What do you guys think of this?

[Jessica1354]

So I’m a 31 year old woman who never had a boyfriend still a virgin and still living with my parents. But I work at McDonald’s and I got my own car.

[Orion84]

None of that means anything to me, specifically.

I don't mean that in a negative, or condescending way, though. Assuming I were to meet/date someone that told me that about herself, if wouldn't make a difference. I wouldn't think better, or worse, of her, because none of that has anything to do with what I look for in a woman.

What matters is compatibility and personality. As long as we got along, and I liked you as a person, I wouldn't care that you lived at home, or worked at McDonald's.

[Berethor]

It's okay, men don't tend to care about woman's money, but we do care about virginity.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[Brady]

Bein single can giv u freedom n not worry about things like someone messing up something 4u, throwing away, losing somethin u want/need.

It can also not giv u help when needed if u need someone like in a med emergency (Lifealert). If you're worried about bein a virgin u can hav friends w/benefits.

U can help your parents. Peopl can get problems when they get oldr, Alzhimer's, etc. Dependin on u it's bettr than gettin a divorce.

As long as u hav a job (most important) n a car you're allright.

[bowenw]

If you want to start dating, try doing things where you can meet and talk to people so they can get to know you. Please feel free to DM if you wish.

[dudeinohio]

Id be concerned why you are a virgin. Is it just because you haven't had the opportunity for sex or is it because you are waiting for marriage. Otherwise, no other issues. Don't let the idiot who called you a loser bother you.

[live2dance25]

You just haven’t found the right one yet. Don’t worry, you will find someone!

[exitseven]

I do not know much else about you so I cannot really draw any conclusions.

[Jessica1354]

I just wanted your opinion but I’m just a loser who never had a boyfriend still a virgin & living with parents

[exitseven]

I think that you have low self esteem.

[Jessica1354]

What do you mean

[exitseven]

if you thinl you are a loser than you will be a loser

[Jessica1354]

What do you think

[exitseven]

I don't know.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Personally? nothing. What am I suppose to think?

[Jessica1354]

I just wanted your opinion but I’m just a loser who never had a boyfriend still a virgin & living with parents

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I don't think you're loser because you never had a boyfriend nor sex.

A loser is someone who refuses to work and just depends on others and makes a bunch of excuses in life.

[Jessica1354]

You think so

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes. Most of life is about perspective, belief and mindset.

If you see yourself as a loser then that can seriously damage and ruin your life.

[Jessica1354]

Yea you’re right thanks (:

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Welcome. Just slowly begin to shift your belief system.

This is done by writing things down or using positive repetitions to create new neuron pathways in your mind til they form into a strong belief system.

[Anonymous]

What are we supposed to think about it?

More importantly, what do YOU think about it?

[Jessica1354]

I just think I’m a loser who still lives with her parents still a virgin & never had a boyfriend

[Opinion Owner]

Well what makes a person a winner to you? A million dollars? A big house? Dozens of the opposite gender falling at you feet?

[Jessica1354]

I’m not sure lol

[Opinion Owner]

Well see that's what I'm getting at. I used to worry about this 💩 all the a way to 40. Worrying about was I good enough, did I have a good enough job, enough friends, enough income, status etc.
Finally one day you come to the realization that no 2 peoples lives are identical and your life can always change in a heartbeat for the better or worse. So stop beating yourself up about where you're at. Nobody is getting out of life alive. And in your final moments these are not the things you're going to worry about. Did you live a good life. Did you touch other people's lives. That's all that really matters. Trust me, don't waste life beating yourself up. It's short enough.

[Raydergman26]

I would date and marry you beautiful

[Raydergman26]

I would like to meet you

[In_Trance]

Lame

[TheRealJunior]

damn