What would you think about this as a guy?

[Anonymous]

So this man and I talk like once or twice a week (thats when we meet due to school). And usually we are very flirty and teasing each other and enjoying each others company, but that day i was kinda sad, and coudnt say anything to him (even though he sat next to me and wanted to talk, but i said very short answers and literally didn't tell him any story like i usually do).

But i smiled at him and stuff, and he later tried to make me smile i guess by making stupid face at me lol.

Do you think i was dumb or cringe by this? What would you think about this as a guy?

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And usually i smile a lot especially when he's around, but that day i was literally concentrating to not to cry 💀 so I don't know if i was cringe or anything

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t think of it in a bad way if that’s what you’re thinking. I’d think that obviously there’s something bothering you. Everyone has bad days. We all handle things differently. But no I wouldn’t think any less of you or something like that. What are you thinking that he thinks about that situation?

[Asker]

I just feel kind of bad, because he wanted to talk to me and thing like that, but the vibe just wasn't there for me.
I usually very happy person around him, and we have the same sense of humor, so we get along pretty well. But that day i coudnt come up with anything fun or interesting, and we didn't really talk.

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t feel bad for something that is a natural response in times of sadness. I’m sure he’s been through so things as well so he understands. You don’t really have to explain that to most humans as we’ve all been through some things. If you feel that bad, the next time just tell him. Apologize. Not that I think you need to but if it helps you feel better than apologize and explain to him why you felt that way. I mean you don’t have to go into detail about what’s going on if you choose not to. Just say I wanted to apologize for the other day. I know you were trying to converse w me. I just had some things going on that were on my mind. Honestly again I don’t think you need to explain yourself. He will understand. If he doesn’t than he’s probably not someone you’d want as a friend.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Opinion Owner]

You’re wrlcome

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