves?
Have you ever had someone tell you that you made them a certain way?
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