What do guys think about this?

[hellfirec]

If a girl has genuine feelings for you and you know that. You also feel something for her. The girl has given you some signals also about her liking towards you.
So do you expect her to confess first instead of you going first and ask her?

[Vikkrram]

Ok so depends on a guy and situation you have , like if a guy is introvert he would like that a girl should try having chat wid him. And if a guy is neighbour , classmates , colleagues then it makes more difficult to approach and everyone have a fear of rejection. And ma'am guys don't really understand hints that girls gives believe me.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As for me if I have feelings for someone I’ll let her know & if she has feelings for me I hope she lets me know as well. Sometimes love is blind so if you like someone let them know.

[hellfirec]

We were colleagues. I added him on instagram and tried to initiate conversation on Teams our official office app once or twice to let him know that I am interested in conversations. I know this is not too much hints 🙈

[hellfirec]

Sorry by mistake commented you😛

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Adding him on Instagram, that’s so cute.

[hellfirec]

Thanks. Wish he also feels the same

[princessxx2]

SMile at her 10 times on 10 different says. you can confess to her, when you catch her staring at you haha

one help - Sex after guy has pooped is bad? ↗

[spartan55]

First of all, how are you certain he knows you are interested? The chances of your hints or signals registering are slim and none.

[hellfirec]

We were colleagues. I added him on instagram and tried to initiate conversation on Teams our official office app once or twice to let him know that I am interested in conversations. I know this is not too much hints 🙈

[Jdjfjcjj]

No, it both have made it obvious, his job is as easy as you can make it for him. He needs to work on his confidence

[Jamie05rhs]

How does he know that you have genuine feelings for him? Are you just assuming that?

[hellfirec]

Tbh I haven’t given him too strong hints. We were colleagues so of course we had be in our limits so added him on Instagram then I used to talk very sweetly (which I thought was a hint😛) I always showed him that i m interested in talking with him. Sometimes I tried to initiate the conversations. I replied 2-3 times on his stories on Instagram.
Now a week ago I asked him for coffee

[Jamie05rhs]

@hellfirec
"I always showed him that i m interested in talking with him.". That doesn't mean shit. Sorry lol. Unless you're talking specifically about love it relationships, he's probably just wondering wtf you want with him. He's not taking you seriously at this point, because you haven't shown him a reason.

Oooo! You asked him out for coffee? Now we're getting somewhere! 😃
So what did he say?

[hellfirec]

Of course he said yes😛 he seemed quite happy after asking this 😀

[Lucifer_666]

If she gave me signals, I would approach her.

[hellfirec]

Kike what type of signals you would need to approach a girl?

[Lucifer_666]

A smile for example. That’s a clear sign of attraction.

[Rockstarrrrr]

If it's that obvious I would ask her first...

[Rockstarrrrr]

Ask her out *

[Anonymous]

I never expect a girl to do anything requiring some proaction or bravery.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I put for the effort for the first 40 years. Of my life. The next 40 the women can do it.

[Ckendrick06]

I’d ask her first