Why are there so many jerks in this life?

[Anonymous]

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11 mo

Why are people jerks to kind people?

[Sevenpointfive]

i've gotten that. i'd say this was funny but it wasn't for me. my anxiety was so bad at one point i was too focused on my panic that i barely cared about how rude i was being. i couldn't do anything about it if i wanted to. so i seem disinterested or like a jerk. that's not my intention. (some people really are jerks though. but i don't put up with that shit. ;)

[Cidknee]

Because they need that ass whipped.

[RandomGirl42]

um... ok, I'm kind of seeing a pattern with your questions. You're not really having a good day are you?

[Asker]

Relationally not a good life. I was bullied for 8 years. I gained few shallow friends for 3 years, and then lost them all. After that I was around people who treated me like they were better than me for 22 years. Currently I have no friends. I have good reasons for asking such questions.

[RandomGirl42]

What would you do with the answer if you got it?

[RandomGirl42]

Please, do not take this the wrong way but what you are doing here is setting yourself up to play a victim role which only leads to people bullying you. You are creating a cycle here. Look at your wording from all your posts. If you are here to make new friends and want people to 'not be jerks' and all that then why do you come in right away telling us, complete strangers, that you are a depressed loser that no one likes so we shouldn't either. See the pattern? I'm really trying to help here and I hope you're not just a troll 'cause I can be naive at this social media stuff and not realize I been baited. 😳

[Asker]

@randomgirl42 I'm sorry but I have been a live for 46 years, and I've been online for 22+ years. I've seen both sides of the tracts. I have a right to be angry. All this place is about is writing opinions, and lots of immorality. I would move on, but I know from that 22+ years of experience, that all websites like this one is bad. It all boils down to choosing your poison.

[RandomGirl42]

"All this place is about is writing opinions" . Yes, and? You have a right to be angry about 22+ years of other peoples opinions from websites? I'm not sure I'm understanding. And I don't know, I don't think this website is bad. I've been having a lot of fun here. 🤷‍♀️ But you are right that it all boils down to what we choose.

[RandomGirl42]

Ty for the MHO 😊

[Flowersareawsome22]

Immature people.

[fish5505_87]

Without Jerks, you cold not have good people!

[Nikki1989]

Trumpism.

[Asker]

Sorry that doesn't count, I knew jerks since 1986.

[Sunrising]

Have you any instances in mind on GAG's?

[Asker]

I'm thinking about real life and the internet as a whole. Not just GAG, but GAG is bad too. It is not hard to find nasty stuff here.

[Sunrising]

I'm happy being on GAG's.
One guy probably thinks I am unfriendly but he's got over a thousand followers on GAG's, and never ask a question, or given an opinion, and wants to be private and is uncontactable, but wants me to follow him. I would like to know why.
Have you had any problems with GAG members?

[Asker]

I have had problems with several GAG members. I blocked some of them. One tried to befriend me, and then tried to scam me out of some money.

[beefcakebradybatson]

C-A-P-I-T-A-L-I-S-M !!!

[Sunrising]

@beefcakebradybatson Is there a way to eradicate jerks?

[beefcakebradybatson]

@Sunrising No, because they'll always exist as long as we humans live.

[LiamJHayden]

Selfishness.