GUYS. What is your opinion on this?

[Anonymous]

I am currently dating a guy.
Once in ahwile I will come over his place which is 1 and a half hour travel time from my place (I’m taking train 🚊).
He’s unable to pick me up on my house cause he’s working. So we will just meet somewhere near the train station after his work.

When I need to go home, why he never offer to send me home even if he has a car?
He will still let me take the train going home.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m an independent woman but I think girls will understand the feeling that “why he never initiated to offer me way back home?”

I know this will sound bulshit to others but I just felt unhappy. Or maybe because I’m expecting too much?

[maximumpower]

if you're an independent woman then this shouldn't be an issue.
you took the train to get there, you can take the train back - no problem.
have you ever considered HIS situation here?
believe you're expecting too much.
if you're just unhappy, don't drop it on his doorstep - you own it.

[HighValue]

He might think that if he offers to drive you home it will become a habit and be expected every time.

[MCheetah]

You're expecting too much. If you're fine taking the train there, why the hell should he spend three hours driving for something you can clearly do yourself? Are you that narcissitic and selfish? It's just illogical and stupid for him to spend a total of three hours driving, and wasting gas (especially right now), when you took the train there, yourself. You sound needy as f*ck and selfish, to be honest.

[Asker]

Maybe I’m still applying the traditional way of dating/courting in our culture that’s why I’m looking for that kind of initiative.
I forgot to mention that we have a different race.

And you don’t need to be furious. Hahaha. Chill out. 😂

[Dkc123]

Get it.. it would be nice gesture to offer but it would also be a stupid thing to offer or do.

[RuthlessAggression]

I don't get long distance relationships. I'm a "friend" of a girl, that's only 20 minutes away, and that's if I get on the highway, but, hour and a half. I don't get that. Just why

[In_Trance]

do you wanna see him or not?